Hi all
I have this curiosity, about how it is to date a girl or boy in chastity devices. I know nothing about the idea, how to accept this, or if accepted or fighted
Anymore, what kind of person, what characteristics they have? It's a hindrance or they found a good thing?
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    Milord I read the post, it doesn’t answer my question. I would like to know the unbelted point of view, not about dating in general

        Milord I would like to know the unbelted point of view, not about dating in general

        answer from my wife: it's actually no different from any normal date, except that you can't have sex

            Joh I am happy to answer this but please @milord no moral posturing. I know my aunt and many others are exhausted by it. I come to the forum to talk with people who also wear belts and to talk openly about it as there aren't many places to do that. Please don't take this the wrong way, but nobody who comes here wants to be lectured.

            I have been dating my BF for about a year and a half. Obviously he knows about the belt. At the beginning he was fascinated about it and then, like me, frustrated because of it. We do go out and do the same things other people do on dates, like movies, dinner, hanging out, etc. but at the end of the night we just don't do things most other couples do. I try to keep him satisfied the best I can, but not being able to have sex is hard for him, and me too sometimes but I have learned to deal with it. When he is away at school on the East Coast so it is not so hard but when he comes back home it is tougher.

            Yes I tried fighting fighting the belt at the beginning, but that didn't work. Eventually though I accepted it and even though it sucks to admit this, I was glad it was there to keep me from doing things I shouldn't be doing as i know I would regret them.

                Susan

                with you, the situation is a bit more complicated. i don't even think the belt is the biggest problem, but the fact that you are in a long-distance relationship for most of the year.

                Susan I was glad it was there to keep me from doing things I shouldn't be doing as i know I would regret them.

                your aunt will disagree with me, but i think for what he accepts (long distance relationship+chastity belt), he has actually proven himself very worthy of having sex with you in the near future, he seems to really love you 🙂

                      Angelina your aunt will disagree with me, but i think for what he accepts (long distance relationship+chastity belt), he has actually proven himself very worthy of having sex with you in the near future, he seems to really love you 🙂

                      I apologize if other people are getting tired of me (I am) but this is outrageous.

                      You are dangerous.

                      @Jenna

                      • Ines replied to this.

                          Ines I do not understand your point in this sentence, @Avery.

                          Is she not telling a minor it is OK to have sex with her boyfriend in direct contradiction to the wishes of her legal guardian?

                              Avery
                              If I did follow things correctly, Susan and her Bf are both over 18. So what is your issue with this?

                                  curious If I did follow things correctly, Susan and her Bf are both over 18. So what is your issue with this?

                                  Perhaps @Susan is over eighteen. I still think it is not appropriate to tell someone who remains the responsibility of someone else to have sex with someone when we know the person responsible has such strong feelings about it.

                                  At any rate I am certain @Susan will discuss it with @Jenna before proceeding. That is the adult thing to do.

                                  And this is a serious matter, so don't f around with it.

                                      Avery

                                      Agree. I will not ever advise about to have or not to have to someone that is not my friend and I have a deep knowledge about the relationship.
                                      Further it is a chastity forum, so "IN GENERAL" I think that before marriage sex is a shame.

                                          Ines according to my view it has been a pretty innocent remark on someone that talked about her situation
                                          My 2 cents

                                          Ines Further it is a chastity forum, so "IN GENERAL" I think that before marriage sex is a shame.

                                          But it is a personal opinion. There are people here that do sex outside a marriage. And they don't seems to be ashamed by this

                                                Avery Nobody other has right to decide. Only the partners.
                                                Opinion of parents etc is totaly irelevant if you are older that age of consent

                                                    Kaja Opinion of parents etc is totaly irelevant if you are older that age of consent

                                                    I'm certain Jenna would not cast her out if she went ahead with this. But some parents might. And, where I live, if she is over 18, they no longer legally need to support her. So what does she do? Go to a homeless shelter? Another relative? To the BF and ask him to support her? No. In real life you cannot do things that might alienate yourself from your family.

                                                    Let me add what if she got pregnant? Doubt she's been given birth control.