Dating a belted girl (or boy)
Joh I am happy to answer this but please @milord no moral posturing. I know my aunt and many others are exhausted by it. I come to the forum to talk with people who also wear belts and to talk openly about it as there aren't many places to do that. Please don't take this the wrong way, but nobody who comes here wants to be lectured.
I have been dating my BF for about a year and a half. Obviously he knows about the belt. At the beginning he was fascinated about it and then, like me, frustrated because of it. We do go out and do the same things other people do on dates, like movies, dinner, hanging out, etc. but at the end of the night we just don't do things most other couples do. I try to keep him satisfied the best I can, but not being able to have sex is hard for him, and me too sometimes but I have learned to deal with it. When he is away at school on the East Coast so it is not so hard but when he comes back home it is tougher.
Yes I tried fighting fighting the belt at the beginning, but that didn't work. Eventually though I accepted it and even though it sucks to admit this, I was glad it was there to keep me from doing things I shouldn't be doing as i know I would regret them.
with you, the situation is a bit more complicated. i don't even think the belt is the biggest problem, but the fact that you are in a long-distance relationship for most of the year.
Susan I was glad it was there to keep me from doing things I shouldn't be doing as i know I would regret them.
your aunt will disagree with me, but i think for what he accepts (long distance relationship+chastity belt), he has actually proven himself very worthy of having sex with you in the near future, he seems to really love you 
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Angelina your aunt will disagree with me, but i think for what he accepts (long distance relationship+chastity belt), he has actually proven himself very worthy of having sex with you in the near future, he seems to really love you
I apologize if other people are getting tired of me (I am) but this is outrageous.
You are dangerous.
curious If I did follow things correctly, Susan and her Bf are both over 18. So what is your issue with this?
Perhaps @Susan is over eighteen. I still think it is not appropriate to tell someone who remains the responsibility of someone else to have sex with someone when we know the person responsible has such strong feelings about it.
At any rate I am certain @Susan will discuss it with @Jenna before proceeding. That is the adult thing to do.
And this is a serious matter, so don't f around with it.
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Ines according to my view it has been a pretty innocent remark on someone that talked about her situation
My 2 cents
Ines Further it is a chastity forum, so "IN GENERAL" I think that before marriage sex is a shame.
But it is a personal opinion. There are people here that do sex outside a marriage. And they don't seems to be ashamed by this
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Kaja Opinion of parents etc is totaly irelevant if you are older that age of consent
I'm certain Jenna would not cast her out if she went ahead with this. But some parents might. And, where I live, if she is over 18, they no longer legally need to support her. So what does she do? Go to a homeless shelter? Another relative? To the BF and ask him to support her? No. In real life you cannot do things that might alienate yourself from your family.
Let me add what if she got pregnant? Doubt she's been given birth control.
While I see your point on this issue, don't you think you are a bit inconsistent in your position?
First you argue that @Jenna is wrong in belting her nieces.
Thenn @Angelina observes, that a young man continues to date @Susan despite having a long distance relationship for much of the time and despite not having been able to have sex with her. To my mind, this shows he is not superficial and really interested in her as a person and not just quick sex. Or in other words, that this could be considered a stable and ongoing relationship. According to @Jenna the condition for being allowed to have sex. So when @Angelina points to that this is wrong again? Why?
And if you give @Angelina the benefit of the doubt (that she is who she claims to be) then she is roughly the same age as @Susan. Two girls talking about at which stage in a relationship sex should be allowed. I don't think this is neither unusual nor wrong.