Telling best friend?

Milord Child sexual abuse

youdontknowme
You are definitively right.

youdontknowme

I used to be heavily involved in 4-H. The local cropshare was referred to as Community Supported Agriculture.

That was better than this.

WriterAlexis Some people are also in favor of the Confederate States of America. In the interest of peace, I will avoid placing those on a value scale.

youdontknowme Ines's objective is to change that reputation and create a place to talk about practicalities of real long-term chastity belt use, the diverse uses of chastity belts outside of BDSM relationships and more

and I share this goal, but I think that the current politics in the forum will lead to the opposite. Unfortunately I can't answer your other arguments because I don't know what CSA means?

Tabletop

I would like to help you and want you to feel welcome, unfortunately my hands are tied, I can't do it without violating the rules of the forum

curious But what if AI can provide for the demand without children being affected?

This is actually completely unnecessary, fantasy arises in the head and no matter what we do, we will not be able to control other people's thoughts. Otherwise I agree with you

Ines Usually never was possible.

Of course it was, that's the reason why I joined this forum back then so that I could talk about my problems without sexualization. This community helped me a lot back then and I hope it helps other people too. And Ines, I like you, I appreciate your work and believe that you are fighting for the right goals. The fact is that the community is unfortunately no longer open to some discussions that would be important. I don't want to attack you, I want to give you and all other users something to think about so that everyone can feel welcome again. If we no longer allow this, exactly the opposite of what we want will happen, then we will become another SM community

Angelina Of course it was, that's the reason why I joined this forum back then so that I could talk about my problems without sexualization

I disagree. Something that prevent sex is sexual in nature. It's like asking to speak of atheism pretending to avoid religion. Chastity belts are meant to prevent sexual acts. Of course is sex. see masturbation topic. In no other sexual forum there is so talking about masturbation than this.
If chastity belt was meant as a medical device, than you can ask for neutrality, but an item whose purpose is to prevent the wearer from doing sex is definitely sexual, and minors should stay away.

Milord Can also argue that preventing what I was engaged in in this way, while unconventional would have been in my best interest.
Not saying it’s right, but there’s always multiple interpretations

Sasha
I'm sorry but I can't understand how your words are tied to chastity belt and sexualization. Can you help me?

Milord Yes it would be tied to my sexuality, what I’m saying is that if I’d be pushed in that direction it could be seen as positive.
Again, just playing devils advocate it’s never ok to force it

Sasha
I like to be challenged. Still you have to admit that your case is unique, and hardly can be a lawful base to create a policy. It's too personal.

Milord

Something that prevent sex is sexual in nature.

Is crippling social awkwardness sexual?

That's hot.

WriterAlexis Your face is so ugly, it is sexual in nature.

Milord I would say when another person controls whether you can have sex, there is a sexual component in that. Not sure that is a dealbreaker for platonic and familial keyholding, but it is a complication those dynamics have to handle.

youdontknowme you can see it in this forum. See how many posts there are about masturbation. Not even in a sex forum there is this amount of conversation on this topic. But it's normal, it's not an anomaly at all. I can totally understand. Just let's avoid thinking that the whole chastity belting is not about sexuality.

youdontknowme

#jealous

Just wait until my glow up.

I think since the CB restricts the free development of sexuality, it is never neutral.

Milord

I don't know, I've seen it on teen forums that are arguably more policed than here. People really started wilding when it first got published in Teen Vogue. Now it's mentioned in practically every issue.

Milord

i don't want to be misunderstood, of course a chastity belt is a sexual device, the belt is sexual. i mean that the wearer of the belt is not sexualised, that was something that worked better in the past

youdontknowme I was about to make a joke out of that, but between your past experiences and the fact that minors are actively present in this thread, better not.

it was just a saying. short explanation for everyone, i can't help without breaking the rules of the forum (that frustrates me)

Milord Just let's avoid thinking that the whole chastity belting is not about sexuality.

of course this forum is also primarily about sexuality, but you can discuss things like a sexual fantasy or you can discuss what is factual