Tasha I like to read. And btw I’m not trying to convince. I’m also grateful you answer me.

Sexuality is a personal think, part of personal freedom. From my point of view unfair will be toward your sister, that in my own opinion should be free exactly as you. Your mother can decide and is (should be) free to leave when she wants. Also, your mother has much more break than you I suppose. A married woman hardly compare with a girl, so unfair is that you all have the same situation.

Anyway, I’ve done a long and boring post of all the reasons that makes parental belting very bad

https://unwedchastity.org/d/1006-why-it-is-wrong-for-a-parent-to-use-chastity-on-offspring/

Just so that I don’t have to repeat all.

I will close it here, so to not berate you. I want you to feel welcome here

      Joh good point indeed. I haven't discussed it with much with my sister, she doesn't discuss about chastity much with me either.

      My mom (I feel) is belted mainly because of my dad. But what they do with thier life I don't try to indulge in

        Milord what you have written is not boring per say. It's perfectly understandable to those who have been belted in. Those who find a fetish in it might indeed find it boring.

        I don't feel berated or anything, I'm open to listening for new things which is why I joined in the first place.

        I'll maybe write a long post with my opinions another day

            Milord For me it seems very strange that a girl able to run a business submit to being in chastity.

            And being a boss for other people 😃

                Tasha Hello
                welcome since when are you wearing a belt and what was your first reaction and how did you wear a belt? I started wearing a belt a few months ago and I don't like it but like you I have to wear it for my family. Are your showers monitored?

                    Dakshina hello, I've mentioned from when I was locked (part time ie, not during schools only vacations) in my introduction.

                    My first reaction was "Why wear this? I promise to not do the things you warn against" but it's obvious that wasn't of help. I knew and agreed with my parents points at that time.(and still do) so you could say even though I didn't like it a lot, I didn't want to rip it out or anything.

                    Nowadays I don't mind it a lot (you can read the other posts for some clarity)

                    My showers now aren't monitored but they were till I turned 19

                    In the beginning I did feel a lot of discomfort with it, especially during the COVID time. But I didn't have to wear it to school or anything, it was just during vacations. For the last 2 years it's 24/7, I'm nearing my 20th soon. So you can say I've been in full 24/7 from the time I was 18 (ie finished the school)

                    Edit: a bit more clarity.

                        Also @Dakshina you mentioned your friends also wore a belt? How did you manage to break the ice in terms of asking / discussing chastity with them? Because online it's easier to ask, asking things of this sort offline is a bit uneasy for me

                        Tasha Not quite. You rule people and at the same time have to wear a parental belt not by your choice.

                            Tasha 除非他们决定在上面添加奇怪的装饰品来限制活动

                            So are accessories commonly used in your family?

                                Renita ruling is a pretty harsh word I think. Yes I pay them money and expect certain tasks in return. But i also listen to thier criticisms, collaborate with them, give/take help when needed. So it's more like co-workers but I happen to pay them.

                                But sometimes it can get tough when making some decisions, during those times you could say i "rule" them, but in general I feel as being equal to my contract workers.

                                    Tasha Yes you are right. but also here only few peoples...

                                      You mentioned getting time once a month for release. Don't you think you would be better off without it?

                                        Tasha this is ruling by definition today. Also the good leadership principles. So you are a 19 yo manager. That’s a lot, and this made your acceptance of chastity belt weirder. This is what @Renita is saying

                                        At least I think

                                            Xander No, I fought with my parents to get a relief time once I was in it 24/7. I channel a lot of my energy into things other than just pleasuring myself, so I feel it's justified I get a bit of alone time once a few months.

                                                Tasha Also I suppose this forum doesn't have much exposure in India

                                                I get my inspiration to wearing a belt, from Hindu-Monks (sadhus) some wear one

                                                  Tasha I also get a orgasm once in a while (which I fought with my parents for a long time) so I'm not fully pent up every time.

                                                  are there fixed intervals, or do you have to ask your parents, or do your parents "surprise" you with this?

                                                  Tasha My showers now aren't monitored but they were till I turned 19

                                                  May I ask why it used to be monitored and is no longer?

                                                  another somewhat offtopic question because I read about it: is it true that in india it is forbidden by law for people under 18 to have sex? i find this absolutely unbelievable that's why i ask

                                                        Angelina It's not a fixed interval at all. I've tried asking for the key only for them to not give it to me. Recently (I mean from last year) they give me the keys every few months to have some time. I've mentioned before, it's not a lot of time, but enough to have some alone time. So you could say they surprise me.

                                                        At the start it was to make sure I cleaned up well, for my mum the cleaning was a big deal (and rightly so). But once I started wearing it 24/7 from 18 yrs (ie after school) they were more strict about the cleaning, making sure it fits well and all.

                                                        I suppose I behaved well and cleaned myself pretty good so my mum just let me know that they don't need to be supervised one day. Not sure if something else was also at play here.

                                                        I feel under 18 is illegal everywhere? 16,17,18 those kind of ages? Or am I mistaken? Anyways most students don't indulge in any. But you might not know about a huge coaching "industry" here in India where they prepare kids for exams (it's horrendus if you look at the stories online) thier the students sometimes indulge in smoking, alc, and sometimes intercourse. It's done as a form of stress relief. I know someone who gone through that. It's really mentally taxing for them, you should maybe check it out if you get time.