Milord well yeah it probably is strange to most people. From what I read here, the people who were belted/caged get jobs/move out to escape from it.

In the intro, i did mention my mum and sister already wears a belt. I do love them a lot, so if I'm free and the others aren't, that's in my mind a bit "unhealthy/unfair?" Although people might say otherwise. I don't know what word to use for "unhealthy/unfair". Also I've mentioned, my parents - other than the belt - treat us pretty good so that's also a factor.

I don't 'enjoy' being in a belt. Like I certainly wouldn't ask to be put in a belt, but I don't mind it either. It doesn't interfere with daily life so much (unless they decide to add weird ornaments to it that restrict movement) so it's mostly ok.

I also get a orgasm once in a while (which I fought with my parents for a long time) so I'm not fully pent up every time.

Sorry if it seems like I'm trying to change your mind or anything, I just wanted to write about my situation. I just like to write a lot 😄

      I've never been able to talk about all this to others because most online communities are for fiction stories, or they are pretty much dormant communities. I did try a few discord servers, but those weren't good either so I deleted them.

      C-B i should have perhaps said common in online discussions. Most discussions I find are either from the EU/US. Only a handful from the rest.

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          Tasha In the intro, i did mention my mum and sister already wears a belt. I do love them a lot, so if I'm free and the others aren't, that's in my mind a bit "unhealthy/unfair?

          In real life never can everything be fair for different people. You are older then your sister and your mother decide for herself. I do not see it as unfair if you would be unbelted now. Your sister will be most likely as well if she is older and build her own company or is in a stable relationship.

              Tasha I like to read. And btw I’m not trying to convince. I’m also grateful you answer me.

              Sexuality is a personal think, part of personal freedom. From my point of view unfair will be toward your sister, that in my own opinion should be free exactly as you. Your mother can decide and is (should be) free to leave when she wants. Also, your mother has much more break than you I suppose. A married woman hardly compare with a girl, so unfair is that you all have the same situation.

              Anyway, I’ve done a long and boring post of all the reasons that makes parental belting very bad

              https://unwedchastity.org/d/1006-why-it-is-wrong-for-a-parent-to-use-chastity-on-offspring/

              Just so that I don’t have to repeat all.

              I will close it here, so to not berate you. I want you to feel welcome here

                  Joh good point indeed. I haven't discussed it with much with my sister, she doesn't discuss about chastity much with me either.

                  My mom (I feel) is belted mainly because of my dad. But what they do with thier life I don't try to indulge in

                    Milord what you have written is not boring per say. It's perfectly understandable to those who have been belted in. Those who find a fetish in it might indeed find it boring.

                    I don't feel berated or anything, I'm open to listening for new things which is why I joined in the first place.

                    I'll maybe write a long post with my opinions another day

                        Milord For me it seems very strange that a girl able to run a business submit to being in chastity.

                        And being a boss for other people 😃

                            Tasha Hello
                            welcome since when are you wearing a belt and what was your first reaction and how did you wear a belt? I started wearing a belt a few months ago and I don't like it but like you I have to wear it for my family. Are your showers monitored?

                                Dakshina hello, I've mentioned from when I was locked (part time ie, not during schools only vacations) in my introduction.

                                My first reaction was "Why wear this? I promise to not do the things you warn against" but it's obvious that wasn't of help. I knew and agreed with my parents points at that time.(and still do) so you could say even though I didn't like it a lot, I didn't want to rip it out or anything.

                                Nowadays I don't mind it a lot (you can read the other posts for some clarity)

                                My showers now aren't monitored but they were till I turned 19

                                In the beginning I did feel a lot of discomfort with it, especially during the COVID time. But I didn't have to wear it to school or anything, it was just during vacations. For the last 2 years it's 24/7, I'm nearing my 20th soon. So you can say I've been in full 24/7 from the time I was 18 (ie finished the school)

                                Edit: a bit more clarity.

                                    Also @Dakshina you mentioned your friends also wore a belt? How did you manage to break the ice in terms of asking / discussing chastity with them? Because online it's easier to ask, asking things of this sort offline is a bit uneasy for me

                                    Tasha Not quite. You rule people and at the same time have to wear a parental belt not by your choice.

                                        Tasha 除非他们决定在上面添加奇怪的装饰品来限制活动

                                        So are accessories commonly used in your family?

                                            Renita ruling is a pretty harsh word I think. Yes I pay them money and expect certain tasks in return. But i also listen to thier criticisms, collaborate with them, give/take help when needed. So it's more like co-workers but I happen to pay them.

                                            But sometimes it can get tough when making some decisions, during those times you could say i "rule" them, but in general I feel as being equal to my contract workers.

                                                Tasha Yes you are right. but also here only few peoples...

                                                  You mentioned getting time once a month for release. Don't you think you would be better off without it?

                                                    Tasha this is ruling by definition today. Also the good leadership principles. So you are a 19 yo manager. That’s a lot, and this made your acceptance of chastity belt weirder. This is what @Renita is saying

                                                    At least I think