Tasha's stuff
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Dakshina hello, I've mentioned from when I was locked (part time ie, not during schools only vacations) in my introduction.
My first reaction was "Why wear this? I promise to not do the things you warn against" but it's obvious that wasn't of help. I knew and agreed with my parents points at that time.(and still do) so you could say even though I didn't like it a lot, I didn't want to rip it out or anything.
Nowadays I don't mind it a lot (you can read the other posts for some clarity)
My showers now aren't monitored but they were till I turned 19
In the beginning I did feel a lot of discomfort with it, especially during the COVID time. But I didn't have to wear it to school or anything, it was just during vacations. For the last 2 years it's 24/7, I'm nearing my 20th soon. So you can say I've been in full 24/7 from the time I was 18 (ie finished the school)
Edit: a bit more clarity.
Renita ruling is a pretty harsh word I think. Yes I pay them money and expect certain tasks in return. But i also listen to thier criticisms, collaborate with them, give/take help when needed. So it's more like co-workers but I happen to pay them.
But sometimes it can get tough when making some decisions, during those times you could say i "rule" them, but in general I feel as being equal to my contract workers.
You mentioned getting time once a month for release. Don't you think you would be better off without it?
Tasha I also get a orgasm once in a while (which I fought with my parents for a long time) so I'm not fully pent up every time.
are there fixed intervals, or do you have to ask your parents, or do your parents "surprise" you with this?
Tasha My showers now aren't monitored but they were till I turned 19
May I ask why it used to be monitored and is no longer?
another somewhat offtopic question because I read about it: is it true that in india it is forbidden by law for people under 18 to have sex? i find this absolutely unbelievable that's why i ask
Angelina It's not a fixed interval at all. I've tried asking for the key only for them to not give it to me. Recently (I mean from last year) they give me the keys every few months to have some time. I've mentioned before, it's not a lot of time, but enough to have some alone time. So you could say they surprise me.
At the start it was to make sure I cleaned up well, for my mum the cleaning was a big deal (and rightly so). But once I started wearing it 24/7 from 18 yrs (ie after school) they were more strict about the cleaning, making sure it fits well and all.
I suppose I behaved well and cleaned myself pretty good so my mum just let me know that they don't need to be supervised one day. Not sure if something else was also at play here.
I feel under 18 is illegal everywhere? 16,17,18 those kind of ages? Or am I mistaken? Anyways most students don't indulge in any. But you might not know about a huge coaching "industry" here in India where they prepare kids for exams (it's horrendus if you look at the stories online) thier the students sometimes indulge in smoking, alc, and sometimes intercourse. It's done as a form of stress relief. I know someone who gone through that. It's really mentally taxing for them, you should maybe check it out if you get time.
Tasha I feel under 18 is illegal everywhere? 16,17,18 those kind of ages?
Most of those laws are focused on keeping adults from doing things with children, and the adults in those cases would be committing a crime, not the kids.
Tasha Tasha, this is exactly where I am at. My aunt wanted 24/7 and once I got there it was a long time before I got any "me time". It was very hard as I had a boyfriend for most of that time and it was not easy to be with him at certain times. Now I get one hour per month with no belt on, I would like more but I will take that.