Tasha why can't I buy my own devices and use them ?
You can, but you might be required to install parental controls on any new device.
Laura But it's less convenient than from the desktop you use anyway
Because you can use your phone from anywhere and not just from your workplace.
Milord Living in parent home prevents someone to own property?
Property like real estate? I think it's different topic.
If you are talking about stuff, you can't hide it too long.
Renita You can, but you might be required to install parental controls on any new device.
"Install parental control on the phone you bought with your own money"
"no"
So?
Renita Property like real estate? I think it's different topic.
If you are talking about stuff, you can't hide it too long.
But I really have to believe that a 40+ woman isn't, in the rare case she have to, able to hide something to her mother? Something as easy as a phone?
Milord But I really have to believe that a 40+ woman isn't, in the rare case she have to, able to hide something to her mother? Something as easy as a phone?
When living in the same house and the mother doesn't believe in the daughter's right to privacy? I think it would be possible but extremely difficult.
Of course, if you are in this situation, you have either failed to establish what I would consider the bare minimum healthy boundaries for a parent/adult child relationship or you have opted into a non-standard parent/adult child relationship like Renita has. Also, my understanding is that she doesn't live with her mother, so it would probably be much easier for her to hide a device from her mother if she were so inclined than in the hypothetical we are talking about.
Regardless, we should probably get back on topic or move this discussion to the thread on parental controls, since it isn't really relevant to @Tasha
No tinted windows?
New Jersey, Vermont, and New Hampshire also do not allow any amount of window tint.
Renita If you are talking about stuff, you can't hide it too long.
it is not about hiding, it is about setting boundaries and declaring your own stuff off-limits to them. Facilitated by your own security setup, if necessary.
Milord able to hide something to her mother? Something as easy as a phone?
It's not my case. At least because I live in another place.
pestulens Also, my understanding is that she doesn't live with her mother, so it would probably be much easier for her to hide a device from her mother if she were so inclined than in the hypothetical we are talking about.
I don't need to hide it.
youdontknowme it is about setting boundaries and declaring your own stuff off-limits to them
If you let your parents put on a chastity belt, you can't talk about setting boundaries anymore.
youdontknowme "unability to set boundaries"
I will add to my list of what's wrong with parental belting
Renita If you let your parents put on a chastity belt, you can't talk about setting boundaries anymore.
well, but parental control on a mobile phone/laptop is something completely different. an adult can buy their own mobile phone at any time and do whatever they want with it, their parents don't even have to know about it. @Tasha has her own business and can certainly always buy another mobile phone financially if her parents come up with such ideas, but go to the locksmith and ask for a spare key for your chastity belt ...
Tasha what are you asking me ?
How far can your parents go if they take off the belt in the car right before arrival?
It's not about money. She must agree anyway. And it doesn't prevent running the business.
Angelina but go to the locksmith and ask for a spare key for your chastity belt ...
But she doesn't do it. Then what's a difference?
