Tasha's stuff

Milord

Angelina Before OC.
After will means a very angry husband 😉

Renita

Tasha Did you discuss this possibility with them?

Tasha

Angelina haven't really thought about when exactly, but I suppose once it's 'final' that I'll be marrying and spending my life with him, it makes sense to get out of the belt

Laura

Tasha but I suppose once it's 'final' that I'll be marrying and spending my life with him

That's called marriage 😂

Tasha it makes sense to get out of the belt

If you are ready to marry, why not wait a little more?

Angelina

Tasha haven't really thought about when exactly, but I suppose once it's 'final' that I'll be marrying and spending my life with him, it makes sense to get out of the belt

and how do your parents see it? does it always have to be marriage, or is it also enough if you are seriously together with someone for a very long time and want to live with him, for example?

youdontknowme Traditionally, the wedding is only complete once the marriage has been consummated - i.e. the groom and bride have spent a night together with all that implies.

really? i always thought from the moment they both say yes and are officially married

youdontknowme

Laura That's called marriage 😂

I reckon it means "once the marriage has been decided, but before the ceremony has been held". While handing over the keys as part of the ceremony seems romantic, I think it might raise some eyebrows that are better left unraised.

Tasha

youdontknowme this is what I meant. The ceremonies can be upto a week (varies from communities and religions) here. I belive for my family it's around 3-4 days of back to back "functions"/ceremonies.

edit: usually the marriage function happens with 100+ relatives (Most of them who we don't know 😂) who are present on all days (usually) and remember, the belt is just inside my family, not something the relatives would really know.

Laura

Tasha Only matters when the wedding night 😂

Tasha

Laura not quite sure what you mean hah

James

Tasha Utterly different question - cricket fan at all?

Laura

Tasha If a wedding takes few days, what day is a wedding night?

youdontknowme

Tasha Laura not quite sure what you mean hah

Traditionally, the wedding is only complete once the marriage has been consummated - i.e. the groom and bride have spent a night together with all that implies. The belt has to be off before then, but otherwise, the only influence it should have on the ceremony would be the belt's impact on clothing choices and dance styles.

Tasha

Laura if you mean the night where things happen, it's usually the 2nd day in my culture. Things vary a lot so it's definitely not the same everywhere.

The belt would have to be off before the functions begin, people here might not even know what a chastity belt is.

youdontknowme

Angelina I mean, sure, that is the point at which the couple is considered married, but a non-consummated marriage could be annulled (which is distinct from divorce in that the marriage is treated as if it had never existed) when the same was not possible for a consummated marriage.

Tasha

Angelina different places different traditions and customs I suppose

Tasha

Angelina and how do your parents see it?

I suppose if it's serious and I plan to live with him, we could work it out, might need some convincing on my part - explaining why he is good.

If it doesn't work, I'll go ahead anyways. Can't be living under their words for the entirety of my life.

Angelina

youdontknowme I mean, sure, that is the point at which the couple is considered married, but a non-consummated marriage could be annulled

I admit, I didn't know that

Tasha I don't see any point in that either,

i don't see any logic in it either, if you get the belt off at home and then get straight into the car with your parents and immediately put the belt back on again at home, i don't see where you can cheating

Tasha

Have you ever had to wear/undo a chastity belt while in a car? I had to today and it was super weird. Is there a way to do it without making it super awkward?

Why?: I had to go outside to a mall where there are metal detectors (its kind of common here). My parents of course didn't allow me to go freely, even though I went with them. We were in the car and they asked me and her to get the belt out. We were on the highway so it wasn't that embarrassing (no one will really look inside a car travelling at triple digit kph) but I had this thought of 'if I had to.. in a parking lot or somewhere people could see, how would I do it?'

When we were finished, I was asked to get the belt back on on our way back too.

We have a 7 seater MUV (2+3+2) , me and her sit on different rows, parents on the front row.

Laura

Tasha My parents of course didn't allow me to go freely, even though I went with them.

Why is this? Anyway I don't see a point to take off the belt in the car rather than at home

Tasha travelling at triple digit kph)

Do you live in Germany? 😂

Tasha but I had this thought of 'if I had to.. in a parking lot or somewhere people could see, how would I do it?'

No tinted windows?

MissBlossom

Tasha Have you ever had to wear/undo a chastity belt while in a car? I had to today and it was super weird. Is there a way to do it without making it super awkward?

No, I never have. For starters, you would have to take off your seatbelt if the car were moving, which is dangerous.

If I really needed to, for some reason, I would probably do it under a blanket. I normally wear dresses and skirts, which would probably make it easier than with pants.

However, my husband prefers to unlock and lock me himself, which would also complicate this, especially if moving.

I'm with @Laura. Just take it off at home.

Tasha

Laura No tinted windows?

Banned. People do get them but the police fines. We aren't that rich 🙁

Probably a kind of power-trip on their end. I don't see any point in that either, but I do wish to know what can be done if I'm in such a situation

Ines

Laura Why is this? Anyway I don't see a point to take off the belt in the car rather than at home

Good point.

Tasha

Ines I agree it doesn't make much sense to me either. This is the first time it happened. I'm hoping for this to be a one time occurrence.

Laura Do you live in Germany?

India uses kph for speed. The newer highways are nice 👌 old ones are bumpy and riddled with potholes.

Renita

Laura I don't see a point to take off the belt in the car rather than at home

She might not be picked up/dropped off at home.

Tasha but I do wish to know what can be done if I'm in such a situation

Park at the far end of the parking lot, where people go rarely.

Tasha I'm hoping for this to be a one time occurrence.

Since you run your business, it's less likely you always stay home.

Laura Yes, I know it's around 65 mph. But where did you see more?

70 in Texas.

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