Tasha very happy for you, and congratulations for your mindfulness about your sister feelings.

    Angelina under what conditions is wearing the belt definitely over for you?

    Well they say marriage is the end point. But i suppose moving out eventually, or discussing (fighting) for it also would work.

        Tasha I think what she meant is, what would it take for you to tell them you absolutely refuse to wear it anymore give me the keys now.
        For example, refusing any breaks going forward. Or demanding you wear thigh bands, etc.

            Tasha

            that sounds like an improvement, i'm happy for you, of course there's always room for improvement, but i think in your situation a compromise is the best solution for you and your parents. it's nice that you're taking your sister into consideration šŸ™‚

            Sasha I think what she meant is, what would it take for you to tell them you absolutely refuse to wear it anymore give me the keys now.

            so i kind of meant both, what endpoints are for herself and for her parents

                  Tasha Do you See a Change for a picture of your Typ of belt?

                      Angelina the day it starts interfering with me making money or living "comfortably" would be when I'll start to object to wearing the belt.

                          Joh you can see from the less number of messages, I've been super busy. I haven't forgotten

                              Tasha The reason why you posted less IS Not obvisly. It could also less interest in Posting after you archived you new agreei.
                              Your Info make it clear. Thank you.

                                Tasha or living "comfortably" would be when I'll start to object to wearing the belt.

                                could happen as soon as you start a relationship, what is your attitude towards it?

                                    Angelina Hi, dating is quite uncommon herex most marriages are arranged by the parents. (I am not a city)

                                    If I decide to date, it would be for eventually marrying them and loving and living with them so in that case yes, the belt will obviously come off.

                                    Currently I'm not into a one-night stands or short term relationships.

                                        Tasha Hi, dating is quite uncommon herex most marriages are arranged by the parents.

                                        Do they have someone in mind for you?

                                            Laura not at the moment. They haven't told anything about it

                                                Laura usually it's by the age of 25-27 - depends on the girl because nowadays some wait for thier education to finish or even get thier first jobs before marriage.

                                                I want to focus on my business right now, get it to a place that I'm pleased with and then find someone who doesn't object to me working šŸ™‚

                                                    Tasha Thank you for explaining that, a bit older then Iā€™d have thought.
                                                    Will it be difficult finding a partner that approves of your career?

                                                        Sasha it might be difficult, but nowadays it's common for women (in cities and suburbs) to have jobs

                                                          Tasha If I decide to date, it would be for eventually marrying them and loving and living with them so in that case yes, the belt will obviously come off.

                                                          but the belt only comes off when the wedding has taken place, what do you think a relationship with a belt could look like for you? what do you think about it?

                                                            Tasha usually it's by the age of 25-27

                                                            And are they supposed to stay virgin so long?

                                                                Milord Sigh.

                                                                Not everyone lives in a country where the subsistence level is guaranteed by the state.

                                                                So yes in a way it's mutual assured destruction, but if you are not really economically independent, nuking the family that provides you with resources might be one of these cases "yes it's your right, but have you considered all the side effects?" where experienced advisors (lawyers, tax advisors, etc) might suggest skipping exercising your rights.

                                                                    George

                                                                    @Tasha explained she runs a successful business and she's economically independent.

                                                                    As for the rest, impossible to make generic assumptions. I think I expressed my opinion in every possible way. Not a lot to add here.