Sin The outcome is that it brings my partner and I closer together, we maintain intimacy even when we're apart

I wish I had written that.

      Avery for me it is the same as you and @Sin

      And it worked very well. My wife and I have never been so close. Honestly I'm not sure if it's the cause or the effect, but for sure it works.

      I also have to say that my interest in preventing wandering fingers is limited. For me is about owning her. I have to say, it is shared by my wife

          Joh

          your posts are some of the most sensible on here, but i sometimes forget that your girlfriend wears a belt herself 😉

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              Milord And it worked very well. My wife and I have never been so close.

              Since I've just started my experiment wearing a belt as a part of a relationship I can only hope we achieve the same result you folks did. I must admit his kind of WTF response to my proposing a contract makes me fear he is not really interested in the nature of our relationship (e.g. like the closeness you mention) beyond the sexual part of it.

                  Angelina You Mix it with someone else. I would be more than Happy If she would.

                      Avery

                      I don't know you and I can only speculate, but let me explain better the closeness we feel. We are married couple, living together. The belt is something I'm deeply involved in. Opening, closing, cleaning, inspecting... A lot of things that made us closer because the belt makes my wife dependent and in need of care, emotional and physical. If you live apart, this can hardly work. Then of course is about finding what works for you. Hope I have been helpful

                          I have several desired outcomes from wearing a belt. It prevents me from spending a lot of time masturbating which feels good to me and is easy to spend a lot of time doing. A second outcome is the prevention of mistakes resulting from meeting someone attractive (or not) and quickly becoming intimate with them. A side benefit of this is that I don't automatically view women as primarily potential sex partners. This makes me a better person, I think.

                          Milord Hope I have been helpful

                          Yes, that is helpful. The things you describe are not a part of my relationship and this is not good, but may come. I don't know.

                              Avery It is on you which way you want to go in your relationship. I can only say test it, feel is it right, if not leave it and try something new.
                              Important is what make you happy not someone else.

                                Joh You Mix it with someone else. I would be more than Happy If she would.

                                no sorry, I didn't understand that you only meant it theoretically 😂

                                  2 months later

                                  I made the decision to lock myself in a chastity cage because of excessive masturbation which was the cause of many neglects in everyday life and at work. Thinking about this moment of pleasure during the day, it caused lack of focus, delays, neglect of more important things in life and work that I left until the last minute. After the pleasure, I felt a sense of guilt due to lack of willpower and lack of self-denial due to giving in to temptation.

                                  When I wear a chastity cage and the keys are locked in the box for a certain time, I know that there is no turning back and I have to stay in it, and pleasure is impossible. Then I focus on the things that I neglected through masturbation, I focus on the implementation of my intended goals and duties, which helps to suppress the frustration caused by the lack of pleasure. I am more attentive, productive, focused, which is also visible at work. Chastity also helps me to exercise willpower when the time of locking the keys ends. If I don't feel uncomfortable wearing the cage, which is becoming rarer, I try my best to resist the temptation to leave and extend the time I lock the keys.

                                  Even though this is the beginning of my journey of being locked in a chastity, I don't regret making this decision because it has brought me many positive changes. And I am sure there will be even more when I give the keys to KH and am locked in 24/7.

                                    Danmac

                                    I hope you’re aware that 24/7 caging with breaks only for cleaning is likely to result in damage to your penis and associated tissues. It is likely that the real outcome would be developing erectile dysfunction to some extent or another. If you let yourself have a full erection on a regular basis (monthly? Weekly?) it would greatly reduce this risk of damaging your body.

                                        Conrad I am curious. Can you provide any evidence for this? Your claim seems plausible on its face but I am not aware of anything to back it up.

                                            pestulens

                                            I am not so sure about erectile disfunction but i know for sure cages can cause real physical harm. The amount of time i have had a cage nip or pinch.

                                              Since the health issue pops up regularly I have asked AI for medical evidence of problems that may arise due to chastity devices. Here is the answer:

                                              Wearing a chastity device by men can potentially cause medical issues, depending on the duration of use, fit, and hygiene. However, there is no extensive clinical research specifically focused on the long-term medical effects of wearing such devices. Based on general medical knowledge, several potential risks can be outlined.

                                              Possible medical problems:

                                              1. Skin irritation and sores:

                                                • Issue: Friction, pressure points, and prolonged contact of the chastity device with the skin can lead to irritation, blisters, and even open sores. Poor hygiene can worsen these conditions.
                                                • Risk: If the device doesn’t fit properly or is worn for extended periods without breaks, these skin problems can become more severe, potentially leading to infections.

                                              2. Infections:

                                                • Issue: A chastity device can trap moisture and sweat, creating an ideal environment for bacterial and fungal growth, especially if hygiene is insufficient. This can lead to skin infections, fungal infections, or urinary tract infections (UTIs).
                                                • Risk: UTIs can occur if access to the genital area is restricted, making personal hygiene more difficult.

                                              3. Circulation problems:

                                                • Issue: If the device is too tight, it can restrict blood flow to the penis. This can result in numbness, tingling, or, in extreme cases, tissue damage due to poor blood circulation.
                                                • Risk: Long-term blood flow restriction can lead to serious tissue damage and may affect erectile function.

                                              4. Serious erectile problems:

                                                • Issue: While there’s no direct evidence that wearing a chastity device causes long-term erectile dysfunction, prolonged restriction of spontaneous erections could potentially affect blood circulation and penile health.
                                                • Risk: If the device is worn regularly and for long durations, it may have a long-term impact on erectile function, though this has not been scientifically confirmed.

                                              5. Psychological effects:

                                                • Issue: For some men, wearing a chastity device may cause mental or emotional stress, especially if there’s no consent or alignment between partners.
                                                • Risk: Psychological stress can indirectly lead to physical issues, such as sleep disturbances, anxiety, or depression.

                                              Conclusion:

                                              Although there is no strong scientific evidence that wearing a chastity device inherently causes severe medical issues, complications may arise under improper conditions (such as poor hygiene, improper fit, or prolonged use). The risk of medical problems increases if the device is too tight, hygiene is neglected, or the device is worn for extended periods without breaks.

                                              It is important to maintain good hygiene, ensure proper fitting, and take regular breaks to allow the skin to recover when using such devices. If there is persistent discomfort or signs of irritation, medical advice should be sought.

                                              Hope this may help

                                                Padre I don't generally put a lot of stock in AI as a source of factual info, but everything hear seems like reasonable concerns, though all are also relatively easy to guard against.

                                                    Conrad
                                                    I understand that wearing a chastity 24/7 can cause the damage you mentioned. I've read a lot about it and want to minimize this risk to a minimum so I decided not to jump into the deep end and give the keys to KH right away to be locked up 24/7.

                                                    I'm in the process of getting used to it and making sure that the cage I'm wearing is the right one so it self-locks at intervals I set, I often double check for skin damage, I take care of hygiene and maintenance and in case of discomfort (which happens rarely) or concerns, I take a break so the 24/7 locking won't happen right away.

                                                    But before it's time to lock up 24/7 and give the keys back, we need to agree on a locking policy with KH, including hygiene and controlled breaks for inspections for skin damage and whether I have erectile dysfunction.

                                                    pestulens
                                                    As you said, the points seem justified even though they were generated by AI. The risk of damage is high, but it can be easily avoided.

                                                        14 days later

                                                        Avery Since I've just started my experiment wearing a belt as a part of a relationship I can only hope we achieve the same result you folks did. I must admit his kind of WTF response to my proposing a contract makes me fear he is not really interested in the nature of our relationship (e.g. like the closeness you mention) beyond the sexual part of it.

                                                        Well, since this is the outcomes thread let me respond to my own post and report my outcome is I no longer have a boyfriend. This is OK whereas he does not have the kind of emotional attachment to me that I, or anyone else here, I dare say, would require.

                                                        The main point for this forum is I'm going back to a chaste lifestyle using the belt as an aid, so that's somewhat different than many here who are full-timers. I do think there is some value here of having someone here who proffers the belt as an assistance device only and, believe me, it has come in handy on numerous occasions.

                                                            Avery Well, since this is the outcomes thread let me respond to my own post and report my outcome is I no longer have a boyfriend. This is OK whereas he does not have the kind of emotional attachment to me that I, or anyone else here, I dare say, would require.

                                                            It's sad that it has turned out like this, but you have been given clarity. I think that's very important, because in the long term it's not good to be with someone even though you're not really compatible.

                                                            Avery The main point for this forum is I'm going back to a chaste lifestyle using the belt as an aid, so that's somewhat different than many here who are full-timers

                                                            If you have the feeling that this is what you want, then do it.
                                                            I also see the CB as a great way to achieve your goals. It may help you when you have a weak time. Do you already have an idea of how you want to handle it? For example, do you want to use a time lock?