I think it is important to keep in mind that while there may be trends for various sexes, there is also a lot of individual variation in those things - which depends not just on a person's nature, but also on what their lifestyle is like.

And does it work? Did girls who studied while kept chaste by their parents excel in their studies?

    KarimM

    Can you tell? Maybe expand the concept. Because I'm not completely convinced that it's useful for studying: frustration is enemy of concentration

      Tjc and firm help from the keyholder so it is clear that relief will be allowed only under the terms of whatever the agreement was

      While it's not required for a girl, e.g. she can remain chaste for a long time.

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          Renita You are right. I think I could remain chaste for a long time on my own but I find it easier with help from a keyholder. When they are firm about the rules and conditions for release, it helps the frustration to lower to a tolerable level more quickly. This is just what works for me. I am sure other people have different experiences and opinions.

              Tjc Often I have heard the belief that when women are belted, their desire and arousal drops off.

              yes and no, i would describe it like a wave movement. there are periods when the arousal is stronger and periods when it is weaker. for women who wear the belt 24/7 it can sometimes be helpful to try to suppress it somehow, to get it out of your head, then you are less aroused and wearing the belt is easier

                  Angelina This makes sense. I think you are right. I can suppress the arousal to the point that I don't notice it and it is not an issue and then something will trigger it to come back and I have to work to suppress or ignore it again. The idea that it comes in waves is a good mental picture. Sometimes they are gentle. long, rolling waves that are easy to deal with for weeks and sometimes they are short, choppy waves that wash over you like a storm. The long, gentle ones are much easier to live with.

                      Tjc But the easyer way is just cum and stol the waves. After orgasm here is a calm level.

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                          Tjc I think I could remain chaste for a long time on my own but I find it easier with help from a keyholder.

                          I remain chaste for years without any negative effects. So the subj is recommended for female students.

                              KarimM that's why my step d wore

                              I thought that they did it for different purpose

                              Renita So the subj is recommended for female students

                              Would you agree to this when you were 20?

                                    Kaja But the easyer way is just cum and stol the waves. After orgasm here is a calm level.

                                    It is definitely easier but I have found that if I am allowed to do that, I spend way too much time distracted by cumming and riding that wave. Having to ask someone to be allowed to that helps me to better control my time. Cumming feels good and I would do it a lot if I were allowed.

                                      Renita I remain chaste for years without any negative effects.

                                      I am able to remain chaste for years at a time without any negative effects (except for the limitations imposed by the belt).
                                      Guys often use the excuse that being chaste will cause them physical harm to convince their partner to have sex but there is no medical basis for that.

                                          Angelina There were times when my sister was jealous that I was not wearing a belt. I knew my time would come, AJ was clear on that. It has made us closer for sure. She deals with it better than i do, but it is nice to have someone to support me.

                                              Angelina @Tjc I so agree with this. There are times, especially when I go out with friends and at night that it becomes unbearable and i want this thing off more than anything. The gel packs are the only relief I get when i get home. other times though it is not so intense and easier to manage. My sister says I will eventually get used to it.

                                                  Kate2 My sister says I will eventually get used to it.

                                                  I will echo what your sister says. You do eventually get used to wanted the belt off no matter what. It is better and easier when it is not so intense but you can definitely get used to wearing. Your sister and your aunt are giving good advice. I think you are lucky to have them to help.

                                                    Laura Would you agree to this when you were 20?

                                                    I regret that mom was not my keyholder at that time.

                                                    Tjc I am able to remain chaste for years at a time without any negative effects

                                                    But you never tried it.

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                                                          Renita But you never tried it.

                                                          I have tried being chaste with the help of a belt and without one. I can do both but it is definitely easier, better, and I can stay chaste longer with the help of the belt and a firm keyholder.