My daughters potential chastity

PigtailSam

Milord It's insane to think that someone who will not accept an anti-pregnancy system that much less invasive can accept a chastity belt, the most intrusive system ever devised. It will never works.

Insane is a bit strong. But a chastity belt can be done at home. An injection or the one a doctor needs to do has to be done at a doctor. They won’t administer it unless she is completely agreeable to it. Also birth control doesn’t prevent std. chastity would

Damien

PigtailSam birth control doesn’t prevent std. chastity would

You cannot prevent oral and anal sex with a belt, so the risk of STD remains unchanged.

PigtailSam

Damien unless she has a cut in her mouth she can’t get any of the really bad ones like aids through oral. We were considering a belt with a wire up butt crack. Doesn’t that prevent anal?

Laura

Milord Anti pregnancy system goes inside, a chastity belt stays outside. That's the difference

Milord

PigtailSam help me understand better. You are planning exploiting your own daughter on the base that she loves you too much to ask help from authorities?

If it is the case, how you can even imagine that this will work? I mean, it’s doomed to failure. One way or another you are damaging her, or yourself, or both.

Also, you are not considering what will happen after. You say she loves you. Let’s see how her love will resist when she will demand you to be opened and you refuse, when she will beg for release, and all the issues you will have. Say goodbye to your family peace

Lastly: you don’t trust her enough to take care of herself, but you trust her enough that she will keep secret how her family abuses her?

Mithras

PigtailSam This belt is looking really nice! Have you shown this to your daughter? The Beauty of this may help you (and her of course) to get a belt....

PigtailSam

Mithras This belt is looking really nice! Have you shown this to your daughter? The Beauty of this may help you (and her of course) to get a belt....

We have been doing research on belts together

PigtailSam

Milord do you have a daughter? I don’t mean to be rude, but when you have a loving relationship these shouldn’t be a concern. I’m not going to force her into it. I’m will try and get her to understand that this is best for her. She knows she can’t control her own life. It’s hardly exploiting when I’m trying to protect her and give her a free education. I’m not sure how it works in the rest of the world. But in USA most college students end up with over 100k of dept.

Damien

It does, if worn tight. What it doesn't is discouraging risky behaviour.

Milord

PigtailSam I have a son, but he’s 13

“She can’t control her own life”. You, as parent, should teach her to get in control of her life. This is your duty as parent. Not taking control of her life, this is where abuse lies

PigtailSam

Milord

Milord She can’t control her own life”. You, as parent, should teach her to get in control of her life. This is your duty as parent. Not taking control of her life, this is where abuse lies

This is the underlying problem you arn’t understanding. I cant teach her to make healthy choices to control her own life. I’ve tried since she was little. Theropist have tried . Doctors have tried. The part of her brain that controls impulse control doesn’t work. She can understand consequences but just doesn’t care about them. If there was a better option than a belt I’m open to it. But letting her fail on her own is not an option. Without my guidance she will end up pregnant, on drugs, with an std. Her relationship with me and her father is the only thing that keeps her from doing the real dumb stuff. She respects us and wants to remain close to us. That is the only consequence she does care about to some extent. I have never abused my daughter. She has abused me. She has said hurtful things she didn’t mean because she was pissed. But she wouldn’t cry to the cops about a belt. Although she doesn’t generally care about consequences she does care about me and would not try and hurt me like that.

Milord

PigtailSam you are walking a very dangerous path. You are risking destroying the only thing that keeps her from failing, by resorting to a solution worse than the problem. Feelings are not set in stone. If the situation is the one you describe (and only you know it) you should consider removing her from college and demand she finds work. Then you want to put a CB on someone who doesn't care for consequences? are you serious?
What if she tells her friends?
what if she tells to her teachers?
what if your relatives discover her?
what if she goes to a DIY center and buy a hacksaw?
What if she hurts herself trying to remove?
what if she decides to do some foolish things to get back her freedom?
What if she cries for help?
What if she decides to move in with his boyfriend?
Just the first things...

James

PigtailSam

I understand quite well the dynamics at play here. I expect she's quite academically gifted in select areas despite the social issues?

Kaja

PigtailSam This post say one thing for us. The problem is in you. You want to be her messiah, new Jesus. It is not what she needs. She needs love ans profesional help and not medieval torture from medieval mind.

Angelina

PigtailSam But it does seem worse to me forcing her to take birth control.

Compared to the belt, it seems to me to be the milder measure

PigtailSam This is the underlying problem you arn’t understanding. I cant teach her to make healthy choices to control her own life. I’ve tried since she was little. Theropist have tried . Doctors have tried. The part of her brain that controls impulse control doesn’t work. She can understand consequences but just doesn’t care about them. If there was a better option than a belt I’m open to it.

I have an idea, but I would need a medical report and I would need to know what the laws are where you live. I don't think this idea will go down well in the forum, but if what you say is true and it is medically proven, have you ever thought about putting your daughter under legal guardianship? It seems she is not capable of making healthy decisions and if I look at your main problem (preventing pregnancy), it might even be possible to force her to use contraception through legal guardianship, i.e. by wearing an IUD.
And to all those who are outraged by my idea: Do you really think a chastity belt would be a better alternative? I don't think so

Kaja

Milord Thats true I (and me bf have the same experience) usually dont think about sex (I mean when Im at school, public transport etc). But with longer time without reliefe I think more and more about sex. About week without orgasm I think about sex 24/7 and I cant have anything other in my mind. My brain moves to my pussy 😀

toad

I appreciate your concern for your daughter. Poor impulse control and not caring about consequences spells addict to me. I've had my bout with alcohol and drugs, i used to feel the same way. New love and sex are pretty powerful things and very hard to overcome rationally. Seems to me there is a big difference between a young belted virgin, and a young woman in love who enjoys sex. At her age she will most likely follow her boyfriend rather than you. Perhaps talk with him and explain your views for her future. He should be concerned about her overall welfare and perhaps can help her do better in school. There are millions of sexual active young women who finish college. So i don't see sex as the problem. Implants for pregancy work well with no care. Belt or not, i doubt she'll give up her boyfriend and bad habits Love and pleasure are powerful forces. However after all of that; as an old man locked in chastity, i can truthfully say i wish i had be locked in my teens with the key given to longterm girlfriend or wife. It would have been a positive motivational force in many worthwhile areas. Sex is fun, but it creates many problems for both men and women. Try to remember the love you have for her just as the love you have for your husband will enable you to transend all problems. She will grow up whether she wants to or not.....life is like that.

Kaja

PigtailSam There is one solition. The word is contraception. We are saying it all the time but your ears are stuffy and your mind is clouded.

James

Kaja

I really don't understand why you insist on name calling as if you are in elementary school.

Kaja

I am going to assume you know this isn't a casual subject at the best of times.

PigtailSam

Kaja that doesn’t prevent stds. A doctor won’t force it on her if she I unwilling. No need to be rude . I heard the suggestion.

Kaja

PigtailSam Abortion.

PigtailSam

Kaja that isn’t birth control and would be a last resort. I’m not religious, but I’d much rather a chastity belt be used then abort a baby.

PigtailSam

James I understand quite well the dynamics at play here. I expect she's quite academically gifted in select areas despite the social issues?

Not gifted academically because she doesn’t try. But she is smart. She is fine socially. Just doesn’t care much about anything but her boyfriend and me.

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