How much time do you wear your chastity belt?
Ines but they do not have anything to negotiate, this would be accepted that we have some power about our belts.
I tried to negotiate, no luck.
Sara2001 Yes, if you agreed once, it's no longer your business, except for the 3 month rule. As a wearer of a chastity belt you should have no direct influence, it will only lead to stress in the relationship.
No talk regularly(every year,every other year,etc...),to check up if it is still ok for both of you?
Sara2001 Yes, something like this can be part of the agreement. But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.
It should be clear for both at the start,and accepted by both.But the key holder may decide what is a "good grade",and,as long as it is reachable(deciding a good grade is 20/20 won't be reachable,in most of cases,for example),I think it would be accepted easily.
Sara2001 Of course. I think no girl or woman should be forced, especially after marriage.
I agree.
Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!
It could be a reward among other,too!
Ines I do not consider it good excuse
Not an excuse,but a good incentive to study better,and a way to help the wearer a bit!
I don't agree.There is some circumstances which impact a lot our life(finishing our studies,falling in love(in the case of a very serious relationship),etc...),and it can impact our wearing of a chastity belt(even more for a voluntary wearer).In such situations,a talk,and maybe some changes,can be considered.
Laura But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age
Not totally wrong.But it is possible to still be a good student,even without a chastity belt.
Right!
Angelina it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?
Angelina that's true, but it only works if everyone sticks to the agreement
It can be done without a contract,too!
Angelina or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities
It could backfire on her easily.She may be told she was able to concentrate on her gades well as she was prevented to do sexual activities...
Angelina keep trying, but take your time and be patient
I agree!
And good luck to her.
Vanessa No talk regularly(every year,every other year,etc...),to check up if it is still ok for both of you?
These regularly talks are mandatory for me. But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards.
Vanessa It should be clear for both at the start,and accepted by both.But the key holder may decide what is a "good grade",and,as long as it is reachable
Exactly, it is not fair to change the rules after the agreement. This would be a misuse of the key holders power.
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Vanessa
Vanessa, of course big changes can occur, and for me a mere "I do not want it more" is enough, it is itself a big change.
But for me the decision is limited to "I want" "I do not want".
And the decision of " I do not want" can be exposed anytime, and it should be respected.
But for me, if a belted girl say it, I think she lose the right to "I want". (Maybe could there are some exceptions).
Belt for me is very important and emotionally exigent for girl and keyholder., so, for me it is so much important for play with it, and so much important to fix a period of time to talk about, this is for me is not understandable to maintain a girl belted 2 months against her will just because " We talk about it every 3 months " for example.
Vanessa It could backfire on her easily.She may be told she was able to concentrate on her gades well as she was prevented to do sexual activities...
that's right, that's why i think the reward system is a very good idea. maybe i would think about it if my daughter wants to wear a cb voluntarily
Sara2001 But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards
but at the latest then she should be unlocked
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My belt and thigh bands arrived yesterday and I have been wearing it ever since. I would say the belt is comfortable but the thigh bands definitely are going to take time to get used to. I’m allowed to have a 5 inches chain between my legs so I can walk. It still hurt if I try to walk fast or take large steps though, will definitely have to concentrate on taking smaller steps.
With the belt, it is very secure, I can’t get to the sensitve area at all 
, I can see it but cannot touch it at all. I woke up this morning and reached down and everything is just steel. Tried to tug on it but that didn’t do anything. I feel desperate
Ah...
Well 7,5 cm is good enough. The correct measure I think (6-8 cm).
If you can, try to wear bands relatively high, so you will have more mobility.
Dee My belt and thigh bands arrived yesterday
but that was very fast 
Dee but the thigh bands definitely are going to take time to get used to.
exactly, I'm afraid I expected that
Dee and I have been wearing it ever since
even the tighbands?
Dee I woke up this morning and reached down and everything is just steel. Tried to tug on it but that didn’t do anything. I feel desperate
This is completely normal at the beginning, I hope you feel better soon
Ines The correct measure I think (6-8 cm).
5 inches are equivalent to 6.35 centimetres
Ines If you can, try to avoid padlock in the connection chain, it is noisy and if you wear one safe enough
my chain is welded like @catherine98, if i only wear the padlock (in public), my dad sticks a piece of cloth around it, so it is not so loud