How much time do you wear your chastity belt?

Laura

Ines I do not doubt that a girl can study perfectly without a chastity belt

But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age

Ines Laura, I think a girl must have just a decision about wear a chastity belt, "I want" or "I do not want".

So, "all or none". That makes sense. @Renita 's case is a good example 😂

Renita

Laura So, "all or none". That makes sense. @Renita 's case is a good example

I don't object to this statement.

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, if you agreed once, it's no longer your business, except for the 3 month rule. As a wearer of a chastity belt you should have no direct influence, it will only lead to stress in the relationship.

No talk regularly(every year,every other year,etc...),to check up if it is still ok for both of you?

Sara2001 Yes, something like this can be part of the agreement. But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

It should be clear for both at the start,and accepted by both.But the key holder may decide what is a "good grade",and,as long as it is reachable(deciding a good grade is 20/20 won't be reachable,in most of cases,for example),I think it would be accepted easily.

Sara2001 Of course. I think no girl or woman should be forced, especially after marriage.

I agree.

Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!

It could be a reward among other,too!😉

Ines I do not consider it good excuse

Not an excuse,but a good incentive to study better,and a way to help the wearer a bit!😉

Ines

I don't agree.There is some circumstances which impact a lot our life(finishing our studies,falling in love(in the case of a very serious relationship),etc...),and it can impact our wearing of a chastity belt(even more for a voluntary wearer).In such situations,a talk,and maybe some changes,can be considered.

Laura But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age

Not totally wrong.😉But it is possible to still be a good student,even without a chastity belt.

Laura @Renita 's case is a good example 😂

Right!😉

Angelina it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

😂

Angelina that's true, but it only works if everyone sticks to the agreement 😉

It can be done without a contract,too!😉

Angelina or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities 😉

It could backfire on her easily.She may be told she was able to concentrate on her gades well as she was prevented to do sexual activities...

Angelina keep trying, but take your time and be patient 😉

I agree!

And good luck to her.

Angelina

Sara2001 But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!

or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities 😉

Sara2001

Angelina it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

Some use contracts, some don't use contracts. I think it is not important in which way the agreement is made. Once it is made it should stay in place.

Megan

Renita If I had a daughter I would motivate her to study this way

I have seen secondary shields that are incredibly narrow and sharp edges. I have very open with additional airholes but I can see some are just to prevent pinching and would cut a person...

Angelina

Megan

that's true, but then the belt is completely unlocked for a certain time 😉

but only as long as the girl stays at home 😉

Ines

Megan
Megan, I am not able to get your point. Could you explain me a bit, please? Please😫🙏🙏💓

Renita

Megan I have seen secondary shields that are incredibly narrow and sharp edges.

Mine is not of this kind. Beside this I also didn't get your point as Ines .

Angelina

Sara2001

that's true, but it only works if everyone sticks to the agreement 😉

Christine

Ines but they do not have anything to negotiate, this would be accepted that we have some power about our belts.

I tried to negotiate, no luck.

Angelina

Christine

keep trying, but take your time and be patient 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa No talk regularly(every year,every other year,etc...),to check up if it is still ok for both of you?

These regularly talks are mandatory for me. But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards.

Vanessa It should be clear for both at the start,and accepted by both.But the key holder may decide what is a "good grade",and,as long as it is reachable

Exactly, it is not fair to change the rules after the agreement. This would be a misuse of the key holders power.

Ines

Vanessa
Vanessa, of course big changes can occur, and for me a mere "I do not want it more" is enough, it is itself a big change.
But for me the decision is limited to "I want" "I do not want".
And the decision of " I do not want" can be exposed anytime, and it should be respected.
But for me, if a belted girl say it, I think she lose the right to "I want". (Maybe could there are some exceptions).
Belt for me is very important and emotionally exigent for girl and keyholder., so, for me it is so much important for play with it, and so much important to fix a period of time to talk about, this is for me is not understandable to maintain a girl belted 2 months against her will just because " We talk about it every 3 months " for example.

Angelina

Vanessa It could backfire on her easily.She may be told she was able to concentrate on her gades well as she was prevented to do sexual activities...

that's right, that's why i think the reward system is a very good idea. maybe i would think about it if my daughter wants to wear a cb voluntarily 😉

Sara2001 But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards

but at the latest then she should be unlocked

Vanessa

Sara2001 These regularly talks are mandatory for me. But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards.

Not too bad.

Sara2001 Exactly, it is not fair to change the rules after the agreement. This would be a misuse of the key holders power.

I agree.If it seems necessary,another talk may be done,but only change it if both agree;otherwise,the first agreement should still be used.

Ines

I agree.But I think,in some cases,it could be adapted.Let's say,someone wear a belt(willingly),then decide,after she finished studying,to coach people to do sports,with leggings and such,it should be adapted,and let her not wear a chastity belt during her coaching(as example).A talk can help to decide if there is enough reasons to adapt it,or not.

Angelina i think the reward system is a very good idea

I think too.

Angelina but at the latest then she should be unlocked

Which is good,if she can't accept it anymore.

Dee

I'm sorry it was delivered sooner than expected...

No training before being locked in permanently?

Thigh bands are hard to be used to(and,in my opinion,it is the case for the chastity belt too,but different),even with a chain.But good the belt is comfortable.

Chastity belts are always very secure(if from main brands),and very hard(often impossible)to cheat on these.I know well your feelings,I think we all felt the same when we've to start wearing it.I still fight it a lot(and tugging on it is generally a part of my fights),and still feel desperate about it sometimes(and very frustrated).I don't think we can get used to it,but I hope you can manage it better soon.

Ines Take it easy. It is normal at very start.

Easy to say,but harder to apply!

Dee

Good you can avoid these often,it is very hard to wear these permanently.In my case,wearing these permanently only happens as a punishment

Laura

It is what I think,too.

Angelina but the padlock between the tighbands will unfortunately stay for 2 months 🙁

Why is it longer than the other parts of the punishment?

Ines

But still not very natural to be restrained...

I agree for the training.

Christine

I agree.They are way too secure....🙁

Dee

My belt and thigh bands arrived yesterday and I have been wearing it ever since. I would say the belt is comfortable but the thigh bands definitely are going to take time to get used to. I’m allowed to have a 5 inches chain between my legs so I can walk. It still hurt if I try to walk fast or take large steps though, will definitely have to concentrate on taking smaller steps.

With the belt, it is very secure, I can’t get to the sensitve area at all 🙁, I can see it but cannot touch it at all. I woke up this morning and reached down and everything is just steel. Tried to tug on it but that didn’t do anything. I feel desperate 🙁

Ines

Dee
5 inches???? This is huge! Even it is so much for the intended mission!

Dee I feel desperate 🙁

Take it easy. It is normal at very start.

Laura

Dee My belt and thigh bands arrived yesterday

Were you frustrated because it has happened too fast?

Angelina

Dee My belt and thigh bands arrived yesterday

but that was very fast 😮

Dee but the thigh bands definitely are going to take time to get used to.

exactly, I'm afraid I expected that 🙁

Dee and I have been wearing it ever since

even the tighbands?

Dee I woke up this morning and reached down and everything is just steel. Tried to tug on it but that didn’t do anything. I feel desperate 🙁

This is completely normal at the beginning, I hope you feel better soon

Ines The correct measure I think (6-8 cm).

5 inches are equivalent to 6.35 centimetres

Renita

Dee I would say the belt is comfortable but the thigh bands definitely are going to take time to get used to.

They started from belt with thighbands without letting you to get used to belt itself? Are you able to wear it continuously ?

Dee

Ines the 5 in chain would be effectively only 2.5 in long because it is looped through the rings and locked together with the same pad lock though.

Ines

Dee
If you can, try to avoid padlock in the connection chain, it is noisy and if you wear one safe enough it is heavy enough for tug of chain, uncomfortable to sit and for walk.

Ines

Ah...
Well 7,5 cm is good enough. The correct measure I think (6-8 cm).
If you can, try to wear bands relatively high, so you will have more mobility.

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