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  • How much time do you wear your chastity belt?

Ines I do not doubt that a girl can study perfectly without a chastity belt

But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age

Ines Laura, I think a girl must have just a decision about wear a chastity belt, "I want" or "I do not want".

So, "all or none". That makes sense. @Renita 's case is a good example 😂

    Laura So, "all or none". That makes sense. @Renita 's case is a good example

    I don't object to this statement.

    Sara2001 But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

    it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

    Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!

    or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities 😉

      Renita If I had a daughter I would motivate her to study this way

      I have seen secondary shields that are incredibly narrow and sharp edges. I have very open with additional airholes but I can see some are just to prevent pinching and would cut a person...

        Megan

        that's true, but then the belt is completely unlocked for a certain time 😉

        but only as long as the girl stays at home 😉

        Megan
        Megan, I am not able to get your point. Could you explain me a bit, please? Please😫🙏🙏💓

          Angelina it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

          Some use contracts, some don't use contracts. I think it is not important in which way the agreement is made. Once it is made it should stay in place.

            Megan I have seen secondary shields that are incredibly narrow and sharp edges.

            Mine is not of this kind. Beside this I also didn't get your point as Ines .

            Ines but they do not have anything to negotiate, this would be accepted that we have some power about our belts.

            I tried to negotiate, no luck.

              Sara2001 Yes, if you agreed once, it's no longer your business, except for the 3 month rule. As a wearer of a chastity belt you should have no direct influence, it will only lead to stress in the relationship.

              No talk regularly(every year,every other year,etc...),to check up if it is still ok for both of you?

              Sara2001 Yes, something like this can be part of the agreement. But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

              It should be clear for both at the start,and accepted by both.But the key holder may decide what is a "good grade",and,as long as it is reachable(deciding a good grade is 20/20 won't be reachable,in most of cases,for example),I think it would be accepted easily.

              Sara2001 Of course. I think no girl or woman should be forced, especially after marriage.

              I agree.

              Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!

              It could be a reward among other,too!😉

              Ines I do not consider it good excuse

              Not an excuse,but a good incentive to study better,and a way to help the wearer a bit!😉

              Ines

              I don't agree.There is some circumstances which impact a lot our life(finishing our studies,falling in love(in the case of a very serious relationship),etc...),and it can impact our wearing of a chastity belt(even more for a voluntary wearer).In such situations,a talk,and maybe some changes,can be considered.

              Laura But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age

              Not totally wrong.😉But it is possible to still be a good student,even without a chastity belt.

              Laura @Renita 's case is a good example 😂

              Right!😉

              Angelina it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

              😂

              Angelina that's true, but it only works if everyone sticks to the agreement 😉

              It can be done without a contract,too!😉

              Angelina or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities 😉

              It could backfire on her easily.She may be told she was able to concentrate on her gades well as she was prevented to do sexual activities...

              Angelina keep trying, but take your time and be patient 😉

              I agree!

              And good luck to her.

                Vanessa No talk regularly(every year,every other year,etc...),to check up if it is still ok for both of you?

                These regularly talks are mandatory for me. But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards.

                Vanessa It should be clear for both at the start,and accepted by both.But the key holder may decide what is a "good grade",and,as long as it is reachable

                Exactly, it is not fair to change the rules after the agreement. This would be a misuse of the key holders power.

                  Vanessa
                  Vanessa, of course big changes can occur, and for me a mere "I do not want it more" is enough, it is itself a big change.
                  But for me the decision is limited to "I want" "I do not want".
                  And the decision of " I do not want" can be exposed anytime, and it should be respected.
                  But for me, if a belted girl say it, I think she lose the right to "I want". (Maybe could there are some exceptions).
                  Belt for me is very important and emotionally exigent for girl and keyholder., so, for me it is so much important for play with it, and so much important to fix a period of time to talk about, this is for me is not understandable to maintain a girl belted 2 months against her will just because " We talk about it every 3 months " for example.

                    Vanessa It could backfire on her easily.She may be told she was able to concentrate on her gades well as she was prevented to do sexual activities...

                    that's right, that's why i think the reward system is a very good idea. maybe i would think about it if my daughter wants to wear a cb voluntarily 😉

                    Sara2001 But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards

                    but at the latest then she should be unlocked

                      My belt and thigh bands arrived yesterday and I have been wearing it ever since. I would say the belt is comfortable but the thigh bands definitely are going to take time to get used to. I’m allowed to have a 5 inches chain between my legs so I can walk. It still hurt if I try to walk fast or take large steps though, will definitely have to concentrate on taking smaller steps.

                      With the belt, it is very secure, I can’t get to the sensitve area at all 🙁, I can see it but cannot touch it at all. I woke up this morning and reached down and everything is just steel. Tried to tug on it but that didn’t do anything. I feel desperate 🙁

                        Dee
                        5 inches???? This is huge! Even it is so much for the intended mission!

                        Dee I feel desperate 🙁

                        Take it easy. It is normal at very start.

                          Ines the 5 in chain would be effectively only 2.5 in long because it is looped through the rings and locked together with the same pad lock though.

                          • Ines replied to this.

                            Ah...
                            Well 7,5 cm is good enough. The correct measure I think (6-8 cm).
                            If you can, try to wear bands relatively high, so you will have more mobility.

                              Dee My belt and thigh bands arrived yesterday

                              Were you frustrated because it has happened too fast?