Ines
Hello Ines
I beg you to forgive my ignorance about the design of the chastity devices that you are all called upon to wear. Having never had any contact with this type of "product" that I would call "disconcerting" I apologize for writing a mistake.
In fact, if I suggested this idea it was because I thought I understood that Vanessa had managed to introduce small objects into her shield without achieving the desired effect. And I deduced that the vibration of the shield would be ineffective if there was no contact reinforced by the zone of pleasure.
Otherwise it is true that your opinion is unique since you seem to be the only one to accept the principle of restricting your sexual freedom. Moreover, the fact that your younger sister may still be free of her actions proves that there is a certain family consensus on the subject. In your family your parents encourage you to master sex-ually but without forcing you by force or blackmail.
If I can afford a comparison: it's a bit like encouraging teens to wear braces so they can have perfect teeth in adult-hood. In the beginning, the dental appliance provokes a physical and aesthetic dis-satisfaction but it will generate an advantage for the adult. Does my example of the dental appliance go in the direction of your conception compared to the idea that you have chastity?
In other words, I respect your opinion because you are intimately convinced of ob-taining a superior blessing once married. In a way you seem to make it a point of honor to master you sexually and I can only congratulate you to impose such disci-pline on your future husband. I hope he will consider you a princess and behave like a prince charming to you. Moreover βInesβ rhymes with βprincessβ.
On the other hand I am deeply upset and revolted by the story of girls who are locked against their will. I consider it an unpardonable male oppression that can have serious psychological consequences on girls many years later. In addition I recently discovered that some of them were also physically punished just for the principle every Sunday. Their story so upset me that I would have preferred never to discover this forum and remain in a certain naivety in thinking that this type of situation did not exist. Now that I know I am deeply uncomfortable with this distress. And I unders-tood that on this point our opinion was convergent. Am I right to think so?
If not in relation to your situation, I would like you to shed light on two questions:
Could your younger sister be punished if she was caught masturbating where does she have total freedom until she decided to wear the belt?
As you seem to be firmly convinced that you should not masturbate, could not you just swear to your parents not to do it?
And in case of breach of your commitment you agree to submit to a regime more stringent than the one you currently have for a certain period defined in advance. I think this type of consensus would be less infantilizing and would save you a lot of hygienic and physical constraints. Moreover you would feel valued on the moral plane since you would be able to master yourself. It would not be the metal that would dictate your behavior but only your sincere desire to honor your parents. If I take again the example of the dental apparatus: you could obtain an impeccable den-tition by making the commitment not to suck your thumb during your childhood. Do you like my demo?