Chastity belt and hot weather

Sara2001

Angelina

Sara2001

it is definitely an improvement, even for people without cb 😉 maybe you will ask your dad too ?

Sara2001

Angelina it is definitely an improvement, even for people without cb 😉 maybe you will ask your dad too ?

I think I could only benefit from an air condition for the whole house but my father doesn't think it is necessary. As I said my father doesn't think wearing a chastity belt and tightbands has to be as convenient as possible but that woman have to learn that there are circumstances that leads to discomfort and that this is not an issue that must be solved.

Angelina

Sara2001

and my father tries to make his rules, which can be exhausting for me, as pleasant as possible, which is not always successful but he tries

I think it's a little silly of your father to think that way

Vanessa

Angelina

When it is very hot,fans don't help that much.

You can try to suspend a wet towel in front of these(take care it can't go into the fan blades,I think it can be dangerous),or make bottles of water freeze and put them on a table,in front of the fan.

Air conditioning would be a good idea.We'll do it in Spring,in my family.

Sara2001

It is hard!He should allow it,no need to make it worse...

Angelina

I agree.It is uselessly hard.And,I think,counterproductive;if it is too hard to bear,we'll fight our chastity devices more.

Ines

It is awesome.

Sara2001

Vanessa I agree.It is uselessly hard.And,I think,counterproductive;if it is too hard to bear,we'll fight our chastity devices more.

Buying air conditioning for the whole house is very expensive and still very uncommon in Germany. It's not that he wants to make it worse for us, but you are right. He doesn't think that it is necessary to make it as comfortable as possible for us. He thinks woman have to accept discomfort to reach the standards set by the male leader.

I think it is not that far from what most girls here have to experience, otherwise we would all get out of anything except chastity belt if it is hot and only had to wear the belt in situations where we had options to give pleasure to ourselves.

Ines

Sara2001
And the standard set from leader... Is it disconfort?

Angelina

@Vanessa

i also think it is illogical what sara's father is doing. the main goal of our parents should be that we accept our situation as good as possible, so they don't have to make it harder than necessary 🙁

Sara2001 otherwise we would all get out of anything except chastity belt if it is hot

and that's exactly what I'm doing, your dad needs to think more logically

Vanessa

Sara2001

I don't agree much.

It is expensive,yes.But if they can afford to buy metal devices(which are pretty expensive)for preventing us to access some parts of our body and restrict our freedom(especially sexually,but not only),I think they could afford for something who would help everyone in the family when it is hot.

I think,too,it would be easier to be motivated to reach the standards if she notices the male leader take care to make it easier for her to reach.

For your example,it can be my case.Depending on my parents' decision about it,I can easily have only my chastity belt on when it is hot...And closing it only when she can pleasure herself is not a matter of comfort,but it would mean a lot of closing/unclosing,not easy to manage.

Laura

If I would have a lot of money,I would not be against using a Tesla car,which drives automatically as long as we have at least one hand on the steering wheel!😉

Angelina i also think it is illogical what sara's father is doing. the main goal of our parents should be that we accept our situation as good as possible, so they don't have to make it harder than necessary 🙁

I agree.And add they should make it easier,if it is possible.

Sara2001 Really, when will your tightbands and chastity bra be removed? They don't fulfill any purpose except making it more difficult for you. He is making it more difficult for you then necessary. Why do you have to do additional work to do on a regular basis to just get a short chain between your tightbands while they chain doesn't reduce the security of your chastity in any way.

The thigh bands make the belt more secure(harder to introduce anything under the shield,reducing the risk we can feel some stimulation).The chastity bra prevents to have the breasts stimulated.Not only related to comfort.

Angelina additional work in the household is part of becoming an adult woman and i have to say that i have reached a certain maturity for my age. also i do a lot of this additional work in his office, which is good for me, because i want to work in this profession later

I agree,it is useful to prepare us to live on our own later.

Angelina I don't understand why he doesn't want to make it easier for you, because then you would accept it better 😉

Which is different is @Sara2001 is "less reluctant" than us.Even if I guess she would prefer to not have to wear it,she accepts it pretty well and is ready to have it on,even after married.So,no needs to make her accept it easier,I think.

Sara2001

Ines And the standard set from leader... Is it disconfort?

No, the standard is: It is as it is. He doesn't invest extra effort to make it less comfortable or more comfortable if more comfort is not absolutely necessary.

Laura

That's why I would never buy a German car 🙂

Sara2001

Laura That's why I would never buy a German car 🙂

Then you have never tried to configure a BMW. I heard it almost consists of extras only 🙂

Laura

Sara2001 Of course I prefer to drive a car rather than "configure" it assuming I have everything I need already

Sara2001

Laura I mean the car configurator on the web page. We used it in school as an example for complex configuration with strong relationships.

Sara2001

Angelina and that's exactly what I'm doing, your dad needs to think more logically

Really, when will your tightbands and chastity bra be removed? They don't fulfill any purpose except making it more difficult for you. He is making it more difficult for you then necessary. Why do you have to do additional work to do on a regular basis to just get a short chain between your tightbands while they chain doesn't reduce the security of your chastity in any way.

Angelina they don't have to make it harder than necessary 🙁

It's not like he doing things harder for us. He just doesn't do anything easier for us because of the chastity equipment. I think this is a very big difference.

Angelina

Sara2001

my father is very unsure how far he can go regarding my chastity. he often does not know what is and what is not for safety, which does not always make it easy 🙁

additional work in the household is part of becoming an adult woman and i have to say that i have reached a certain maturity for my age. also i do a lot of this additional work in his office, which is good for me, because i want to work in this profession later

but it's about something else maybe i expressed myself badly. the biggest wish of my father is that i can accept my situation as good as possible and therefore he does everything to make this possible and in this point your father thinks illogically in my opinion

I don't understand why he doesn't want to make it easier for you, because then you would accept it better 😉

Laura

Vanessa If I would have a lot of money,I would not be against using a Tesla car,which drives automatically as long as we have at least one hand on the steering wheel!

I'm thinking about it 😛

Sara2001

Vanessa I think they could afford for something who would help everyone in the family when it is hot.

Yes, I exactly know what you want to say and I would love to have it this way, but sadly that's not how my father is thinking. He thinks that woman should accept that they are much more limited then man and that making the discomfort as small as possible is a sign of remorse. The man must do everything that it is possible to wear the chastity equipment save and hygienic. He must take care that it is bearable. For example I think we will get holes in our chastity bra's, too. But from his point of view it is not necessary to make it as comfortable as possible. Especially when it takes effort for him, like opening us every day for a shower. It's right that we feel better after the shower but nobody from us ever had serious problems from only having an unbelted shower just once a week. Belted shower takes just more effort for us.

Vanessa I think,too,it would be easier to be motivated to reach the standards if she notices the male leader take care to make it easier for her to reach.

My father don't think motivation is needed because we have no choice anyway. For "motivation" he uses rules and severe punishments 🙁

Vanessa The thigh bands make the belt more secure(harder to introduce anything under the shield,reducing the risk we can feel some stimulation).The chastity bra prevents to have the breasts stimulated.Not only related to comfort.

Her father has the time to pick her up from school and to bring her to school, removing bra and tightbands is less time consuming and she never is alone long enough during the day. If she is not able to orgasm from breast stimulation, what is his goal beside additional restrictions? Same for the tightbands, I was never able to reach an orgasm when I was in the belt. No matter if I had tightbands or not.

Vanessa I agree,it is useful to prepare us to live on our own later.

Having some task is definitely useful but additional tasks to reduce the security of your equipment from ultra save to very very save? You have to work for a very small amount of comfort, while he doesn't give up security in a relevant amount. If he would care for your comfort you had the longest possible chain that prevents putting something under your belt.

Vanessa Which is different is @Sara2001 is "less reluctant" than us

I think because I never lived any other way.

Vanessa Even if I guess she would prefer to not have to wear it,she accepts it pretty well and is ready to have it on,even after married

For me it feels completely different after marriage. Wearing it after marriage feels like a gift for me, from me to Daniel. Wearing it now feels forced.and I feel suppressed.

Vanessa I guess a driver's licence is still necessary,however,to be able to control the car if there is a bug.

I think I will never be allowed to make a drivers license and even when cars can drive completely autonome, I will most probably not be allowed to use them for anything without permission.

Vanessa

Laura

I guess a driver's licence is still necessary,however,to be able to control the car if there is a bug.

Laura

Vanessa I guess a driver's licence is still necessary

Of course. But I have both money and driver license 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

oh man

so first of all the bra and the tighbands have something to do with security, my father doesn't want me to be sexually stimulated in any way 🙁

this is hard and exhausting for me but I think you are connecting 2 completely different things with each other. I will not spread this discussion further because I have already presented my point of view here often and in different discussions. my father raises me to a responsible wife, while your father raises you to a submissive wife, I do not mean evil but this is just my honest opinion.

I have one request to you. if you want to tell me something, then please mark me directly and do not talk indirectly with others, I find that a little unfriendly because I prefer to discuss directly

Since I don't think we're making much progress here, I'd like to stay out of the discussion.

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, I exactly know what you want to say and I would love to have it this way, but sadly that's not how my father is thinking. He thinks that woman should accept that they are much more limited then man and that making the discomfort as small as possible is a sign of remorse. The man must do everything that it is possible to wear the chastity equipment save and hygienic. He must take care that it is bearable. For example I think we will get holes in our chastity bra's, too. But from his point of view it is not necessary to make it as comfortable as possible. Especially when it takes effort for him, like opening us every day for a shower. It's right that we feel better after the shower but nobody from us ever had serious problems from only having an unbelted shower just once a week. Belted shower takes just more effort for us.

I think it is a very complex and unusual way to think(especially the part about making it easier for you being considered as a sign of remorse...),and not very good for you.Do your boyfriend think the same,or will he take more care to make it easier for you?

Sara2001 My father don't think motivation is needed because we have no choice anyway. For "motivation" he uses rules and severe punishments 🙁

Not wrong,but I still think if it is easier,the wearer may be more cooperative and it would be better for both.And it would make the forced belting a bit less worse...

Sara2001 Her father has the time to pick her up from school and to bring her to school, removing bra and tightbands is less time consuming and she never is alone long enough during the day. If she is not able to orgasm from breast stimulation, what is his goal beside additional restrictions? Same for the tightbands, I was never able to reach an orgasm when I was in the belt. No matter if I had tightbands or not.

I don't say it is very useful(but it should be in a family where her parents can bring and pick her up to/from school,she should not be able to orgasm by stimulating her breasts,not doing it secretly at night or when going out...A lot of conditions!),but these have a reason related to chastity,it is not only used to make it harder.

I was never able to orgasm with my chastity belt on too,but thigh bands prevent to be stimulated too(even without reaching orgasm and being more frustrated).

Sara2001 Having some task is definitely useful but additional tasks to reduce the security of your equipment from ultra save to very very save? You have to work for a very small amount of comfort, while he doesn't give up security in a relevant amount. If he would care for your comfort you had the longest possible chain that prevents putting something under your belt.

It could help to understand there is cost to privileges,even if I'm not sure I would agree with it.But,for @Angelina's case,the additionnal tasks quickly become different ones,more pleasant and useful for her,so not that bad.

Sara2001 I think because I never lived any other way.

Yes,it probably play,at least,a part on it.

Sara2001 For me it feels completely different after marriage. Wearing it after marriage feels like a gift for me, from me to Daniel. Wearing it now feels forced.and I feel suppressed.

I can understand it.I think too the feelings can be very different when doing it after marriage instead of because of parents' decison.

Sara2001 I think I will never be allowed to make a drivers license and even when cars can drive completely autonome, I will most probably not be allowed to use them for anything without permission.

Even your boyfriend wouldn't accept you to drive?It is very old-fashioned and restrictive...I hope there isn't too many rules like this one...

Angelina so first of all the bra and the tighbands have something to do with security, my father doesn't want me to be sexually stimulated in any way 🙁

I agree.It is very related to chastity,and to prevent stimulation(and,unhappily,these do their jobs very well...).

Laura

If you decide to buy one,please tell us your opinion(for example,in the "just chatting" thread),it would be interesting.

Ines

Sara2001 Having some task is definitely useful but additional tasks to reduce the security of your equipment from ultra save to very very save?

Here I disagree, once more 😆. I think that improving in situation has to be giving more freedom to the girl, allowing us make more things, be more comfortable, trusting in us.
I think security is out of the equation. If I some day have a daughter who wishes wear a belt, we could talk about everything, but precisely, the point of wear a belt, is maintain us secure. The most, the better.
And I again disagree in the way of treat girls, I think we should be treated as princess of the house, and anything our jeyholders can do to make us feel better, they should do it.
I respect your opinions, but far away of mine.

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