Esteban Wrong, dude. I defend the law and I always tell people how they can fight things they dislike, for example the belt.
However, on the other hand I can see that it can be necessary to belt your daughter. It is not necessarly the best way to go, but it can be.
Therefore I chose both yes and no, because it is very situation dependend.
Do you think wearing chastity belt is the right thing to do?
OK thanks for this clarification.
So if I summarize you think that in some very special situations CB may be a lesser evil compared to some other danger. Is it this ?
Esteban Yeah basically.
I mean IMO a little bad behaviour is not enough reason for a CB but you know, before your kid is sent to juvie rather put that belt on...
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BikelockFugitive
Excuse me but to be sure you understand your reasoning I would like to understand the connection you make in prison and sexual abstinence.
Because the only crime I can identify in relation to sexuality is soliciting (prostitution).
Otherwise I do not see any other report. Do you understand my questioning?
Or then do you think that the belt would soften the caracter some teens too recalcitrant?
So if the aggressive behavior was to diminish, the teenager would find more freedom by wearing less and less often the belt. Is that your philosophie educative ?
@Sara2001
yes i already noticed that on fetish sites the ratio of men and women is reversed than with us
@Esteban
I would be very interested if he feels the same and has the same problems as us girls
@Bikelock Fugitive
i agree with you, i am against forced wearing of a cbs but it also depends on the situation
I think too it is more a fetish for men wearing a chastity cage.On this board,there is a few men,and none is forced to wear one,or wears it reluctantly,when most of the women here don't like it.
So you're for forcing someone to wear one against his/her will?
Angelina I would be very interested if he feels the same and has the same problems as us girls
What I can say it's that he hates it a lot and fights it too.And he sometimes cries(but less than me).But in his case,there is pain added,too.
Angelina i agree with you, i am against forced wearing of a cbs but it also depends on the situation
Even if I think it can be a useful thing,in some cases,forcing it is never a good idea.
Vanessa As ultima ratio. Yes. Before that: Only maybe.
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Vanessa What I can say it's that he hates it a lot and fights it too.And he sometimes cries(but less than me).But in his case,there is pain added,too.
The next time your brother is condemned to the suplice of the cage, encourages him to consume anaphrodisiac foods.
The best known being bromide.
But he would also have : https://www.selection.ca/cuisine/nutrition/5-aliments-qui-reduisent-votre-desir-sexuel/
This should allow him to reduce the intensity of his erections and reduce their duration. He will have much less sexual frustation with the decrease of his libido.
I understand that it can be taboo for a man but if it can avoid him to suffer unnecessarily it remains preferable.
I still think it should absolutely never be forced.Even for a limited time only.I knew it very well and it was awful(even if less than permanent wearing,of course).
What do you think could justify to force someone wearing a chastity belt against her will?Only for a short period of time,or until marriage?
Vanessa Like I said, before she fucks up her entire life, as ultima ratio, as long as necessary, but not longer.
It's not about keeping her a virgin or something like that, its basically just psychological warfare to better the daughter.
The problem is people can have different opinion about when someone can "fuck up her entire life".She can have a lot of sex,especially if she takes care it is protected(condoms+pîlls),without any problems on her life.
Vanessa Thats true, that's why you won't get an precise answer from me.
It is very, very, VERY situation dependant.
BikelockFugitive It is very, very, VERY situation dependant.
Right.
You think you may decide to force your daughter(if you have one)to wear your old belt if she misbehaves?Even knowing how awful it is?
For me,if I could have choose,I would have choose a spanking instead of wearing my chastity belt.But it wasn't my choice(and it was often both:spanking,cornertime,telling my parents I was sorry and such,then chastity belt put on me)...
I think too it depends on each person.
Right too,it is too my opinion.
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BikelockFugitive It's not about keeping her a virgin or something like that, its basically just psychological warfare to better the daughter.
In a way, I get a little understanding of your point of view.
But do not you think that the psychological fight could be more easily won by depriving the unmanageable teenager of his mobile phone?
For my part I will see many advantages:
To Save 800 € if anger the girl had to break his belt.
Prevent parents from being summoned to police for minor child abuse. (the belt could only make things worse)
To prevent the child from experiencing psychological problems as a result of the repression of his sexuality.
Indeed, it has been shown that suppression of sexual desire in a teenager causes behavioral problems in adulthood and it is no accident that the majority of sex offenders have been oppressed sexually by their parents during their teenage years.
- Lastly, this would make it possible to avoid entering a logic of persecution from generation to generation.
Indeed, it has also been argued that people who were oppressed during their childhood had a tendency to behave as oppressors when they became adults.
Maybe I'm wrong, but I honestly think that most of the girls in the forum would be more comfortable wearing a belt for two weeks rather than being deprived of cell phones during that time.
But for a punishment more longer (over a month), I think that their choice would be reversed.
Finally it's just a guess and they will not delay to give us their opinion.
I can not wait to know. Not you ?
Esteban To Save 800 € if anger the girl had to break his belt.
It is @BikelockFugitive who can break the belts! Not us!
Esteban Indeed, it has also been argued that people who were oppressed during their childhood had a tendency to behave as oppressors when they became adults.
It can result if you use the belt as punishment. I can asure you that I do not feel opressed at all. For me, the worst that you can do is to use a CB as a punishment way. For me is far worst that a normal wearing, even if it is reluctant.
Esteban To prevent the child from experiencing psychological problems as a result of the repression of his sexuality.
I think our sexuality it is not repressed. I think that in most of cases, here can be controlled, but not repressed. No parents here have problems accepting our feminine sexuality, all we are girls, and it is normal we are aroused sometimes. I think nobody has problems about this.
Obviously, our sexuality yes is more controlled, but, personally, I think it is not a bad thing. Our belly, capable of give life is not ours completely. It affects to family and even, to a new human being, so the idea of "help" us to do not take bad decisions, even it is not main role in my case, is understandable.
Belt maintain our sexual life in order, even we can discuss about breaks or not break, or everybody points of wiew, that I can not share but are respectable.
I can not deny my sexuality is much more controlled that other girls, for example I have my younger sister example in my home, but it is not oppressed. I have very clear that: I am a girl, that I sometimes am aroused and it is normal in a young fertile girl, that I want a man that make me discover a wonderful loving world, that I probably cry of happiness when he would be inside me and that I want get pregnant and give birth in the correct moment.
So, I think my sexuality is clear, fully accepted and not repressed or denied.
Long post, sorry. As always, just my opinion. I do not pretend evangelizing nobody. I just pretend express my feelings.