Do you think wearing chastity belt is the right thing to do?

Esteban

For my part I vote of course NO because forcing a girl (or woman) to wear a CB is frankly disrespectful of his dignity as a woman.

Personally I would much rather be cuckold than lock my partner (or my daughter) in a belt.

In fact it is not a piece of metal that will change what it has deep in his heart.

It is more rewarding for a man not to have been deceived (cuckolded) by his partner when she had the possibility to do it without physical constraint. (without CB)

But it's While it is much less rewarding to constat that I was not deceived (cuckold) because I placed a piece of metal physically preventing my wife to be wrong (to make me cuckold)

In the first case I am sure that his feelings were sincere towards me.

Whereas in the second case I will always have the doubt of the sincerity of his love towards me.

To meditate.

Esteban

Angelina it's a pity that he doesn't want to, I think it would be an interesting discussion especially for the guys here 😉

Yes, I think just like you that his testimony could be useful to know what a boy feels when he is blocked against his will.

Esteban

Sara2001 I think most male wearers wear it for his own will and often do it out of their own while woman are mostly forced or at least introduced by someone.

I quite agree with your analysis.

But also know that he also has more domineering womans who seeks to correct male sexual deviations (infidelity) by imposing the wearing of chastity cage at them husband

In fact everything suggests that before marriage there are many more girls than boys who are forced to wear CB but after marriage the trend would reverse

It is interesting to note that if you enter "chastity belt" in google it appears (in image) almost as many devices male as devices female

And other additional male devices can still appear if you enter "chastity cage" in google

We can therefore assume that male chastity devices are widespread as female chastity devices.

BikelockFugitive

Esteban Wrong, dude. I defend the law and I always tell people how they can fight things they dislike, for example the belt.
However, on the other hand I can see that it can be necessary to belt your daughter. It is not necessarly the best way to go, but it can be.
Therefore I chose both yes and no, because it is very situation dependend.

Esteban

BikelockFugitive

OK thanks for this clarification.
So if I summarize you think that in some very special situations CB may be a lesser evil compared to some other danger. Is it this ?

Vanessa

Sara2001

I think too it is more a fetish for men wearing a chastity cage.On this board,there is a few men,and none is forced to wear one,or wears it reluctantly,when most of the women here don't like it.

BikelockFugitive

So you're for forcing someone to wear one against his/her will?

Angelina I would be very interested if he feels the same and has the same problems as us girls 😉

What I can say it's that he hates it a lot and fights it too.And he sometimes cries(but less than me).But in his case,there is pain added,too.

Angelina i agree with you, i am against forced wearing of a cbs but it also depends on the situation 😉

Even if I think it can be a useful thing,in some cases,forcing it is never a good idea.

BikelockFugitive

Esteban Yeah basically.
I mean IMO a little bad behaviour is not enough reason for a CB but you know, before your kid is sent to juvie rather put that belt on...

Esteban

BikelockFugitive
Excuse me but to be sure you understand your reasoning I would like to understand the connection you make in prison and sexual abstinence.

Because the only crime I can identify in relation to sexuality is soliciting (prostitution).

Otherwise I do not see any other report. Do you understand my questioning?

Or then do you think that the belt would soften the caracter some teens too recalcitrant?

So if the aggressive behavior was to diminish, the teenager would find more freedom by wearing less and less often the belt. Is that your philosophie educative ?

Angelina

@Sara2001
yes i already noticed that on fetish sites the ratio of men and women is reversed than with us 😉

@Esteban
I would be very interested if he feels the same and has the same problems as us girls 😉

@Bikelock Fugitive
i agree with you, i am against forced wearing of a cbs but it also depends on the situation 😉

BikelockFugitive

Vanessa As ultima ratio. Yes. Before that: Only maybe.

Angelina

Vanessa

no permanent wearing, but 1-2 weeks as punishment (like with you at the beginning) but only for really bad girls 😉

Esteban

Vanessa What I can say it's that he hates it a lot and fights it too.And he sometimes cries(but less than me).But in his case,there is pain added,too.

The next time your brother is condemned to the suplice of the cage, encourages him to consume anaphrodisiac foods.

The best known being bromide.

But he would also have : https://www.selection.ca/cuisine/nutrition/5-aliments-qui-reduisent-votre-desir-sexuel/

This should allow him to reduce the intensity of his erections and reduce their duration. He will have much less sexual frustation with the decrease of his libido.
I understand that it can be taboo for a man but if it can avoid him to suffer unnecessarily it remains preferable.

Vanessa

BikelockFugitive and Angelina

I still think it should absolutely never be forced.Even for a limited time only.I knew it very well and it was awful(even if less than permanent wearing,of course).

What do you think could justify to force someone wearing a chastity belt against her will?Only for a short period of time,or until marriage?

BikelockFugitive

Vanessa Like I said, before she fucks up her entire life, as ultima ratio, as long as necessary, but not longer.
It's not about keeping her a virgin or something like that, its basically just psychological warfare to better the daughter.

Angelina

Vanessa

it would be at least the only reason why i would keep my old belt after the wedding 😉

and excuse me if I take up the discussion in this topic again, but 1-2 weeks in the chastity belt are in my opinion a better punishment than spanking 😉

Vanessa

BikelockFugitive

The problem is people can have different opinion about when someone can "fuck up her entire life".She can have a lot of sex,especially if she takes care it is protected(condoms+pîlls),without any problems on her life.

Esteban

BikelockFugitive It's not about keeping her a virgin or something like that, its basically just psychological warfare to better the daughter.

In a way, I get a little understanding of your point of view.
But do not you think that the psychological fight could be more easily won by depriving the unmanageable teenager of his mobile phone?

For my part I will see many advantages:

To Save 800 € if anger the girl had to break his belt.
Prevent parents from being summoned to police for minor child abuse. (the belt could only make things worse)
To prevent the child from experiencing psychological problems as a result of the repression of his sexuality.

Indeed, it has been shown that suppression of sexual desire in a teenager causes behavioral problems in adulthood and it is no accident that the majority of sex offenders have been oppressed sexually by their parents during their teenage years.

Lastly, this would make it possible to avoid entering a logic of persecution from generation to generation.

Indeed, it has also been argued that people who were oppressed during their childhood had a tendency to behave as oppressors when they became adults.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I honestly think that most of the girls in the forum would be more comfortable wearing a belt for two weeks rather than being deprived of cell phones during that time.

But for a punishment more longer (over a month), I think that their choice would be reversed.

Finally it's just a guess and they will not delay to give us their opinion.

I can not wait to know. Not you ?

BikelockFugitive

Vanessa Thats true, that's why you won't get an precise answer from me.
It is very, very, VERY situation dependant.

Vanessa

BikelockFugitive It is very, very, VERY situation dependant.

Right.

Angelina

You think you may decide to force your daughter(if you have one)to wear your old belt if she misbehaves?Even knowing how awful it is?

For me,if I could have choose,I would have choose a spanking instead of wearing my chastity belt.But it wasn't my choice(and it was often both:spanking,cornertime,telling my parents I was sorry and such,then chastity belt put on me)...

James

I think too it depends on each person.

Angelina

Right too,it is too my opinion.

James

Angelina There is the thing I have found - every lady is wired a different way, with a vastly different view of what is better. So long as what they get is better for them, great.

Angelina

James

I think we grew up with the punishments that our parents think are right, so we accept more easily than others who just read about it 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa You think you may decide to force your daughter(if you have one)to wear your old belt if she misbehaves?Even knowing how awful it is?

I can't agree more.

Angelina

Vanessa

of course not that was just a theoretical comparison. but if i would determine, the cb would certainly be a better solution than spanking or corner times 😉 but as said that is only theory and will never be implemented so . i am also against forced wear 😉

i think generally that we should not use the cb as punishment, but i want to say that some girls get much worse punishments here (in my opinion)

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