Do you think wearing chastity belt is the right thing to do?

Sara2001

Vanessa You think you may decide to force your daughter(if you have one)to wear your old belt if she misbehaves?Even knowing how awful it is?

I can't agree more.

Ines

Esteban To Save 800 € if anger the girl had to break his belt.

It is @BikelockFugitive who can break the belts! Not us! 😂

Esteban Indeed, it has also been argued that people who were oppressed during their childhood had a tendency to behave as oppressors when they became adults.

It can result if you use the belt as punishment. I can asure you that I do not feel opressed at all. For me, the worst that you can do is to use a CB as a punishment way. For me is far worst that a normal wearing, even if it is reluctant.

Esteban To prevent the child from experiencing psychological problems as a result of the repression of his sexuality.

I think our sexuality it is not repressed. I think that in most of cases, here can be controlled, but not repressed. No parents here have problems accepting our feminine sexuality, all we are girls, and it is normal we are aroused sometimes. I think nobody has problems about this.
Obviously, our sexuality yes is more controlled, but, personally, I think it is not a bad thing. Our belly, capable of give life is not ours completely. It affects to family and even, to a new human being, so the idea of "help" us to do not take bad decisions, even it is not main role in my case, is understandable.
Belt maintain our sexual life in order, even we can discuss about breaks or not break, or everybody points of wiew, that I can not share but are respectable.

I can not deny my sexuality is much more controlled that other girls, for example I have my younger sister example in my home, but it is not oppressed. I have very clear that: I am a girl, that I sometimes am aroused and it is normal in a young fertile girl, that I want a man that make me discover a wonderful loving world, that I probably cry of happiness when he would be inside me and that I want get pregnant and give birth in the correct moment.
So, I think my sexuality is clear, fully accepted and not repressed or denied.

Long post, sorry. As always, just my opinion. I do not pretend evangelizing nobody. I just pretend express my feelings.

Esteban

Ines It is @BikelockFugitive who can break the belts! Not us! 😂

Sorry Ines I think there was misunderstanding about my message.
I just wanted to point out to Bikelockfugitive that using the chastity belt as a punishment could be even more disastrous for family harmony. And that we should better resolve to use a much more consensual restriction. (confiscation of the mobile phone)
For my part, I can swear to you that if my parents had the ignoble idea of forcing my younger sister to wear a chastity belt I would have destroyed it at the first opportunity while filing. And I would complaint against my parents at the police station for mistreatment a minor.
And I think that many revolted teenagers would do the same to stop the abuse of parental authority. I loved my parents sincerely, I would never have allowed them to repress my sister's sexual freedom. My sister is not a pet on which they could claim to have any property rights. She is a human being in his own right.
For me putting a chastity belt on her would be just as humiliating as walking around with a dog leash.
So that's the scenario of disaster that could lead to the ruin of family harmony and that I think would be completely counterproductive.

Ines It can result if you use the belt as punishment. I can asure you that I do not feel opressed at all. For me, the worst that you can do is to use a CB as a punishment way. For me is far worst that a normal wearing, even if it is reluctant.

If not for the rest of your post it is absolutely necessary that you keep in mind that I do not include you absolutely in the oppressed girls who would be likely to be disturbed psychologically by the wearing of belt. (sorry for the misunderstanding if you may have felt included)
In your case there is strictly no abuse on the part of your parents since they would respect your choice not to wear it anymore. Your parents act with love and respect for your individual freedom and I have no problem with their behavior.
In addition I understood that you were sublimated by being belted. And even if I had trouble understanding this approach I respect it since it emanates from your own will. (of your individual freedom)
Not to mention that your younger sister is free not to wear it. And although in the depths of your heart you would like her to be a volunteer carrier, it is a point of honor not to put the slightest constraint on her.
So even if I do not understand all the subtleties of your devotion to your belt, I am still appreciative of the discipline that you are holding because it is YOUR choice.
So do not feel especially targeted by my post because I think just like you that you will not be subject to any psychological or emotional problems and you will never be in the camp of the oppressors since you were raised with the sincere love of your parents.
From my point of view psychological disorders will mainly concern girls whose masturbation is been repressed (since they do not accept this intimate restriction). I find it particularly cruel not to allow a girl to relieve her sexual arousal herself.
For me the right to feminine pleasure is something sacred. And I must even recognize that female masturbation is much more noble than male masturbation because it is undoubtedly practiced with much sensuality and emotion than male masturbation.

Vanessa

Ines It can result if you use the belt as punishment. I can asure you that I do not feel opressed at all. For me, the worst that you can do is to use a CB as a punishment way. For me is far worst that a normal wearing, even if it is reluctant.

Well,for knowing both,I prefered when it was used as a punishment,as,in my case,it was for a limited time,nor more than a few weeks or months.Permanent wearing,I knew it means I won't have any orgasms during several years,which is,in my opinion,way harder.

Even if it is a very hard punishment,sure.

Ines I think our sexuality it is not repressed. I think that in most of cases, here can be controlled, but not repressed. No parents here have problems accepting our feminine sexuality, all we are girls, and it is normal we are aroused sometimes. I think nobody has problems about this.

I think you explained well the difference.Yes,I'm controlled,but they don't want me to repress my feminity.

Ines Obviously, our sexuality yes is more controlled, but, personally, I think it is not a bad thing. Our belly, capable of give life is not ours completely. It affects to family and even, to a new human being, so the idea of "help" us to do not take bad decisions, even it is not main role in my case, is understandable.

However,I don't agree at all with it,as it is very close to make us wear one,no matter if we agree or not,to "help us"...And if we're not willing,it is a very bad thing to control our sexuality...And,personally,I think "my belly" is mine,it doesn't belong to my parents,or to my partner.

Angelina

Good you're still against forced wearing.

When I was punished this way,the chastity belt was way worse for me.

If you can choose to get a spanking with the hairbrush once a month,and,if you accept it,once a month,you could have a free day,without the belt,and allowed to masturbate,would you choose to stay in the belt permanently,instead of feeling some pain on the bottom(and some shame)but be able to get orgams again?

And what if,during the free day,you would be allowed too to have sex with Camryn(when both ready)?

BikelockFugitive

Even with Gallium? 😉

Angelina

Vanessa

of course not that was just a theoretical comparison. but if i would determine, the cb would certainly be a better solution than spanking or corner times 😉 but as said that is only theory and will never be implemented so . i am also against forced wear 😉

i think generally that we should not use the cb as punishment, but i want to say that some girls get much worse punishments here (in my opinion)

BikelockFugitive

Esteban

To Save 800 € if anger the girl had to break his belt.

I can imagine that it is quite possible to make a belt that is not openable unless you use a plasma cutter.
Also like I said esteban, if I would use the belt my daughter would have already make so many problems that regardless of what happens, this option will cause less trouble.

BikelockFugitive

Vanessa I would never forget about my own tricks Darling 🙂

Ines

Vanessa However,I don't agree at all with it,as it is very close to make us wear one,no matter if we agree or not.

Vanessa, I, in this point I was adapting the parents point of wiew. Not mine, or even my parents wiew. It was just to try explain @Esteban the psychology that is behind the belting.
You know that for me the approach of most of your parents it is not right, but I think the selfhood is not under it.

Vanessa And,personally,I think "my belly" is mine,it doesn't belong to my parents,or to my partner.

Here I do not agree with you. Fair or no fair, I will not demand Nature 😂, our sexuality has consequences for all our group. It is logical that our sexuality is far more controlled, It does not mean force any girl to wear a belt, than boys one.

Angelina

Vanessa

these are in my eyes two completely different topics . i'm talking about punishments and compare them with each other. so i mean that wearing a cbs for a limited time is a less severe punishment for me than spanking 😉

what you're describing is more of a deal, i may do something if i accept something else for it, that's something completely different (in my opinion)

to answer your question anyway. yes i would go into the deal 😉

Vanessa

BikelockFugitive

😉

Ines Vanessa, I, in this point I was adapting the parents point of wiew. Not mine, or even my parents wiew. It was just to try explain @Esteban the psychology that is behind the belting.
You know that for me the approach of most of your parents it is not right, but I think the selfhood is not under it.

Ok,I understand better now.I was surprised you were agreeing with a sort of forced wearing.It can be the point of view of some of our parents,yes.

Ines Here I do not agree with you. Fair or no fair, I will not demand Nature 😂, our sexuality has consequences for all our group. It is logical that our sexuality is far more controlled, It does not mean force any girl to wear a belt, than boys one.

I think we must take care about it,yes,while not considering our body or our sexuality to belong to parents or partner.But we must understand unwanted pregnancies(among other risks)can affect more than us,sure.How do you think it should be "controlled",so?With talks and being sure we understand what can happen,if we're not careful?With "approval talks" with potential boyfriend/girlfriend,as my parents do?

Angelina

Yes,it is different,but I wonder if you could accept spankings,if it was "worth it".It's mainly for curiosity,and I wonder if you hate spankings so much that you'll lose a chance to orgasm!😉

But I guess you can understand why I feel that wearing my chastity belt was worse than the spanking,when I was punished this way!

Angelina

Vanessa

unfortunately i can't really understand it. if i had the choice between a hard spanking penalty and a month in cb i would choose the cb. spanking for me is disrespectful to a human being 🙁 (my opinion)

Esteban

Angelina
This is part of everyone's intimate feeling.
But personally I would go in the direction of Vanessa by choosing a physical correction rather than being locked in a belt.

For me both are humiliating
But between two humiliations the logic want me to opt for the shortest sentence in time.

Between 30 days of imposed chastity and a small hour of physical correction, my choice would be quick.
If the length of the chastity sentence was only one day, I would hesitate to choose.

Vanessa

Angelina

Often I got both,but I would always have choose a spanking instead of wearing my chastity belt,if my parents asked me,no doubt.

Having a short high pain inflicted on me,and feeling it some hours/days after would have been better than 2 weeks or more without any orgasms...

Angelina

Esteban

It's not about the length of the sentence for me, it's about the nature of the sentence.

if my father applied some form of physical punishment, our relationship would be destroyed 🙁

Esteban

Angelina
Do not worry, I fully understand your point of view.
I just gave my opinion of Martian Troll 😁

Ines

Angelina
I agree with you about hitting punishment.

Angelina

Esteban

with you it is like with @Ines only in another direction. I understand your point of view but cannot support it 100% 😉

Angelina

Vanessa

I think we simply have a different attitude towards life, I just think it is not ok if you apply physical punishments and nobody can convince me of the opposite 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Different personnalities and education play a part in it,too,I think.But I can understand and respect your opinion.

Angelina

Vanessa

I also understand your opinion, but I could never accept it if it were like this in my family 🙁

Athania

Yes I think its good because I believe that mastrubation and premarriage sex aren't that good for you. and it helps you to control that / bring it to an lower lvl.

Renita

Athania Yes I think its good because I believe that mastrubation and premarriage sex aren't that good for you

How about yourself?

Vanessa

Athania Yes I think its good because I believe that mastrubation and premarriage sex aren't that good for you. and it helps you to control that / bring it to an lower lvl.

Why do you think it?It would be interesting to have the point of view of someone who is not a parent about it...

Angelina I also understand your opinion, but I could never accept it if it were like this in my family 🙁

You would maybe find it totally normal if if you knew it all your life.

Angelina

As I said in another topic,I think spanking is more complex than only pain.

Athania "I think free choice and communication are key in the whole story. There has to be some form of free will in it."

It can be reluctantly accepted,as for chastity,too.We don't like it,but accept it.Even if I think spankings can be effective,while I'm not sure a chastity belt is needed,in my case.

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