Do you think wearing chastity belt is the right thing to do?

Vanessa However,I don't agree at all with it,as it is very close to make us wear one,no matter if we agree or not.

Vanessa, I, in this point I was adapting the parents point of wiew. Not mine, or even my parents wiew. It was just to try explain @Esteban the psychology that is behind the belting.
You know that for me the approach of most of your parents it is not right, but I think the selfhood is not under it.

Vanessa And,personally,I think "my belly" is mine,it doesn't belong to my parents,or to my partner.

Here I do not agree with you. Fair or no fair, I will not demand Nature , our sexuality has consequences for all our group. It is logical that our sexuality is far more controlled, It does not mean force any girl to wear a belt, than boys one.

Vanessa

these are in my eyes two completely different topics . i'm talking about punishments and compare them with each other. so i mean that wearing a cbs for a limited time is a less severe punishment for me than spanking

what you're describing is more of a deal, i may do something if i accept something else for it, that's something completely different (in my opinion)

to answer your question anyway. yes i would go into the deal

BikelockFugitive

Ines Vanessa, I, in this point I was adapting the parents point of wiew. Not mine, or even my parents wiew. It was just to try explain @Esteban the psychology that is behind the belting.
You know that for me the approach of most of your parents it is not right, but I think the selfhood is not under it.

Ok,I understand better now.I was surprised you were agreeing with a sort of forced wearing.It can be the point of view of some of our parents,yes.

Ines Here I do not agree with you. Fair or no fair, I will not demand Nature , our sexuality has consequences for all our group. It is logical that our sexuality is far more controlled, It does not mean force any girl to wear a belt, than boys one.

I think we must take care about it,yes,while not considering our body or our sexuality to belong to parents or partner.But we must understand unwanted pregnancies(among other risks)can affect more than us,sure.How do you think it should be "controlled",so?With talks and being sure we understand what can happen,if we're not careful?With "approval talks" with potential boyfriend/girlfriend,as my parents do?

Angelina

Yes,it is different,but I wonder if you could accept spankings,if it was "worth it".It's mainly for curiosity,and I wonder if you hate spankings so much that you'll lose a chance to orgasm!

But I guess you can understand why I feel that wearing my chastity belt was worse than the spanking,when I was punished this way!

Vanessa

unfortunately i can't really understand it. if i had the choice between a hard spanking penalty and a month in cb i would choose the cb. spanking for me is disrespectful to a human being (my opinion)

Angelina
This is part of everyone's intimate feeling.
But personally I would go in the direction of Vanessa by choosing a physical correction rather than being locked in a belt.

For me both are humiliating
But between two humiliations the logic want me to opt for the shortest sentence in time.

Between 30 days of imposed chastity and a small hour of physical correction, my choice would be quick.
If the length of the chastity sentence was only one day, I would hesitate to choose.

Esteban

It's not about the length of the sentence for me, it's about the nature of the sentence.

if my father applied some form of physical punishment, our relationship would be destroyed

Angelina
Do not worry, I fully understand your point of view.
I just gave my opinion of Martian Troll

Angelina
I agree with you about hitting punishment.

Esteban

with you it is like with @Ines only in another direction. I understand your point of view but cannot support it 100%

Angelina

Often I got both,but I would always have choose a spanking instead of wearing my chastity belt,if my parents asked me,no doubt.

Having a short high pain inflicted on me,and feeling it some hours/days after would have been better than 2 weeks or more without any orgasms...

Angelina

Different personnalities and education play a part in it,too,I think.But I can understand and respect your opinion.

Yes I think its good because I believe that mastrubation and premarriage sex aren't that good for you. and it helps you to control that / bring it to an lower lvl.

Vanessa

I also understand your opinion, but I could never accept it if it were like this in my family

Angelina I think free choice and communication are key in the whole story. There has to be some form of free will in it.

Athania
of course, in my opinion communication does not express itself through pain, or have I misunderstood something ? I do not think so

Angelina Sorry after reading a little more up I see where your reaction came from. My initial response was in the topic question not as reply to you maybe that explains part of our confusion. But I will clarify my view on this in the next paragraphs

I personally don't think maintenance spankings are the path to achieve some of the goals discussed in this forum. I Still think there has to be a form of communication to prevent this from becoming abuse. In addition to this although not my main concern is that the law in most eu countries requires some form of concent about these activities.

About giving concent this can quickly become a minefield with the view on some of the topics discussed on this forum. The main 2 risks are that underaged people cannot give concent until a certaint age. Also concent may also be invalidated if there is an unequal power balance which is the case with a parent to child relation in addition concent may allways be retracted at any moment.

Most importantly in my opinion is how you as a person feel about it and what you think about it.
Do you willingly accept and participate with spanking and/or chastity or are they accepted because you sort of have to in your household that is what primarly mean with there has to be clear communication and freewill. The small nuances in these matter make the difference.

With all the above in mind I stand with my earlier made statement
"I think free choice and communication are key in the whole story. There has to be some form of free will in it."

Athania Yes I think its good because I believe that mastrubation and premarriage sex aren't that good for you

How about yourself?

Renita The short version is that I do not have any premarriage sexual contact. But I have some regrets on a regular basis which I find difficult to talk about. I hope this answers your question if not your free to follow up with one.

Athania Yes I think its good because I believe that mastrubation and premarriage sex aren't that good for you. and it helps you to control that / bring it to an lower lvl.

Why do you think it?It would be interesting to have the point of view of someone who is not a parent about it...

Angelina I also understand your opinion, but I could never accept it if it were like this in my family

You would maybe find it totally normal if if you knew it all your life.

Angelina

As I said in another topic,I think spanking is more complex than only pain.

Athania "I think free choice and communication are key in the whole story. There has to be some form of free will in it."

It can be reluctantly accepted,as for chastity,too.We don't like it,but accept it.Even if I think spankings can be effective,while I'm not sure a chastity belt is needed,in my case.