Which movie inspires you to an ideal relationship in the couple ?

Ines Really is not faith in his superior, it is faith in his friend. Conviction and support the man, not to the soldier. In fact, they go very farther of military discipline: they defect of Soviet Union.

Yes it is true that there was also a great bond of friendship between them.

Ines This is the leadership that a man must effect. Use his responsibility in order to make better the relationship and make happier the girl.

I also agree with that

Ines Here, I would like to nuance a bit your opinion. I agree completely, and me, as more submissive partner I think the same. But you are talking about conflict of interests between the man and the woman. But I, await of my man, the honesty and firmness to impose the interest of couple about mine, even if I can not see it in a first moment

If it's in the interests of the couple, I'll join you.
But if for example I got a promotion that would force us to move elsewhere I preferred to give up my promotion than to impose a move. And even if my promotion would be financially better for the couple I will not impose it on my partner.

Ines Well, Esteban, I think, and I want to study and become in a good professional, that your statement is not an Universal True. It is necessary that women have granted the possibility of play such roles, I agree with that. But there are a lot of girls that we are more comfortable playing another roles.

Yes indeed.
A woman may be an accomplished leader in the professional word and be totally emotionally submissive to her husband in the family setting. Even though this kind of situation must be rather rare.

Ines I do not consider it absolutely, and obviously there are a lot of women wishing become in leaders and I hope them the best of lucks, because they can be the leaders of my country too, but I, obviously, am not one of them.

I just want respect to my way of happiness. A submissive girl is not a stupid, just is a submissive or a bit lazy girl.

Compared to that, I would like to qualify your opinion because I consider myself deeply feminist in relation to some basics causes (fight against excision, respect for the feminine sexality, right of women to dispose of their body, equality in terms of wage remuneration.
It is for that reason that I fight against the parents who impose the belt on their daughter.

But on the other hand I do not recognize myself in the "low-end feminism" That is to say the feminism which consists in making all the men pass for machos or quibble on useless polemics whereas the true feminist fights are neglected.

Ines I do not consider it absolutely, and obviously there are a lot of women wishing become in leaders and I hope them the best of lucks, because they can be the leaders of my country too, but I, obviously, am not one of them.

I just want respect to my way of happiness. A submissive girl is not a stupid, just is a submissive or a bit lazy girl.
OKAY. Your emotional submission philosophy only involved your personal point of view.
I mistakenly thought you were saying that all women should have the same philosophy.

So to conclude I would say that we are 95% agree on our conception of male / female. Because our differences of opinion are, very weak.

Ines

Sorry Ines I was wrong in the answers to the quotes and I think you will get them back in the right order.

I do not yet master the system well and the translation forces me to do too many manipulations.

Ines
Ines I understand your point of view but you can not transpose a situation of your environment (microcosm) to deduce a universal thing and I will try to show you why.

There is an ancestral classification of the different types of human personality called enneagram.
It consists of 9 types of very distinct personalities and one of them happens to be the type 8 which corresponds to that of the born leader.

Well know that when we belong to this type N ° 8 all our actions of everyday life are guided by our profile leader.

This means that the soul of the leader is not intended to vary according to the environment in which he is called to evolve.

That it is the family environment, professional, friendly, political, associative ...: A leader will always want to be at the controls because it is inscribed in his psychic inheritance.

If you're interested, I think you should be able to find yourself in Type 5 because you seem to be very attracted to the world of knowledge and understanding to better protect yourself.

Finally it's just what seems to come out of our exchanges but I can obviously be wrong.

So that you can realize that we can have a totally distorted view of reality by focusing our attention on a non-significant sample, I invite you to consult this photograph of the French football team. (Note that I have already used this example on another discussion of this forum)

https://www.francetvinfo.fr/sports/foot/coupe-du-monde/foot-l-equipe-de-france-devoile-sa-photo-officielle-pour-le-mondial-en-russie_2777499.html

How many black or half-breed players do you count against the 23 players of the France team ?

Assuming that this team has represented France around the world by winning the 2018 World Cup ...

Would you go so far as to conclude that the black population represents 50% of the French population ?!
Of course not.

By focusing only on this photograph some people with no knowledge in geography could even go so far as to deduce that France is on the African continent !

Note that my example is valid in reverse if we take this time the team of South Africa.

INES you are sincere in what you say, but I do not think it necessarily corresponds to the reality of the world in which we live.