How I can convince my daughter(s) to wear a chastity belt

Sara2001

Vanessa Maybe she can announce what she wants for her birthday 2 or 3 month earlier and on her birthday you ask if she had changed her mind about it. If not, you do what she wants. If she doesn't say anything 2 or 3 month before, anything stays at it is.

Vanessa

Sara2001

I think too there should be some time to think about it,before it is unlocked.If she doesn't ask it a bit before,she would have to wait for the next possibility.It should not be forced,but it should too be clear it is serious.

Angelina my daughter would know that she can always change it on her birthday, she would always know when she has the next chance for release 😉

But she should ask a bit before,not right on her birthday or even after.

Angelina in this particular case i don't care how long my daughter wears the cb, because it is voluntary. but she is making a very mature decision. i just want to show her that decisions have consequences and she has to stick to agreements and/or contracts

I agree.Good way to act.

Angelina

Vanessa

my daughter would know that she can always change it on her birthday, she would always know when she has the next chance for release 😉

if she asks for release shortly after her birthday, i would first ask why she didn't decide to be released shortly before and then I would decide

Sara2001

Angelina i would first ask why she didn't decide to be released shortly before and then I would decide

Don't you think there should be a minimum time to think about it?

Angelina

Sara2001

she has a whole year to think about her decision 😉

seriously, i don't think this situation would happen, i see no reason why my daughter should ask me for it.

in this particular case i don't care how long my daughter wears the cb, because it is voluntary. but she is making a very mature decision. i just want to show her that decisions have consequences and she has to stick to agreements and/or contracts

Angelina

Vanessa But she should ask a bit before,not right on her birthday or even after.

after her birthday it is too late, I would ask her the question on her birthday.

She can ask for a release before, I would tell her to wait until her next birthday and then tell me the final decision 😉

Vanessa

Angelina She can ask for a release before, I would tell her to wait until her next birthday and then tell me the final decision 😉

I think it is a good way,yes.Harder if she would ask it only one or two days before her birthday or on her birthday,she would not have much time to think about it and,maybe,change her mind.

Angelina

Vanessa

of course she could do that, but she would make the decision on her birthday 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

I think there should be at least a few weeks before unlocking,after she asked.So,if she would ask it on her birthday,or close to it,maybe make an "exception" and tell her it is noticed,and,if it is still her choice,in,let's say,1 month,it would be unlocked.

But the rule stay the same.If she would ask for it a week after her birthday,for example,she would have to wait until her next birthday.

Sara2001

Vanessa I agree to this. Every birthday but with a minimum waiting time of 4 weeks (I think 3 month is even better).

Vanessa

Sara2001

I agree;not sure on the duration,however,I mainly tell 4 weeks to keep it close to her birthday.

Angelina i would say it's like a job interview, when the boss asks if we want the job we have to make a decision and we have to make it at that exact moment

We may have some time to think about it and read carefully the contract,too!😉

The good part,to make it serious,is,when she would choose to be free of it or to wear it,she would have to stay in the situation she choose during one year,until her next birthday.

Angelina

@Vanessa @Sara2001

I wouldn't do it like this, sorry girls,

i would say it's like a job interview, when the boss asks if we want the job we have to make a decision and we have to make it at that exact moment

Angelina

Vanessa The good part,to make it serious,is,when she would choose to be free of it or to wear it,she would have to stay in the situation she choose during one year,until her next birthday

i don't think you understand me 100%, it doesn't matter if and when she asks, the situation stays the same with what you and Sara say

Vanessa

Angelina

But,when you ask her at her birthday,her answer would last until her next birthday,right?

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly, the agreement would be valid for one year

Vanessa

Angelina

I think it is not bad this way.If she would want it,she would have to ask for it,knowing the consequences,so no forced wearing,and she would understand it is serious,not a game nor a fashion item.