How I can convince my daughter(s) to wear a chastity belt

Vanessa

but at @Tere it was voluntary, so she can give her daughters positive feelings towards the cb, which I unfortunately cannot

Angelina

Sure,I guess it is harder to explain positive feelings when we were wearing it unvoluntarily...I wonder how @Tere got positive feelings about it(but I may have forgotten,if she told it before).

Vanessa .I wonder how @Tere got positive feelings about it(but I may have forgotten,if she told it before).

I think because her husband has the keys and not her father

Angelina Vanessa

Hello girls,
I think that in deep down, it's simpler than you think. Even though in general, the mentality regarding the chastity belt is positive, too, here with my daughters, sometimes there are crises, and we have to deal with them.
As I told you a few months ago, my beginnings with the belt was totally voluntary, and even in terms of giving some "spicy" to my marriage.
But, over time, I realized that the chastity belt is an incredible tool for developing a type of woman.
That ideal of a woman who is happy in the consciousness of knowing herself protected, and why not, a little possessed, by a husband or parents who love us.
I think only girls who are represented in that ideal are good candidates to wear a belt.
As I said a long time ago, reading your stories, my soul breaks, to see how many of you are unhappy being led down a path of femininity in which you do not at ease.
I hope I have answered you, although I haven't been in for several weeks, Ines has kept me up to date.
Greetings to all!

Tere

hi, nice of you to write again

i think you are completely right with what you write, the problem is that i or @Vanessa don't have this philosophy and therefore can't pass it on to our daughters but i understand that the cb in your family has a different and much more positive meaning

Tere

Thank you for the details,it is interesting.

It is understandable you like to wear it if you've this sort of feelings about feminity,and,in this case,yes,you can consider chastity belts positively.

Angelina

I agree.We haven't the same feelings,and,so,can't tell our daughters about such feelings.It is mainly a restriction for us.

It is probably way easier to wear it and accept it,with positive feelings.Even if it seems there is hard times,even in this case!

Vanessa Even if it seems there is hard times,even in this case!

of course, and fights probably still exist.

but in general the feeling is more positive

Angelina of course, and fights probably still exist.

I think so.It it is a normal,and even probably instinctive,reaction,to fight a chastity belt.

Angelina but in general the feeling is more positive

Yes,they have way more positive feelings and thoughts about it than many of us.

Vanessa I think so.It it is a normal,and even probably instinctive,reaction,to fight a chastity belt.

nevertheless i think that in families like @Ines and @Tere there are much less fights

Angelina

As they agree to it at first,I think so,too.But it would be logical they still fight it sometimes,even if less often and less strongly than us.

But it seems having a talk is enough to make them to accept to continue wearing it without too much difficulty.

Angelina

Talking about it can help,even,if,in my case,I'm not at ease when dicussing about it with my parents.

But,in @Ines family,it seems it is something they can discuss freely and it is enough to help them accept it(and maybe reduce the fights a bit).

Vanessa Talking about it can help,even,if,in my case,I'm not at ease when dicussing about it with my parents.

that I find a little bit sad

fortunately i can always talk with my father openly about it if i feel bad because of the equipment. my father has also therefore introduced my chastity diary, it is also very important for me, because it does not change anything in my situation, but i can accept it after the conversations again better

Angelina

I can ask for a talk,they're not against discussing it;but I perfer to avoid it if not necessary.And I think they feel the same.

Good for you to feel more at ease discussing about chastity devices,chastity diary,etc...with your father,however.

You're not a bit embarrassed about having to write about your fights,and what part of your devices you fought?I think I would not like it much...

Vanessa You're not a bit embarrassed about having to write about your fights,and what part of your devices you fought?I think I would not like it much...

of course it is sometimes embarrassing, but it helps my father to understand my feelings better. so we have a good basis to discuss these things

Angelina

How long would you have to write it?As long as you wear a chastity belt?

Vanessa

yes as long as i wear the belt unless i stop fighting (which is not going to happen), but there are only short entries which are then discussed in detail, so not much work

Angelina

I doubt you would be able to not fight it at all,yes.I would not be able to stop fighting my chastity belt and my chastity bra either.

Are all the entries discussed,or only the main ones(longer or stronger fights)?

Vanessa

since all entries have the same length due to the system, all entries are discussed

but the individual discussions take different lengths of time

I have to say that I have a complete different feeling about my chastity bra than I have with my chastity belt, because I wear the bra consensual and I think I will feel the same after wedding for my chastity belt.

I hate that I am forced to wear the belt and the tightbands every day and every hour of the day, but I have learned that in the first place it is not because of the restrictions it brings (which I truly hate, too) but mainly because it is not my choice.

I think because this aspect will be gone after wedding, I will be much happier in the belt.

I think the best way to convince a daughter is to make it kind of consensual, even if she can't get out without a waiting time, it still feels much better.