How I can convince my daughter(s) to wear a chastity belt

Vanessa Tell her you want to have a talk with her,and explain her what is a chastity belt and the purpose of it,then discuss it with her and be honest(telling her the good parts and the bad parts),then ask her if she would agree to wear one.Of course,she should be allowed to think about it for some time before answering it,if she doesn't want to give an answer right at the moment.And,if she refuses,you should accept her decision.

that's exactly what i think, but i think the first step should be that she suggests it herself. i would tell my daughter that this possibility exists, but not ask her if she wants to wear one, this impulse must come from her

Angelina

Right.The last step(asking her if she would accept to wear one)should be cancelled,and only let her know what it is,the purpose,the good and bad parts,and let her ask for one if she wants it.

Vanessa

i would do the same with my daughter as soon as she enters puberty, i will show her the belt and explain what the belt does. everything else must come from my daughter

@Vanessa @Angelina
You know perfectly that if you do not encourage them to wear, more or less directly, they will never would wear it.
I think that is due to both you have bad experiences with the belt, for me, the belt helped me to be more and better girl.
I will respect my daughter will, but I will not hide her that I would proud of her (in this aspect, I can be very proud of a daughter that does not wish wear it) if she decides wear it.
I think that if parents just explain good things and bad things, probably none of us will wear it, even willingly.

Ines

well i understand what you mean. but i want to make it clear that i can also be proud of my daughter when she masturbates and/or has sex. i would be proud of my daughter if she manages to have a happy relationship or marriage and because she manages to manage her life

Angelina when she masturbates and/or has sex

I think is nothing to be proud . I mean, nothing to be horrified, but neither to be proud. And I think is much better if she can avoid it.

Ines

well i have other expectations of my children than to be chaste. i expect proper behavior and good performance in school. and if my daughter has sex with her boyfriend/girlfriend this is totally ok as long as it does not negatively influence other areas of life

Angelina
Obviously, I would have too, but active premature sexuality it is not one!

Ines

I agree with you, but if I raise my child in a reasonable way, this will not happen, I don't need a chastity belt for that

Ines

I don't think I would try to influence her this way.I think willingly wearers could accept it if they think good things are more important than bad things(for example,they may want to stay virgin until marriage but think they would not be able to keep it when they would have a serious boyfriend).

Does your parents influenced you(and your older sister)this way?

Ines

I don't think it is something we can be proud(it is normal things),but I don't think it is better if avoided either.

Ines I think that obviously they think that for a girl is better wear a belt.

well your sister does not wear a belt, maybe the influence was different?

Angelina
No, I think is a matter of personality. She does not enjoy the feeling of "dependant care". She is another kind of woman, and it is ok since she would be happy (is she?).
Easy example, do you think in a couple that owns a pharmacy. And they have a daughter. They would be happy and proud if she decides to study a degree in Pharmacy, but she decides a Lawyer degree.
Does it means that they love her less? No.
Are not they proud if she becomes in a judge? Yes they are.
It is only that they would have a plus if her daughter would be the owner of family pharmacy.

Ines To stay in your analogy: How would your mother react if you first study pharmacy, but later want to change the subject because you realize that it wasn't the right subject after all? I asked you this question before, but you never answered.

a_father
Not only I answered it once, but several ones, in fact every one here could answer you for me, but I will do it once more:
I would change the matter, without any trauma for both sides.
Do you think that in a normal environment a family can make a daughter wear it in forced way? No. T

Ines

yes i understand that, i can apply the example to myself. my father is happy that i will work with him later and take over his "company" (one man AG) sometime, but if i should decide differently and still have a professional career he would also be proud of me

Ines

When they discussed it with you,you felt they thought it is the best choice?Or were they mainly neutral?

Ines No, I think is a matter of personality.

I agree.I think the personality play a major part in accepting to wear it or not,no matter if it is presented as something good,or neutral.

Ines Easy example, do you think in a couple that owns a pharmacy. And they have a daughter. They would be happy and proud if she decides to study a degree in Pharmacy, but she decides a Lawyer degree.
Does it means that they love her less? No.
Are not they proud if she becomes in a judge? Yes they are.
It is only that they would have a plus if her daughter would be the owner of family pharmacy.

Good example.Even it doesn't apply for me,as I was allowed to study what I wanted,but have no say about wearing a chastity belt or not.

Vanessa Even it doesn't apply for me,as I was allowed to study what I wanted,but have no say about wearing a chastity belt or not.

it is difficult to apply to us, but i still agree with the example, although i could study something else and still have no right to refuse to my equipment

Angelina

It is a mix of modern things(being allowed to study what we want),and old fashioned things(having to wear a chastity belt)...

Vanessa

that's true. my father and i are very similar. we like conservative things but also modern things. but unfortunately sometimes different things