@Vanessa @Angelina
You know perfectly that if you do not encourage them to wear, more or less directly, they will never would wear it.
I think that is due to both you have bad experiences with the belt, for me, the belt helped me to be more and better girl.
I will respect my daughter will, but I will not hide her that I would proud of her (in this aspect, I can be very proud of a daughter that does not wish wear it) if she decides wear it.
I think that if parents just explain good things and bad things, probably none of us will wear it, even willingly.

    Ines

    well i understand what you mean. but i want to make it clear that i can also be proud of my daughter when she masturbates and/or has sex. i would be proud of my daughter if she manages to have a happy relationship or marriage and because she manages to manage her life 🙂

    • Ines replied to this.

        Angelina when she masturbates and/or has sex

        I think is nothing to be proud . I mean, nothing to be horrified, but neither to be proud. And I think is much better if she can avoid it.

            Ines

            well i have other expectations of my children than to be chaste. i expect proper behavior and good performance in school. and if my daughter has sex with her boyfriend/girlfriend this is totally ok as long as it does not negatively influence other areas of life 🙂

                Angelina
                Obviously, I would have too, but active premature sexuality it is not one! 😁

                    Ines

                    I agree with you, but if I raise my child in a reasonable way, this will not happen, I don't need a chastity belt for that 😉

                      Ines

                      I don't think I would try to influence her this way.I think willingly wearers could accept it if they think good things are more important than bad things(for example,they may want to stay virgin until marriage but think they would not be able to keep it when they would have a serious boyfriend).

                      Does your parents influenced you(and your older sister)this way?

                      Ines

                      I don't think it is something we can be proud(it is normal things),but I don't think it is better if avoided either.

                      • Ines replied to this.

                            Vanessa I don't think it is something we can be proud(it is normal things),but I don't think it is better if avoided either.

                            Almost 100% agree. You are right, are normal things so I think that do it is not reason to depreciate to any girl, but, I think that it is better if we are protected of temptation.

                            Vanessa Does your parents influenced you(and your older sister)this way?

                            I think that it is a bit inevitable, I mean, even our parents respect our mind about the point, I think that obviously they think that for a girl is better wear a belt. Same way, when I would propose it if I would have a daughter due I think is better for her.

                                  Ines I think that obviously they think that for a girl is better wear a belt.

                                  well your sister does not wear a belt, maybe the influence was different?

                                  • Ines replied to this.

                                      Angelina
                                      No, I think is a matter of personality. She does not enjoy the feeling of "dependant care". She is another kind of woman, and it is ok since she would be happy (is she?).
                                      Easy example, do you think in a couple that owns a pharmacy. And they have a daughter. They would be happy and proud if she decides to study a degree in Pharmacy, but she decides a Lawyer degree.
                                      Does it means that they love her less? No.
                                      Are not they proud if she becomes in a judge? Yes they are.
                                      It is only that they would have a plus if her daughter would be the owner of family pharmacy.

                                          Ines To stay in your analogy: How would your mother react if you first study pharmacy, but later want to change the subject because you realize that it wasn't the right subject after all? I asked you this question before, but you never answered.

                                          • Ines replied to this.

                                              a_father
                                              Not only I answered it once, but several ones, in fact every one here could answer you for me, but I will do it once more:
                                              I would change the matter, without any trauma for both sides.
                                              Do you think that in a normal environment a family can make a daughter wear it in forced way? No. T

                                                Ines

                                                yes i understand that, i can apply the example to myself. my father is happy that i will work with him later and take over his "company" (one man AG) sometime, but if i should decide differently and still have a professional career he would also be proud of me 🙂

                                                  Ines

                                                  When they discussed it with you,you felt they thought it is the best choice?Or were they mainly neutral?

                                                  Ines No, I think is a matter of personality.

                                                  I agree.I think the personality play a major part in accepting to wear it or not,no matter if it is presented as something good,or neutral.

                                                  Ines Easy example, do you think in a couple that owns a pharmacy. And they have a daughter. They would be happy and proud if she decides to study a degree in Pharmacy, but she decides a Lawyer degree.
                                                  Does it means that they love her less? No.
                                                  Are not they proud if she becomes in a judge? Yes they are.
                                                  It is only that they would have a plus if her daughter would be the owner of family pharmacy.

                                                  Good example.Even it doesn't apply for me,as I was allowed to study what I wanted,but have no say about wearing a chastity belt or not.

                                                          Vanessa Even it doesn't apply for me,as I was allowed to study what I wanted,but have no say about wearing a chastity belt or not.

                                                          it is difficult to apply to us, but i still agree with the example, although i could study something else and still have no right to refuse to my equipment

                                                              Angelina

                                                              It is a mix of modern things(being allowed to study what we want),and old fashioned things(having to wear a chastity belt)...

                                                                  Vanessa

                                                                  that's true. my father and i are very similar. we like conservative things but also modern things. but unfortunately sometimes different things 🙁

                                                                      Angelina

                                                                      Personally,I tend to prefer modern things(not surprising considering my studies);my parents a bit less,but the chastity belt is very conservative..🙁

                                                                          Vanessa

                                                                          well i am divided in two as said. but i agree with you that the chastity belt does not belong to the conservative values i want to protect