How I can convince my daughter(s) to wear a chastity belt

Ines

I agree with you, but if I raise my child in a reasonable way, this will not happen, I don't need a chastity belt for that

Ines

I don't think I would try to influence her this way.I think willingly wearers could accept it if they think good things are more important than bad things(for example,they may want to stay virgin until marriage but think they would not be able to keep it when they would have a serious boyfriend).

Does your parents influenced you(and your older sister)this way?

Ines

I don't think it is something we can be proud(it is normal things),but I don't think it is better if avoided either.

Ines I think that obviously they think that for a girl is better wear a belt.

well your sister does not wear a belt, maybe the influence was different?

Angelina
No, I think is a matter of personality. She does not enjoy the feeling of "dependant care". She is another kind of woman, and it is ok since she would be happy (is she?).
Easy example, do you think in a couple that owns a pharmacy. And they have a daughter. They would be happy and proud if she decides to study a degree in Pharmacy, but she decides a Lawyer degree.
Does it means that they love her less? No.
Are not they proud if she becomes in a judge? Yes they are.
It is only that they would have a plus if her daughter would be the owner of family pharmacy.

Ines To stay in your analogy: How would your mother react if you first study pharmacy, but later want to change the subject because you realize that it wasn't the right subject after all? I asked you this question before, but you never answered.

a_father
Not only I answered it once, but several ones, in fact every one here could answer you for me, but I will do it once more:
I would change the matter, without any trauma for both sides.
Do you think that in a normal environment a family can make a daughter wear it in forced way? No. T

Ines

yes i understand that, i can apply the example to myself. my father is happy that i will work with him later and take over his "company" (one man AG) sometime, but if i should decide differently and still have a professional career he would also be proud of me

Ines

When they discussed it with you,you felt they thought it is the best choice?Or were they mainly neutral?

Ines No, I think is a matter of personality.

I agree.I think the personality play a major part in accepting to wear it or not,no matter if it is presented as something good,or neutral.

Ines Easy example, do you think in a couple that owns a pharmacy. And they have a daughter. They would be happy and proud if she decides to study a degree in Pharmacy, but she decides a Lawyer degree.
Does it means that they love her less? No.
Are not they proud if she becomes in a judge? Yes they are.
It is only that they would have a plus if her daughter would be the owner of family pharmacy.

Good example.Even it doesn't apply for me,as I was allowed to study what I wanted,but have no say about wearing a chastity belt or not.

Vanessa Even it doesn't apply for me,as I was allowed to study what I wanted,but have no say about wearing a chastity belt or not.

it is difficult to apply to us, but i still agree with the example, although i could study something else and still have no right to refuse to my equipment

Vanessa

that's true. my father and i are very similar. we like conservative things but also modern things. but unfortunately sometimes different things

Angelina

Personally,I tend to prefer modern things(not surprising considering my studies);my parents a bit less,but the chastity belt is very conservative..

Vanessa

well i am divided in two as said. but i agree with you that the chastity belt does not belong to the conservative values i want to protect

Angelina

And it is probably one of the most conservative ones we have to deal with...

Vanessa

that's right, even though i appreciate the conservative lifestyle, the chastity belt is too much

Does have somebody experience with this topic?

i like chocolate with nuts, but i hate white chocolate

Angelina White chocolate isn't even chocolate. +1