Angelina it would be much worse for me if my father would unlock me, because he thinks I am not pretty or desirable than that I continue to wear the belt and therefore feel desirable.
I like this approach from another topic. If a girl wears a chastity belt it's assumed she is desired, so her "assets" must be locked.
Laura I like this approach from another topic. If a girl wears a chastity belt it's assumed she is desired, so her "assets" must be locked.
I don't like much my "assets" are locked,but it makes sense.As I said,being unlocked because they think l'm not pretty enough to attract men or women would have been very hard for me,emotionally.
Angelina the general approach lies with the parents. it always depends on the character of the daughter and the attitude of the parents. also parents have different reasons why they want to close their daughter, that can have to do with the exterior of the daughter or also with the behavior
But in these case,it is mainly the parents' decision,they decide it for her,not convince her she had to wear one.
In your case,if your father hasn't decided it for you when he caught you self-pleasuring(so,according to your post,he did this due to your behavior),do you think he could have convinced you to wear one?
Angelina we talked about it a long time before i got the belt, but i couldn't win the discussion because i had no arguments
It is a talk rarely win,anyway....
Laura That's why my parents refuse to unlock me
I doubt they think it could hurt you emotionally or make you get bad self-esteem if they unlock you without saying anything about being pretty or not...
Laura once I get released from the belt I will start having sex soon
ehm.. maybe this is simply... life? They can't decide for you forever. what if a day you go to live by yourself (also alone) and you tell them "no more CB"? the concept <<Wedding =no cb! ; No wedding = no sex>> is totally wrong....... as if wedding is the solution for all problems of the world..... nothing more wrong!
strictfather the concept <<Wedding =no cb! ; No wedding = no sex>> is totally wrong.
What's wrong with it fundamentally?
That an orgasm never killed anyone but a forced chastity can leave permanent marks in the mind...
Angelina yes it true yes also so that it is a fact true that I have masturbated. he has caught me doing it and I can not claim it is not true
Yes,as he's against it and caught you in the act,there is no good arguments about it...Especially as I guess he doesn't care it is common for women to do this and that is natural and not harmful to anyone.
Laura once I get released from the belt I will start having sex soon.
Is it true?
it is not harmful, but my father thinks that it can be harmful for the psyche. it was true even before my time in cb so that my father always told me to wait with sexual activities until i get married but unfortunately i couldn't do anything against his feelings and needs 
i don't have this extreme willpower and that's why i'm closed now
Laura Not sure, that's a problem. I'm pretty confident while I'm in the belt.
So maybe it is not totally wrong to make you wear one...
I've no problem with having sex when not married,but as it seeems to not be allowed in your family...
Angelina it is not harmful, but my father thinks that it can be harmful for the psyche. it was true even before my time in cb so that my father always told me to wait with sexual activities until i get married
As far as I know,no recent studies imply that masturbating is harmful for the psyche.It has mainly good effects,as long as it is not excesssive.
In France,for a long time,people thought that masturbating make the one doing it deaf...
Angelina i couldn't do anything against his feelings and needs
It is very hard to resist such urges for long if not prevented to do it...
Vanessa So maybe it is not totally wrong to make you wear one...
Well, probably they have a point. But I agree with @strictfather, they can't do it forever, although they are satisfied with current situation.
