Preserve virginity in girls is important, but is collateral. The main belt is the permanente reminder of the net that love and take charge of us.
See the belt only as a tool of unconfiance seeing it a thing to avoid mistakes is source of anger.
My parents love me, not my maidenhood.
How I can convince my daughter(s) to wear a chastity belt
My parents would not stop loving me, if I was not virgin.
However it's nice side effect of a chastity belt even if it's not a primary reason.
Laura From another hand I don't regret I didn't have sex before I got my belt.
I agree it may be better,for at least one reason,as I think it is easier to wear it when still virgin,and so not knowing how good can be sex while not being able to feel it anymore for several years.
Ines She is more different to me or my elder sister, so I gess that the capability of being convinced to be belted is in the person.
Ivana(who posted on Misterpoll but not here,at least for now)had three daughters,and she and two or her daughters were in a chastity belt far before the third one finally accepted it,so,it can change.
Laura My parents would not stop loving me, if I was not virgin.
Good my parents feel the same,as I was not virgin some times,when I've a chastity belt put on me for the first time(and it was only used as a punishment,at this time).
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Angelina it would be much worse for me if my father would unlock me, because he thinks I am not pretty or desirable than that I continue to wear the belt and therefore feel desirable.
I like this approach from another topic. If a girl wears a chastity belt it's assumed she is desired, so her "assets" must be locked.
Laura I like this approach from another topic. If a girl wears a chastity belt it's assumed she is desired, so her "assets" must be locked.
I don't like much my "assets" are locked,but it makes sense.As I said,being unlocked because they think l'm not pretty enough to attract men or women would have been very hard for me,emotionally.
Angelina the general approach lies with the parents. it always depends on the character of the daughter and the attitude of the parents. also parents have different reasons why they want to close their daughter, that can have to do with the exterior of the daughter or also with the behavior
But in these case,it is mainly the parents' decision,they decide it for her,not convince her she had to wear one.
In your case,if your father hasn't decided it for you when he caught you self-pleasuring(so,according to your post,he did this due to your behavior),do you think he could have convinced you to wear one?
Angelina we talked about it a long time before i got the belt, but i couldn't win the discussion because i had no arguments
It is a talk rarely win,anyway....
Laura That's why my parents refuse to unlock me
I doubt they think it could hurt you emotionally or make you get bad self-esteem if they unlock you without saying anything about being pretty or not...
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Laura once I get released from the belt I will start having sex soon
ehm.. maybe this is simply... life? They can't decide for you forever. what if a day you go to live by yourself (also alone) and you tell them "no more CB"? the concept <<Wedding =no cb! ; No wedding = no sex>> is totally wrong....... as if wedding is the solution for all problems of the world..... nothing more wrong!
strictfather the concept <<Wedding =no cb! ; No wedding = no sex>> is totally wrong.
What's wrong with it fundamentally?
That an orgasm never killed anyone but a forced chastity can leave permanent marks in the mind...
Angelina yes it true yes also so that it is a fact true that I have masturbated. he has caught me doing it and I can not claim it is not true
Yes,as he's against it and caught you in the act,there is no good arguments about it...Especially as I guess he doesn't care it is common for women to do this and that is natural and not harmful to anyone.
Laura once I get released from the belt I will start having sex soon.
Is it true?
it is not harmful, but my father thinks that it can be harmful for the psyche. it was true even before my time in cb so that my father always told me to wait with sexual activities until i get married but unfortunately i couldn't do anything against his feelings and needs 
i don't have this extreme willpower and that's why i'm closed now