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@Vanessa I'm in a similar situation.I know I can tell them I will not wear it anymore and tell them to take it off,and they would agree,but they would probably tell me to find a flat and not help me financially for anything(rent,studies,food and drink,etc...).And,even if I'm living on my own and get enough money,stopping to wear it when not married would probably put me in trouble with them.I,however,don't know if it would only make us less close or if they may,even if a bit extreme,not want to meet me or hear me anymore,until I resume wearing it or being married...So I understand you don't want to break it.

@Laura It's wrong to say I was forced to wear a belt, better to say, I couldn't decline their offer. Your understanding of the situation is close, excepting I'm not dependent financially so much and can move away and cut the belt off any time, but in this case I will loss connections not only to the parents, but to other relatives who can help me in my life. And what's next? Work in a post office and wait until somebody retires? No, thanks. I prefer to be a good girl and wear a belt.

Dilly So, you should start thinking about it, maybe more bargains.

    It seems the main argument when being "forced" to wear a chastity belt(not physically,but by threatening,opposite to Ivana's method of convincing her daughters and giving priveleges if they accep it),is refusing means damaging/breaking our relationship with our parents,or even family.I think financial help(including allowed to live in their house),especially for students,is often used too,probably the second main argument when forcing us to accept,even if reluctantly.

    Do you think there is several other arguments,for "forcing" or convincing,which are often used?

      Vanessa Do you think there is several other arguments,for "forcing" or convincing,which are often used?

      A girl might ask her parents to keep her belted voluntarily .
      Also might be religious reasons.

          4 days later

          Laura

          Right for these two reasons;I've thought of it.Even if asking to be belted is probably not usual.

              7 months later

              Vanessa Yes,it seems that,if someone has to wear a chastity belt reluctantly,when the situation change,it is often to be more restrictive....🙁

              We both know it well,too...🙁

              I feel that maybe our parents think that we become more creative after some time and so additional security feels necessary for them.

                  Vanessa We both know it well,too...🙁

                  unfortunately yes 🙁 but with the chain between the tighbands I achieved at least a small improvement of my situation 😉

                  Sara2001 I feel that maybe our parents think that we become more creative after some time and so additional security feels necessary for them.

                  at least back then on misterpoll it was the reason for the tighbands at @catherine98

                        Sara2001

                        Possible,yes.Even if not the case;we may try more things,but without more success...

                        Angelina but with the chain between the tighbands I achieved at least a small improvement of my situation 😉

                        Yes,it became a bit better!🙂

                        Angelina at least back then on misterpoll it was the reason for the tighbands at @catherine98

                        Partly because her mother wanted her to give up her free day,what she doesn't agreed to,too.

                                Vanessa Partly because her mother wanted her to give up her free day,what she doesn't agreed to,too.

                                and that is also very good so, it is a privilege which most of us do not have 🙁

                                    Vanessa It would be more bearable if I've a free day,even every other week

                                    i would even be satisfied with once a month, but i will never be able to push that through 🙁

                                        Angelina

                                        Same.But,for @catherine98,it was decided before she was locked up.

                                        And she was "conviced",not threatened,to wear it,at first,with the same limits(even if now,she can't change her mind without consequences).

                                            Vanessa

                                            that's right,

                                            but unfortunately it now looks like she is supposed to wear the cb until her wedding, although in the beginning it was only supposed to be during her studies 🙁

                                                Angelina
                                                The wedding, for me, is a very much logical line than ending of studies.
                                                If a girl wears a belt, I can not understand what is difference between to have a degree or not.

                                                    Ines If a girl wears a belt, I can not understand what is difference between to have a degree or not.

                                                    if i remember correctly it had been the deal of @catherine98 with her mother that she only wears it during her studies. it can take much longer until the wedding 🙁

                                                      Angelina that's right,

                                                      but unfortunately it now looks like she is supposed to wear the cb until her wedding, although in the beginning it was only supposed to be during her studies 🙁

                                                      It seems to be the case,yes...

                                                      Ines

                                                      Generally,people think the university years are the ones when we're the most sexually active(not totally wrong).But it is not unusual to have a serious relationship starting during it,or even be engaged,so,after the studies,it can not be very long before being married and with not too much different partners.

                                                      And,for women,many start to think differently about relationship and sex.Before,it is often "I fall in love,and then,I'll have sex with him/her.".But,during,and after,it,it can easily be more "I'll have sex with that man/woman I like,and then,we may fall in love.".

                                                            Vanessa Generally,people think the university years are the ones when we're the most sexually active(not totally wrong).

                                                            it kind of reminds me of American movies 🤣

                                                            but you're right, it's no different in germany, even if many of them had their first time before they started studying 😉

                                                                Angelina

                                                                As far as I know,it is the same in France too.

                                                                And I agree,it is pretty rare to still be a virgin when starting university.But,often we were less sexually active before.Especially women,men tend to be more focused to sex,even before!

                                                                    Vanessa

                                                                    maybe, also because the learning load increases strongly during the studies, you need something to cool down 😂