@Dilly, once you are 18, you are free to do whatever you wish. But older girls, including myself, keep wearing their belts. I will collect some posts from the misterpoll.

    Laura
    yes, I am legally free to do what I wish then, but I am not sure if that may be of any help.

        Dilly Most likely they won't let you stay in their home if you refuse to keep wearing a belt. That's sort of agreement I'm talking about.

          Hm, I can't imagine that my parents really would throw me out if I'd say "no" then, but they may threaten with it. And on the other hand the obligation to be obedient doesn't have much to do with a date or a birthday.

          From misterpoll

          @catherine98 Some weeks ago they told me that they seriously like the idea and think about to make the following agreement with me: They will take my full expenses during my studies, if I would agree to wear a chastity belt. First I was shocked. I did not expect that such belts exist in modern times.
          After lots of discussion with them and thinking about it by myself I finally agreed, which i still cannot believe. Reasons for my decision: First is the financial support (e.g. the promised me a car), second the fact that i can reject every time (which would mean to lose the mentionend support), and third: after my research I became at least curious. The agreement is: After getting used to it I wear the belt until I revoke the agreement or I get married. My parents will unlock me every two weeks for some time while i am at home. My parents will care for my expenses.

            Laura
            oh, now I really understand what you mean. Thanks for clarifying it!

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                @Vanessa I'm in a similar situation.I know I can tell them I will not wear it anymore and tell them to take it off,and they would agree,but they would probably tell me to find a flat and not help me financially for anything(rent,studies,food and drink,etc...).And,even if I'm living on my own and get enough money,stopping to wear it when not married would probably put me in trouble with them.I,however,don't know if it would only make us less close or if they may,even if a bit extreme,not want to meet me or hear me anymore,until I resume wearing it or being married...So I understand you don't want to break it.

                @Laura It's wrong to say I was forced to wear a belt, better to say, I couldn't decline their offer. Your understanding of the situation is close, excepting I'm not dependent financially so much and can move away and cut the belt off any time, but in this case I will loss connections not only to the parents, but to other relatives who can help me in my life. And what's next? Work in a post office and wait until somebody retires? No, thanks. I prefer to be a good girl and wear a belt.

                Dilly So, you should start thinking about it, maybe more bargains.

                  It seems the main argument when being "forced" to wear a chastity belt(not physically,but by threatening,opposite to Ivana's method of convincing her daughters and giving priveleges if they accep it),is refusing means damaging/breaking our relationship with our parents,or even family.I think financial help(including allowed to live in their house),especially for students,is often used too,probably the second main argument when forcing us to accept,even if reluctantly.

                  Do you think there is several other arguments,for "forcing" or convincing,which are often used?

                    Vanessa Do you think there is several other arguments,for "forcing" or convincing,which are often used?

                    A girl might ask her parents to keep her belted voluntarily .
                    Also might be religious reasons.

                        4 days later

                        Laura

                        Right for these two reasons;I've thought of it.Even if asking to be belted is probably not usual.

                            7 months later

                            Vanessa Yes,it seems that,if someone has to wear a chastity belt reluctantly,when the situation change,it is often to be more restrictive....🙁

                            We both know it well,too...🙁

                            I feel that maybe our parents think that we become more creative after some time and so additional security feels necessary for them.

                                Vanessa We both know it well,too...🙁

                                unfortunately yes 🙁 but with the chain between the tighbands I achieved at least a small improvement of my situation 😉

                                Sara2001 I feel that maybe our parents think that we become more creative after some time and so additional security feels necessary for them.

                                at least back then on misterpoll it was the reason for the tighbands at @catherine98

                                      Sara2001

                                      Possible,yes.Even if not the case;we may try more things,but without more success...

                                      Angelina but with the chain between the tighbands I achieved at least a small improvement of my situation 😉

                                      Yes,it became a bit better!🙂

                                      Angelina at least back then on misterpoll it was the reason for the tighbands at @catherine98

                                      Partly because her mother wanted her to give up her free day,what she doesn't agreed to,too.

                                              Vanessa Partly because her mother wanted her to give up her free day,what she doesn't agreed to,too.

                                              and that is also very good so, it is a privilege which most of us do not have 🙁

                                                  Vanessa It would be more bearable if I've a free day,even every other week

                                                  i would even be satisfied with once a month, but i will never be able to push that through 🙁

                                                      Angelina

                                                      Same.But,for @catherine98,it was decided before she was locked up.

                                                      And she was "conviced",not threatened,to wear it,at first,with the same limits(even if now,she can't change her mind without consequences).

                                                          Vanessa

                                                          that's right,

                                                          but unfortunately it now looks like she is supposed to wear the cb until her wedding, although in the beginning it was only supposed to be during her studies 🙁