Angelina i'll be honest, if you are at that point you should talk about your lifestyle first and not afterwards. it would be better for your mutual trust.

That's exactly what I wanted to say. If I am at this point, I should have talked a long time before to him. To prevent me from not talking about it, this is a very useful punishment.

      Sara2001 That's exactly what I wanted to say. If I am at this point, I should have talked a long time before to him. To prevent me from not talking about it, this is a very useful punishment.

      i agree that it makes sense, and talking is always the best way, and there should be no need for punishment.
      I am glad that you also see it that way 😃

          Angelina i agree that it makes sense, and talking is always the best way, and there should be no need for punishment.
          I am glad that you also see it that way

          There is no need to go through this punishment, but I think it makes sense that it is in place.

              Vanessa To make you more tending to talk before disobeying purposely?

              It's not back talking. It's talking about something that is on my mind and important for me. During my weekly maintenance session I am supposed to talk about these kind of thoughts. I can't say it often enough. Talking is the key.

                  Sara2001
                  I agree and is so important in every relationship.

                    Sara2001 There is no need to go through this punishment, but I think it makes sense that it is in place.

                    right, but if this punishment should be necessary, something is generally wrong, then the belt is probably the smallest problem.

                      Sara2001 It's talking about something that is on my mind and important for me.

                      It's what I meant,yes,I don't thought about back talking.

                      Sara2001 Talking is the key.

                      Right.

                          a year later

                          @Michelle Type in Google: "chastity key tube". I think this is the simplest solution.

                          Michelle

                          Will you live far of your parents?
                          In this case you will need a key.
                          A safe with code can be an option, or my cousin has one connected to phone or their parents, and they have notice when she opens it.
                          Hygiene breaks are non negotiable.

                            Michelle nd there is a spare somewhere at their house, but I do not know where.

                            Most likely in the safe.

                              Michelle

                              is there an "emergency mechanism", i.e. that you call or text your parents and they tell you where the key is?

                              Christine Safe in her house, but she doesn't know the code.

                              at your mother's house? is the safe specifically for the keys or are there other things in there as well? because then i'm surprised she doesn't know the combination then.

                                    Angelina
                                    Even a very cheap safe of the type you can buy in any DIY market for 50-70 Euros will suffice.
                                    As long as the safe is harder to crack open than the belt itself, it is secure enough, because whoever wants to escape the belt will obviously go for the weakest link in the chain.

                                        curious As long as the safe is harder to crack open than the belt itself

                                        It's easier to crack than a belt, but you can't do it unnoticed.