Keys location

Sara2001

Angelina would it then mean giving up the lifestyle in general or would that then only refer to the partial aspect of your equipment?

It would mean that we have to deeply think about our lifestyle and if it is still the right thing to do for us. I think depending on how it happens, he may want to pause our lifestyle, too. That's why it is such a powerful punishment. If I ever want to change my situation, I will definitely avoid this way.

Angelina

Sara2001

so it's more of an all or nothing decision and your equipment and the rest of your lifestyle are connected? really sounds like a punishment now

Vanessa

Sara2001

Interesting possibility!😉

Sara2001

I can understand it,yes,if it do not only impact your chastity belt.

Sara2001 we would have to definitely re-establish the trust between us

If you stop your lifestyle,but stay a couple this way,you would not trust you anymore?Even for a single bad choice?

Joh

Right.

Angelina if you really can't stand living this lifestyle anymore it is better to talk to Daniel openly than to break it secretly and endanger the relationship.

I agree.

Sara2001

Angelina so it's more of an all or nothing decision and your equipment and the rest of your lifestyle are connected? really sounds like a punishment now

The relationship itself would stay, but we would have to definitely re-establish the trust between us and many other things. I will do anything to prevent it. If I feel that I need more orgasms, I will find ways that work with his support. Even if I have to wait longer for it to happen. I think I will never have an orgasm on purpose without his permission.

Joh

Angelina For me it sounds like they working on the relation and find out a way how it will fit for both. The same as you doing. The different is in the kind of relation.

Angelina

Sara2001

this also makes sense, if you really can't stand living this lifestyle anymore it is better to talk to Daniel openly than to break it secretly and endanger the relationship. trust is the most important thing no matter what kind of lifestyle you have.

Joh For me it sounds like they working on the relation and find out a way how it will fit for both. The same as you doing. The different is in the kind of relation.

i don't doubt that. the all or nothing was related to the lifestyle and not to the relationship in general.

Joh

Angelina
OK. Than I got it wrong. Sorry.

Angelina

Joh OK. Than I got it wrong. Sorry.

No Problem 🙂

Sara2001 No, if I have an orgasm on purpose without his permission. If we have a long talk about our lifestyle and then we change it, of course everything is fine.

i'll be honest, if you are at that point you should talk about your lifestyle first and not afterwards. it would be better for your mutual trust.

Sara2001

Vanessa If you stop your lifestyle,but stay a couple this way,you would not trust you anymore?Even for a single bad choice?

No, if I have an orgasm on purpose without his permission. If we have a long talk about our lifestyle and then we change it, of course everything is fine.

Sara2001

Angelina i'll be honest, if you are at that point you should talk about your lifestyle first and not afterwards. it would be better for your mutual trust.

That's exactly what I wanted to say. If I am at this point, I should have talked a long time before to him. To prevent me from not talking about it, this is a very useful punishment.

Angelina

Sara2001 That's exactly what I wanted to say. If I am at this point, I should have talked a long time before to him. To prevent me from not talking about it, this is a very useful punishment.

i agree that it makes sense, and talking is always the best way, and there should be no need for punishment.
I am glad that you also see it that way 😃

Vanessa

Sara2001

I agree.

Sara2001

To make you more tending to talk before disobeying purposely?

Sara2001

Angelina i agree that it makes sense, and talking is always the best way, and there should be no need for punishment.
I am glad that you also see it that way

There is no need to go through this punishment, but I think it makes sense that it is in place.

Angelina

Sara2001 There is no need to go through this punishment, but I think it makes sense that it is in place.

right, but if this punishment should be necessary, something is generally wrong, then the belt is probably the smallest problem.

Sara2001

Vanessa To make you more tending to talk before disobeying purposely?

It's not back talking. It's talking about something that is on my mind and important for me. During my weekly maintenance session I am supposed to talk about these kind of thoughts. I can't say it often enough. Talking is the key.

Joh

Sara2001
I agree and is so important in every relationship.

Vanessa

Sara2001 It's talking about something that is on my mind and important for me.

It's what I meant,yes,I don't thought about back talking.

Sara2001 Talking is the key.

Right.

Ines

@Michelle , look old discussions before open a new thread.

Andrew

@Michelle Type in Google: "chastity key tube". I think this is the simplest solution.

Michelle

strictfather both my parents have keys with their house keys, and there is a spare somewhere at their house, but I do not know where.

Ines

Michelle

Will you live far of your parents?
In this case you will need a key.
A safe with code can be an option, or my cousin has one connected to phone or their parents, and they have notice when she opens it.
Hygiene breaks are non negotiable.

Renita

Michelle nd there is a spare somewhere at their house, but I do not know where.

Most likely in the safe.

Angelina

Michelle

is there an "emergency mechanism", i.e. that you call or text your parents and they tell you where the key is?

Christine Safe in her house, but she doesn't know the code.

at your mother's house? is the safe specifically for the keys or are there other things in there as well? because then i'm surprised she doesn't know the combination then.

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