Angelina so it's more of an all or nothing decision and your equipment and the rest of your lifestyle are connected? really sounds like a punishment now

The relationship itself would stay, but we would have to definitely re-establish the trust between us and many other things. I will do anything to prevent it. If I feel that I need more orgasms, I will find ways that work with his support. Even if I have to wait longer for it to happen. I think I will never have an orgasm on purpose without his permission.

      Angelina For me it sounds like they working on the relation and find out a way how it will fit for both. The same as you doing. The different is in the kind of relation.

          Sara2001

          this also makes sense, if you really can't stand living this lifestyle anymore it is better to talk to Daniel openly than to break it secretly and endanger the relationship. trust is the most important thing no matter what kind of lifestyle you have.

          Joh For me it sounds like they working on the relation and find out a way how it will fit for both. The same as you doing. The different is in the kind of relation.

          i don't doubt that. the all or nothing was related to the lifestyle and not to the relationship in general.

                Sara2001

                Interesting possibility!😉

                Sara2001

                I can understand it,yes,if it do not only impact your chastity belt.

                Sara2001 we would have to definitely re-establish the trust between us

                If you stop your lifestyle,but stay a couple this way,you would not trust you anymore?Even for a single bad choice?

                Joh

                Right.

                Angelina if you really can't stand living this lifestyle anymore it is better to talk to Daniel openly than to break it secretly and endanger the relationship.

                I agree.

                            Vanessa If you stop your lifestyle,but stay a couple this way,you would not trust you anymore?Even for a single bad choice?

                            No, if I have an orgasm on purpose without his permission. If we have a long talk about our lifestyle and then we change it, of course everything is fine.

                                Joh OK. Than I got it wrong. Sorry.

                                No Problem 🙂

                                Sara2001 No, if I have an orgasm on purpose without his permission. If we have a long talk about our lifestyle and then we change it, of course everything is fine.

                                i'll be honest, if you are at that point you should talk about your lifestyle first and not afterwards. it would be better for your mutual trust.

                                      Angelina i'll be honest, if you are at that point you should talk about your lifestyle first and not afterwards. it would be better for your mutual trust.

                                      That's exactly what I wanted to say. If I am at this point, I should have talked a long time before to him. To prevent me from not talking about it, this is a very useful punishment.

                                          Sara2001 That's exactly what I wanted to say. If I am at this point, I should have talked a long time before to him. To prevent me from not talking about it, this is a very useful punishment.

                                          i agree that it makes sense, and talking is always the best way, and there should be no need for punishment.
                                          I am glad that you also see it that way 😃

                                              Angelina i agree that it makes sense, and talking is always the best way, and there should be no need for punishment.
                                              I am glad that you also see it that way

                                              There is no need to go through this punishment, but I think it makes sense that it is in place.

                                                  Vanessa To make you more tending to talk before disobeying purposely?

                                                  It's not back talking. It's talking about something that is on my mind and important for me. During my weekly maintenance session I am supposed to talk about these kind of thoughts. I can't say it often enough. Talking is the key.

                                                      Sara2001
                                                      I agree and is so important in every relationship.

                                                        Sara2001 There is no need to go through this punishment, but I think it makes sense that it is in place.

                                                        right, but if this punishment should be necessary, something is generally wrong, then the belt is probably the smallest problem.

                                                          Sara2001 It's talking about something that is on my mind and important for me.

                                                          It's what I meant,yes,I don't thought about back talking.

                                                          Sara2001 Talking is the key.

                                                          Right.

                                                              a year later

                                                              @Michelle Type in Google: "chastity key tube". I think this is the simplest solution.

                                                              Michelle

                                                              Will you live far of your parents?
                                                              In this case you will need a key.
                                                              A safe with code can be an option, or my cousin has one connected to phone or their parents, and they have notice when she opens it.
                                                              Hygiene breaks are non negotiable.