Chastity belts for compulsive male masturbation

Angelina

Jonas I think it's all about learning to channel sexual frustration into productive tasks,

I know what you mean, but I have to say that I have never found this to be the case with me, and it is not important to me how productive I am, but how successful I am.

Jonas or as @Fatherof3 very correctly points out... our partners.

I agree with this part

Vanessa

Angelina

I think the impact on other activities is a good indicator about it being excessive or not.

Angelina

I spend a lot of time here,too.Even if probably less than you.

But,if I remember well,you masturbated twice or third time a week,right?And,as you post here almost everyday,it may even mean you spend more time writing here than masturbating when it was possible!😉

Fatherof3

Right.

Angelina

I agree!

Fatherof3

Depends if it impacts how we act with our partner.And how he/she feels about it.

Angelina I know what you mean, but I have to say that I have never found this to be the case with me, and it is not important to me how productive I am, but how successful I am.

Similar for me,even I've to say I tend to studied,and now work,harder due to my chastity belt,to distract me form the urges I can't relieve,it is different than channeling sexual frustration.

And the drawbacks are more important than the positive effects,in my opinion.

Angelina

Vanessa I think the impact on other activities is a good indicator about it being excessive or not.

right, i see it exactly the same way

Vanessa I spend a lot of time here,too.Even if probably less than you.

But,if I remember well,you masturbated twice or third time a week,right?And,as you post here almost everyday,it may even mean you spend more time writing here than masturbating when it was possible!😉

i think we are relatively equal if i spend one hour here every day and you spend 3 hours every three days.

but yes sometimes i spend more time writing here than i would masturbating 😂

Vanessa And the drawbacks are more important than the positive effects,in my opinion.

right, but i have to say that this statement was meant more in general than in relation to the belt. 😉

Fatherof3

Vanessa Depends if it impacts how we act with our partner.And how he/she feels about it.

For sure. It has in fact changed the way I act. Before. I remember being more distant and self centered. I was pretty hard on the kids sometimes too even. Now. Simply put. We have a good time together. Im more focused. Im apt to getting things done around the house. Life is good.

Vanessa

Angelina i think we are relatively equal if i spend one hour here every day and you spend 3 hours every three days.

Right.

Angelina but yes sometimes i spend more time writing here than i would masturbating 😂

An argument you can use to make your father decide to remove your chastity belt,maybe?😉

Fatherof3 It has in fact changed the way I act.

I've read it has often this effect,after wearing a chastity cage,many women finds their partner more loving and caring for them and wanting to make them happy.But I wonder if it a unplanned side effect,or if the man does it for making his partner more willing to take the cage off...

Fatherof3

Vanessa i would say both. After all she does hold the key. And of coarse i wanna get off (to put it bluntly). We still have the endorphins and what not that are elevated beyond our normal levels that would cause use to be more loving to our partner too.

Jonas

Vanessa many women finds their partner more loving and caring for them and wanting to make them happy.But I wonder if it a unplanned side effect,or if the man does it for making his partner more willing to take the cage off...

I think men should have to put in some effort if they want sex. Masturbation increasingly short-circuits the whole process and leaves men pleasuring themselves without putting in any effort into their relationship at all.

Angelina

Vanessa An argument you can use to make your father decide to remove your chastity belt,maybe?😉

probably not. if his goal was for me to spend more productive time he failed, but now i don't leave the forum. so i would masturbate and write here 😉

Vanessa

Fatherof3

Interesting to know the experiences from someone in this situation!

Fatherof3

Jonas This was literally me. lol. So ashamed to admit it.

Jonas

Fatherof3 I think it's the nature of the beast, cravings of all kinds cause your world to get smaller and smaller, it's why at this point in my life I've so strongly decided that masturbation itself is a problem.

Fatherof3 Jonas So ashamed to admit it.

Don't feel bad. Feel good! You've recognised, addressed and solved a problem you had! That puts you well into the highest percentile!! 💯

Vanessa

Angelina

🤣

Angelina

Vanessa

you laugh, but at least in the beginning it was really a goal of my father. it was his own fault, i would say 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

It seems it is a fail,so!😉

Angelina

Vanessa

well, he can't always be successful 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Too bad he was successful to find a secure chastity belt!

Angelina

Vanessa

unfortunately yes, even though I like writing here it would have been better the other way round.

Vanessa

Angelina

Understandable!

It would have been good to be free of it,soon after knowing this forum:writing here and being free of the chastity belt! 😉

Angelina

Vanessa

unfortunately, there has not yet been such a case here (as far as I remember) but fortunately there are a few candidates.

Vanessa

Angelina

I don't think one of us,still writing,is now free of the chastity belt,yes.I hope some would be this year,however(and continue to write on this board).

Angelina

Vanessa

I would definitely be interested in the experiences 😉

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