Chastity belts for compulsive male masturbation

Max9

Multiple orgasms ... wow ... sounds like I do miss a lot ... I never had one ... ok, I did ejaculate already of course but I never sort of felt anything doing so.

Vanessa

Angelina becuase of too much mastubation, more important things are not done

I think it depends on how often we do it.As long as it is not excessive,it should not impact too much other activities.

Conrad

It is a bit higher than average(I think it is once or twice a day for a man).Did it impacted other activities?

Fatherof3

Men can get multiple orgasms?

Max9

As far as I know,only women can have multiple orgasms;but it seems males can too,even if I think it is pretty rare.

Fatherof3

Vanessa Men can get multiple orgasms?

Most certainly. Makes a bad habit worse. lol

Angelina

Vanessa as it is not excessive,it should not impact too much other activities.

that's exactly how I see it, but everyone defines it differently

Conrad

I can still do most normal activities of life if I’m masturbating excessively but I am more fatigued, not as happy or attentive.

Fatherof3

Angelina True. but imagine how much more could be done if not wasting time with bad habits.

Vanessa

Angelina

I think the impact on other activities is a good indicator about it being excessive or not.

Angelina

I spend a lot of time here,too.Even if probably less than you.

But,if I remember well,you masturbated twice or third time a week,right?And,as you post here almost everyday,it may even mean you spend more time writing here than masturbating when it was possible!😉

Fatherof3

Right.

Angelina

I agree!

Fatherof3

Depends if it impacts how we act with our partner.And how he/she feels about it.

Angelina I know what you mean, but I have to say that I have never found this to be the case with me, and it is not important to me how productive I am, but how successful I am.

Similar for me,even I've to say I tend to studied,and now work,harder due to my chastity belt,to distract me form the urges I can't relieve,it is different than channeling sexual frustration.

And the drawbacks are more important than the positive effects,in my opinion.

Angelina

Fatherof3 True. but imagine how much more could be done if not wasting time with bad habits.

well i use the time to write here, which costs as much or even more time (like today) 🤣

Jonas

Fatherof3 True. but imagine how much more could be done if not wasting time with bad habits.

My wife was relatively relaxed about my problem... right up until I sat down and added up exactly how much time I'd wasted and showed it to her.

People don't get that orgasm is best kept as a rare reward for achieving something worthwhile. Masturbation is a sexual short-circuit. It cuts out all the living, achieving and failing and fighting back and rewards you for doing absolutely nothing!

Fatherof3

Angelina LOL. But you are sharing information. So its not a complete waste.

Angelina

Fatherof3 LOL. But you are sharing information. So its not a complete waste.

well, orgasms are also not a complete waste, after all they increase the feeling of happiness 🙂

Fatherof3

Jonas Not to mention selfish toward the partner.

Angelina

Jonas and rewards you for doing absolutely nothing!

Maybe it sounds a bit off topic, but isn't that something we all wish for ?

Fatherof3 Not to mention selfish toward the partner.

that's right, that's an important reason why i don't want to masturbate after my wedding, but would like to concentrate my sexual pleasure entirely on my wife 🙂

Jonas

Jonas and rewards you for doing absolutely nothing!
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Angelina ...but isn't that something we all wish for ?

Hunger drives us to find the best food. Our muscles ache to find the best work. Our minds search to find the most interesting company. If we could satisfy all these needs ourselves we'd have no life...

Better to be a little bit frustrated, but also a dynamic, engaged and productive individual I think!

Jonas

Fatherof3 Jonas Not to mention selfish toward the partner.

Will always feel guilty about this, but again, if the feeling is all channelled back into my commitment to chastity and fidelity, then it's all good.

Angelina

Jonas Better to be a little bit frustrated, but also a dynamic, engaged and productive individual I think!

in general i agree, but only as long as this effort leads to more success than if we are lazy.

Jonas

Angelina I think it's all about learning to channel sexual frustration into productive tasks, or as @Fatherof3 very correctly points out... our partners.

Angelina

Jonas I think it's all about learning to channel sexual frustration into productive tasks,

I know what you mean, but I have to say that I have never found this to be the case with me, and it is not important to me how productive I am, but how successful I am.

Jonas or as @Fatherof3 very correctly points out... our partners.

I agree with this part

Angelina

Vanessa I think the impact on other activities is a good indicator about it being excessive or not.

right, i see it exactly the same way

Vanessa I spend a lot of time here,too.Even if probably less than you.

But,if I remember well,you masturbated twice or third time a week,right?And,as you post here almost everyday,it may even mean you spend more time writing here than masturbating when it was possible!😉

i think we are relatively equal if i spend one hour here every day and you spend 3 hours every three days.

but yes sometimes i spend more time writing here than i would masturbating 😂

Vanessa And the drawbacks are more important than the positive effects,in my opinion.

right, but i have to say that this statement was meant more in general than in relation to the belt. 😉

Fatherof3

Vanessa Depends if it impacts how we act with our partner.And how he/she feels about it.

For sure. It has in fact changed the way I act. Before. I remember being more distant and self centered. I was pretty hard on the kids sometimes too even. Now. Simply put. We have a good time together. Im more focused. Im apt to getting things done around the house. Life is good.

Vanessa

Angelina i think we are relatively equal if i spend one hour here every day and you spend 3 hours every three days.

Right.

Angelina but yes sometimes i spend more time writing here than i would masturbating 😂

An argument you can use to make your father decide to remove your chastity belt,maybe?😉

Fatherof3 It has in fact changed the way I act.

I've read it has often this effect,after wearing a chastity cage,many women finds their partner more loving and caring for them and wanting to make them happy.But I wonder if it a unplanned side effect,or if the man does it for making his partner more willing to take the cage off...

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