catherine98 (and Laura for a part of this anwser)
There was a hard argument between you and your mother!But I'm not surprised,I guess it would be very similar with my parents,if I said I won't accept to wear the chastity belt anymore...Good you managed to keep your free day,at least.The problem with such talk,is we cant't give a "good" reason to quit chastity,if we've worn the belt without too much troubles,without showing we want to have sex or masturbate...Anyway,your mother seems to have thought a lot about it!I'm not so sure most of us here will like to have experienced it later,however...
Good news about this guy;I think you should have a talk with him.If he has waited for you so long,even if you're not dating,he's probably truely interested by you.Try to be sure he will keep your secret and if yes,tell him about the chastity belt,and that it is not your choice aand have to agreed for keeping financial support,a place to live and a good relationship with your family.
Great you're free of thigh bands for a few weeks,but not good you've to wait so long until you can orgasm again.No free day is hard.
I agree it is hard to not think about our chatsity belt and what it means...Less free,not possible to be naked,yes,but too to take care it doesn't show under your clcothes or when bending,sitting...I guees you know the picture of Marylin Monroe with her skirt lifted up?It's something we must take care it doesn't happen to us,for example!
My parents say the same;if someone break up with me due to my belt,it si clear that he/she only wanted sex.even if they've not said it recently,since I'm in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend.
I personally wear mine permanently since a bit more than 2 years now,without any orgasm,and I still get urges,want pleasure and am frsutrated...Getting orgasm is a natural function,it is not a habit we can lose like smoking cigarettes,I think.
Like Laura,it is more education and discipline than religion,in my case.