Vanessa Even if I'm sure it is not necessary to be deeply in love,I think love at first sight can happen,but it is uncommon.And it seems to be harder(but possible)to make a true relationship from it,when the passion start to reduce.

I think you can fall in love, but if it can really become a relationship, you will see only in the course of time 😉

      Angelina

      It depends;some relationships can become serious ones pretty quickly.At the opposite,it can be noticed quickly too it won't lead to anything serious.

          Vanessa

          it can get serious very fast, i agree with you. with me and camryn it also worked very fast. but definitely it is not possible at the first meeting, because we have to get to know each other first 😉

              Subject is not unusual among teens, most were involved in it at least once.

                Laura I can't argue with you and also suggest it.

                  Angelina

                  I agree.At the first date,even if there is love at first sight,I don't think it is a serious relationship.Same if we have sex the first time we met.

                  Laura

                  If wanting to prevent it,yes.

                  Not sure it should always be prevented,however.

                        Vanessa

                        I would never force my daughter to.

                        but if my daughter has sex at first meet, I would at least talk to her about a cb 😉

                            Vanessa Not sure it should always be prevented,however.

                            I don't see any pros of it

                                Its overrated topic. There are not many such situations except promiscuous girls from disco which likes drugs or beeing hangover. If my child will do it, IT will have difficult talk with me and have to work off reputation. But i dont belive in it , good bring up child wont bahave like that od sees that parents loves and feel good together by contrast their peers parents....

                                  Angelina

                                  A talk is good,but not forcing,sure.

                                  Laura

                                  Pleasant feelings,can sometimes lead to a good relationship...

                                  newbie

                                  Hum,I can't agree.I did it more than once,never used drugs,was rarely drunk(twice,and I don't have sex these two times),and my parents love each other and are happy in their relationship.

                                  And I think I'm bring up well.

                                          newbie If my child will do it, IT will have difficult talk with me and have to work off reputation.

                                          If you had a daughter, would you suggest a chastity belt for her to prevent it?

                                          Vanessa Pleasant feelings,can sometimes lead to a good relationship...

                                          I doubt a good relationship should start from an instant sex

                                                newbie Its overrated topic. There are not many such situations except promiscuous girls from disco which likes drugs or beeing hangover.

                                                Unfortunately it's not overrate. And it happens more often than you imagine, primarily out of curiosity and the desire to keep up with others.

                                                    @Vanessa

                                                    it would only be a conversation, I would suggest this possibility to my daughter if she made bad experiences with it 😉

                                                    @newbie

                                                    i agree with @Renita, it happens very often and can be (parents' opinion) a reason for wearing a cb

                                                      Laura I doubt a good relationship should start from an instant sex

                                                      For personal experience,I can say it happens.But it not always the case,sure.

                                                      Renita the desire to keep up with others.

                                                      Right,I think it plays a part too.

                                                      Angelina it would only be a conversation, I would suggest this possibility to my daughter if she made bad experiences with it

                                                      And if she won't agree and continue to act this way?

                                                      Angelina i agree with @Renita, it happens very often and can be (parents' opinion) a reason for wearing a cb

                                                      I think too it is a "good" reason in parent's point of view to want their daughter start to use a chastity belt.

                                                      Laura

                                                      Have you misbehaved,even knowing it,only to do like others?

                                                      Why are you ashamed?

                                                                  Vanessa For personal experience,I can say it happens.

                                                                  But you would't have lost anything if waited for a while

                                                                  Vanessa Why are you ashamed?

                                                                  Because I was not up with others