Subject is not unusual among teens, most were involved in it at least once.

    Laura I can't argue with you and also suggest it.

      Angelina

      I agree.At the first date,even if there is love at first sight,I don't think it is a serious relationship.Same if we have sex the first time we met.

      Laura

      If wanting to prevent it,yes.

      Not sure it should always be prevented,however.

            Vanessa

            I would never force my daughter to.

            but if my daughter has sex at first meet, I would at least talk to her about a cb 😉

                Vanessa Not sure it should always be prevented,however.

                I don't see any pros of it

                    Its overrated topic. There are not many such situations except promiscuous girls from disco which likes drugs or beeing hangover. If my child will do it, IT will have difficult talk with me and have to work off reputation. But i dont belive in it , good bring up child wont bahave like that od sees that parents loves and feel good together by contrast their peers parents....

                      Angelina

                      A talk is good,but not forcing,sure.

                      Laura

                      Pleasant feelings,can sometimes lead to a good relationship...

                      newbie

                      Hum,I can't agree.I did it more than once,never used drugs,was rarely drunk(twice,and I don't have sex these two times),and my parents love each other and are happy in their relationship.

                      And I think I'm bring up well.

                              newbie If my child will do it, IT will have difficult talk with me and have to work off reputation.

                              If you had a daughter, would you suggest a chastity belt for her to prevent it?

                              Vanessa Pleasant feelings,can sometimes lead to a good relationship...

                              I doubt a good relationship should start from an instant sex

                                    newbie Its overrated topic. There are not many such situations except promiscuous girls from disco which likes drugs or beeing hangover.

                                    Unfortunately it's not overrate. And it happens more often than you imagine, primarily out of curiosity and the desire to keep up with others.

                                        @Vanessa

                                        it would only be a conversation, I would suggest this possibility to my daughter if she made bad experiences with it 😉

                                        @newbie

                                        i agree with @Renita, it happens very often and can be (parents' opinion) a reason for wearing a cb

                                          Laura I doubt a good relationship should start from an instant sex

                                          For personal experience,I can say it happens.But it not always the case,sure.

                                          Renita the desire to keep up with others.

                                          Right,I think it plays a part too.

                                          Angelina it would only be a conversation, I would suggest this possibility to my daughter if she made bad experiences with it

                                          And if she won't agree and continue to act this way?

                                          Angelina i agree with @Renita, it happens very often and can be (parents' opinion) a reason for wearing a cb

                                          I think too it is a "good" reason in parent's point of view to want their daughter start to use a chastity belt.

                                          Laura

                                          Have you misbehaved,even knowing it,only to do like others?

                                          Why are you ashamed?

                                                      Vanessa For personal experience,I can say it happens.

                                                      But you would't have lost anything if waited for a while

                                                      Vanessa Why are you ashamed?

                                                      Because I was not up with others

                                                            Vanessa And if she won't agree and continue to act this way?

                                                            I would never force my daughter, but then she would have to take the responsibility herself and I could only protect her very hard 🙁

                                                                Renita

                                                                but she would, I don't think this behavior is ok and I see no way to really protect her 🙁

                                                                    Laura But you would't have lost anything if waited for a while

                                                                    Maybe a more "open" woman would have "steal" him...Even if I agree,if he truely liked me,he should have waited.

                                                                    Laura Because I was not up with others

                                                                    Do you hesitated to do "forbidden things" due to it?

                                                                    Renita

                                                                    Probably right.

                                                                    Angelina

                                                                    Grounding,stricter rules about curfew/going out...