Sex on the first date

Laura

Renita That's why chastity belts should work, including for you

Renita

Laura I can't argue with you and also suggest it.

Vanessa

I agree.At the first date,even if there is love at first sight,I don't think it is a serious relationship.Same if we have sex the first time we met.

Laura

If wanting to prevent it,yes.

Not sure it should always be prevented,however.

Angelina

Vanessa

I would never force my daughter to.

but if my daughter has sex at first meet, I would at least talk to her about a cb 😉

Laura

Vanessa Not sure it should always be prevented,however.

I don't see any pros of it

Vanessa

Angelina

A talk is good,but not forcing,sure.

Laura

Pleasant feelings,can sometimes lead to a good relationship...

newbie

Hum,I can't agree.I did it more than once,never used drugs,was rarely drunk(twice,and I don't have sex these two times),and my parents love each other and are happy in their relationship.

And I think I'm bring up well.

newbie

Its overrated topic. There are not many such situations except promiscuous girls from disco which likes drugs or beeing hangover. If my child will do it, IT will have difficult talk with me and have to work off reputation. But i dont belive in it , good bring up child wont bahave like that od sees that parents loves and feel good together by contrast their peers parents....

Laura

newbie If my child will do it, IT will have difficult talk with me and have to work off reputation.

If you had a daughter, would you suggest a chastity belt for her to prevent it?

Vanessa Pleasant feelings,can sometimes lead to a good relationship...

I doubt a good relationship should start from an instant sex

Renita

newbie Its overrated topic. There are not many such situations except promiscuous girls from disco which likes drugs or beeing hangover.

Unfortunately it's not overrate. And it happens more often than you imagine, primarily out of curiosity and the desire to keep up with others.

Vanessa

Laura I doubt a good relationship should start from an instant sex

For personal experience,I can say it happens.But it not always the case,sure.

Renita the desire to keep up with others.

Right,I think it plays a part too.

Angelina it would only be a conversation, I would suggest this possibility to my daughter if she made bad experiences with it

And if she won't agree and continue to act this way?

Angelina i agree with @Renita, it happens very often and can be (parents' opinion) a reason for wearing a cb

I think too it is a "good" reason in parent's point of view to want their daughter start to use a chastity belt.

Laura

Have you misbehaved,even knowing it,only to do like others?

Why are you ashamed?

Laura

Renita nd the desire to keep up with others.

I felt myself ashamed because of this

Angelina

@Vanessa

it would only be a conversation, I would suggest this possibility to my daughter if she made bad experiences with it 😉

@newbie

i agree with @Renita, it happens very often and can be (parents' opinion) a reason for wearing a cb

Renita

Laura I think every still virgin at this age feels the same.

Laura

Vanessa For personal experience,I can say it happens.

But you would't have lost anything if waited for a while

Vanessa Why are you ashamed?

Because I was not up with others

Angelina

Vanessa And if she won't agree and continue to act this way?

I would never force my daughter, but then she would have to take the responsibility herself and I could only protect her very hard 🙁

Vanessa

Laura But you would't have lost anything if waited for a while

Maybe a more "open" woman would have "steal" him...Even if I agree,if he truely liked me,he should have waited.

Laura Because I was not up with others

Do you hesitated to do "forbidden things" due to it?

Renita

Probably right.

Angelina

Grounding,stricter rules about curfew/going out...

Renita

Angelina she would have to take the responsibility herself

She wouldn't.

Angelina

Renita

but she would, I don't think this behavior is ok and I see no way to really protect her 🙁

Laura

Vanessa Maybe a more "open" woman would have "steal" him.

For one night? 😅

Vanessa Do you hesitated to do "forbidden things" due to it?

No, I worn the belt by that time.

Vanessa

Laura For one night? 😅

Using this night as the start of a relationship,too.Or if I waited for a few days/weeks and she would steal him by being more open to sex quickly during it.

And if we started to date and he had sex with someone else,I would not like it much...

Laura No, I worn the belt by that time.

Oh,ok,so not useful to hesitate.

Laura

Vanessa Using this night as the start of a relationship,too.

And usually it is the end of a relationship

Vanessa Or if I waited for a few days/weeks and she would steal him by being more open to sex quickly during it

That's why more girl should wear chastity belts 🙂

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