Similar for me,masturbation was always forbidden for me(but allowed for my twin brother,unfair...),and preventing me to masturbate is clearly one of the reason for making me wear a chastity belt.So the secondary shield is always on,too
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Sara2001 Virginity is not a big value in our family
It's different for my family. Basically it's shame if a single girl is not virgin.
So secondary shield was not mandatory for me, but mom said it's hard to wear without it based on her experience and Tollyboy didn't make it it detachable. Either your belt is with or without it.
So she isn't against masturbating,it is mainly due to the sort of chastity belt you have,and to make it less uncomfortable?
If so,would she not allow you to stay alone sometimes in you bedroom,without the belt(even while taking your phone and locking the door during it to be sure you don't call or meet a man)?
Vanessa Initially I was supposed to wear the belt if I go outside or stay home alone. But I've broken this rule and got caught few times and she was tired from it. Also I stay home alone most of the time.
If you are talking about occasional releases just for masturbation, I wouldn't ask for it explicitly, biu when I raised a similar topic before she answered I was a big girl and not supposed to do it either.
Ok.Not willing to disobey,so.Too bad it was stricter after it anyway!
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Vanessa If so,would she not allow you to stay alone sometimes in you bedroom,without the belt(even while taking your phone and locking the door during it to be sure you don't call or meet a man)?
That's basically a curfew. That's not what I want. With the belt on I'm allowed to do whatever I wish and leave and come whenever I wish.
Vanessa Too bad it was stricter after it anyway!
That's my fault as well.
Laura That's basically a curfew. That's not what I want. With the belt on I'm allowed to do whatever I wish and leave and come whenever I wish.
I don't think especially at nigth,but 30mn/1h alone in your room,door locked,without the belt.But it seems she won't accept it anyway.
Laura That's my fault as well.
Right,but I think as it is not done especially for disobeying,some leniency woudl have been good.
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Vanessa I don't think especially at nigth,but 30mn/1h alone in your room,door locked,without the belt.But it seems she won't accept it anyway.
It's obvious what it is for. It's not like removing the belt for night time. I think any parent would say no in this case. I also have the separate Internet line in my room.
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Sara2001 That's due the nature of my work. What parents use doesn't fit my needs for few reasons, so I have own DSL line in my room.
Vanessa but as your belt was not mainly to prevent you to masturbate
Masturbation is not approved either , although they don't prevent it intentionally. So. it's not be an excuse to take the belt off.
Laura I suspect I would not have a key from that shield either.
I guess you're right.Usually,when we have to wear a belt with a secondary shield(with a lock),we haven't the key for this lock too.
Top bad they don't accept you masturbate,even if preventing it wasn't the main purpose of the belt in your case.
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As the shield is detachable,I think there is no problem to unlock it.But I never wear my belt without it on,so not sure how it works precisely.
I never wore my cb without secondary shield. It was always attached from the beginning.
But I often tried to imagine how it would be without.