Laura You broke it by sneaking out?

Yes,I talked about masturbating.Too bad she doesn't accept it,it would be helpful,I think,and make the wait until married easier.

      Vanessa You broke it by sneaking out?

      Basically, yes. But mostly unintentionally. You can't lock up yourself with a Tollyboy's lock, so I had to wait for her to get the belt on and I didn't want to.

        Ok.Not willing to disobey,so.Too bad it was stricter after it anyway!

          Vanessa If so,would she not allow you to stay alone sometimes in you bedroom,without the belt(even while taking your phone and locking the door during it to be sure you don't call or meet a man)?

          That's basically a curfew. That's not what I want. With the belt on I'm allowed to do whatever I wish and leave and come whenever I wish.

          Vanessa Too bad it was stricter after it anyway!

          That's my fault as well.

                Laura That's basically a curfew. That's not what I want. With the belt on I'm allowed to do whatever I wish and leave and come whenever I wish.

                I don't think especially at nigth,but 30mn/1h alone in your room,door locked,without the belt.But it seems she won't accept it anyway.

                Laura That's my fault as well.

                Right,but I think as it is not done especially for disobeying,some leniency woudl have been good.

                      Vanessa I don't think especially at nigth,but 30mn/1h alone in your room,door locked,without the belt.But it seems she won't accept it anyway.

                      It's obvious what it is for. It's not like removing the belt for night time. I think any parent would say no in this case. I also have the separate Internet line in my room.

                          Laura I also have the separate Internet line in my room.

                          For what purpose? Is it limited in any way? Don't you have a phone with mobile data?

                              Laura Yes,I don’t mean hiding it,but as your belt was not mainly to prevent you to masturbate,I hoped they may accept it.

                                  Sara2001 That's due the nature of my work. What parents use doesn't fit my needs for few reasons, so I have own DSL line in my room.

                                  Vanessa but as your belt was not mainly to prevent you to masturbate

                                  Masturbation is not approved either , although they don't prevent it intentionally. So. it's not be an excuse to take the belt off.

                                      7 days later

                                      Vanessa she needs everything then a belt with a removable secondary shield

                                          8 days later

                                          Laura I suspect I would not have a key from that shield either.

                                          I guess you're right.Usually,when we have to wear a belt with a secondary shield(with a lock),we haven't the key for this lock too.

                                          Top bad they don't accept you masturbate,even if preventing it wasn't the main purpose of the belt in your case.

                                              Vanessa Usually,when we have to wear a belt with a secondary shield(with a lock),we haven't the key for this lock too.

                                              @Renita had own key, but, yes, that's pretty rare. And in my case it's impossible. Another question if they could unlock just a secondary shield if it was detachable. Not sure.

                                                11 days later

                                                As the shield is detachable,I think there is no problem to unlock it.But I never wear my belt without it on,so not sure how it works precisely.

                                                  Vanessa But I never wear my belt without it on,so not sure how it works precisely.

                                                  Because it's not removable? Why did they order a non-removable?

                                                      I never wore my cb without secondary shield. It was always attached from the beginning.
                                                      But I often tried to imagine how it would be without.

                                                        catherine98 Only the shield of my waist style cb is better, because it is not adjustable, so the there is no additional lock, which makes the shield very flat.

                                                        From another topic. What is an adjustable shield (secondary)?

                                                            Laura Does it mean, the secondary shields were not detachable for your both belts?

                                                            It was never detached and it looks like that the secondary shield keeps somehow the pieces together for my-steel belts. I don‘t think that it can be worn with detached shield.

                                                                Renita What is an adjustable shield (secondary)?

                                                                For My-Steel Belts, there is an option to get an adjustable shield. In this case, the belt has a second lock on the secondary shield for length adjustment to modify the tightness in the crotch area. My first belt has this option. Since we never adjusted, the second belt was ordered without this option and due to the absence of a second lock it is flatter in the crotch