Purpose of preventing masturbation?

amber

I have to wear the belt because my mom doesn't want me to masturbate. This seems to be the main reason for wearing the chastity belt for most girls here, and I don't understand the purpose. Is it because we're too young to masturbate? Is it harmful? (I thought it wasn't?)

Angelina

amber

Counterquestion: what was your mother's reason? 😃

my father doesn't want it because he thinks that only our husband/wife should bring us to orgasm

Esteban

amber I have to wear the belt because my mom doesn't want me to masturbate. This seems to be the main reason for wearing the chastity belt for most girls here, and I don't understand the purpose. Is it because we're too young to masturbate? Is it harmful? (I thought it wasn't?)

You should know that there are absolutely no contraindications to female masturbation.

There is only one case that can be problematic, that of compulsive masturbation. Case where the girl is so addicted to pleasure that she only thinks of constantly satisfying herself. It therefore paradoxically becomes a moral suffering for her to have to control herself sexually. But this is a very rare case.

On the contrary, all the studies carried out on the subject demonstrate that masturbation is beneficial to the sexual and personal development of young girls.

It’s a perfectly healthy and normal practice for a girl your age and anyone who claims otherwise is ignorant or foolish.

Masturbation has even been shown to reduce the pain of menstruation in a completely natural way. In fact, when a girl masturbates, her body releases endorphins which prove to be much more effective painkillers than aspirin or paracetamol. It also works for migraines. (Headache)

By doing research on the web you will see that there are no medical contraindications for this intimate practice.

Conclusion : Being a parent does not mean that you are more intelligent than your child. 😁

Vanessa

amber Is it harmful? (I thought it wasn't?)

It isn't harmful at all.Except if excessive,of course.

Laura

One of the reason.

My parents think it it is unladylike to do it.And that I should control my urges better;

Often,one reason is because parents think it is the first step to have sex(and maybe become a slut).

amber

Does it mean you'll be able to take it off in some years?Or you can ask for permission(for example,if you're in a serious relationship)?

Angelina

Yes,it should be explained more.

Sara2001 Yes, at least it would be very difficult 🙂

He wouldn't be convinced,if noticing her girlfriend makes her happy,and that they truely love each other?

Angelina

Same for me,they never wanted to control my sexual orientation.

Johnathan

amber Although masturbation is not physically harmful, it does require a decent time investment and can be a little addictive IMO. Don't take my word for it though, I am not a girl.

amber

Angelina She said that I'm too young to have access to my private parts without her permission. She never directly said it was to prevent masturbation, but I can't think of any other reason.

Sara2001

Angelina my father doesn't want it because he thinks that only our husband/wife should bring us to orgasm

Same for me. My father thinks it's the man's privilege to be in charge of orgasms.

Laura

To let a girl concentrate on other things

Renita

Masturbation is shame, to avoid shame.

Angelina

amber

you've never exactly
asked for the reason ?

amber

Angelina I have - as i said, she told me that the reason is to make sure I don't access "there" without her permission.

Angelina

amber

what you are describing is your effect when you wear a cb

that's not nearly enough of a reason for me

amber

Angelina I know, but that's literally the reason she gives - she wants to make sure i don't have access there without her permission.

i know it sounds stupid, but believe me, talking to my mom about the belt is like that.

Angelina

amber

I feel very sorry for you 🙁

it's hard to wear a cb but if you can't talk to your mother about it it makes it even harder 🙁

i know it's not easy to talk about it but if you can manage to stay calm talking can help 😉 especially your mom knows better how hard it is for you

Jimmycane

amber after reading many of your messages amber I'm ver concerned for you in particular because it seems as though unlike the others who are controled for religious beliefs or as disaplinary measures, your mother simply desires control over you which I know can be very damaging mentally for you.

Angelina

Sara2001 My father thinks it's the man's privilege to be in charge of orgasms >
hmm interesting, if I would be raised by your father, I would never have an orgasm (because I am with a girl) ??? 🤣

Sara2001

Angelina Yes, at least it would be very difficult 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

luckily my father doesn't care as long as I'm married 🙂

Ines

Vanessa My parents think it it is unladylike to do it.And that I should control my urges better

Of course just my point of wiew, but in this I agree with their vision. I do not agree with force none girl, but the idea of a girl doing it... I do not like so much.

Raziel

I think another purpose is so you don't become addicted to pleasure and have a guy in your house, or end up pregnant, or prevent diseases, or to not be distracted from life/school, or your mother is religious and wants you to remain a virgin until marriage. Sounds like she still thinks you don't know what she means, so she keeps giving you a vague answer all the time. If you do admit to know what is sex, masturbating, and STDs are, she might be honest, but I don't know. You're belted until marriage now, or until 18, whatever your mother decides.

Angelina

Raziel

it could also be reasons - you're right 😉

that's why I think it's so important to talk openly about the topic, so that such misunderstandings don't arise 😉

but I think it won't change her situation much 🙁

Vanessa

Raziel

I think many of us wear a belt for at least one of these reasons,sure.

It is often until marriage...

Ines

For having been,and be presently,with unbelted girlfriends,I think it is not unladylike at all.It only means she enjoys her body and what she feels!🙂

Angelina but I think it won't change her situation much 🙁

I think too...

Jimmycane I disagree with many things said here but emphasize with many of you as my chastity experience has been fully consetual and for my own amusement. Angelina you in particular give very surprising advice now compared to months ago.

Possible.Maybe because we have larger understanding of it after discussing a lot with each other here.

Jimmycane

Difficult to say.Her mother hasn't explained well why she decided it,so it is difficult to know if there is a reason.

Angelina i just manage to get along with it better than in the beginning, but i think that is completely normal 😉

I think too it is normal.

Johnathan

If she doesn't do it excessively,it is not harmful.

Jimmycane

I don't agree.For me,it seems she managed it as she can't do otherwise,but still hate it,and wouldn't hesitate to stop wearing these(and the other devices),if she can.As she can't,it is better to try to manage these as well as possible...

Angelina

I don't think you expressed yourself badly,I understand you well.&

James

I agree.Especially as his first post was to explain women what they feel,and insist even after they tell him he was wrong...

James

Yes.Guys are welcomed here,and you can confirm it,but if it is for trolling or starting a flame war,they should try another place.

Sara2001

I have discussed about it with @Laura on Misterpoll,and we agreed to accept men,wearing or not a chastity cage/belt,as long as it is mainly for women and they respect it.What mainly men's posting here does.

Ines Anyway, Jimmycane, here all opinions are wellcome, but attitudes of "I will make you see the light, illiterate people" are not wellcome.

I agree.

Laura Chastity cages for girls? What are you talking about?

I noticed it too!😉

Jimmycane

Hi everyone my name isnt Jimmy, male clearly and 23, but for these purposes I've chosen that name for this, and I've just gone through most of everyone's chats from months and months ago and I dont think any of you are aware of this yet but many of you have gone through a major change in your beliefs and advice you give to others.

I disagree with many things said here but emphasize with many of you as my chastity experience has been fully consetual and for my own amusement. Angelina you in particular give very surprising advice now compared to months ago.

Angelina

Jimmycane

hi welcome to the forum 😃

how exactly do you mean that my advice has changed? i just manage to get along with it better than in the beginning, but i think that is completely normal 😉