Purpose of preventing masturbation?
especially your mom knows better how hard it is for you
amber I have to wear the belt because my mom doesn't want me to masturbate. This seems to be the main reason for wearing the chastity belt for most girls here, and I don't understand the purpose. Is it because we're too young to masturbate? Is it harmful? (I thought it wasn't?)
You should know that there are absolutely no contraindications to female masturbation.
There is only one case that can be problematic, that of compulsive masturbation. Case where the girl is so addicted to pleasure that she only thinks of constantly satisfying herself. It therefore paradoxically becomes a moral suffering for her to have to control herself sexually. But this is a very rare case.
On the contrary, all the studies carried out on the subject demonstrate that masturbation is beneficial to the sexual and personal development of young girls.
It’s a perfectly healthy and normal practice for a girl your age and anyone who claims otherwise is ignorant or foolish.
Masturbation has even been shown to reduce the pain of menstruation in a completely natural way. In fact, when a girl masturbates, her body releases endorphins which prove to be much more effective painkillers than aspirin or paracetamol. It also works for migraines. (Headache)
By doing research on the web you will see that there are no medical contraindications for this intimate practice.
Conclusion : Being a parent does not mean that you are more intelligent than your child. 
amber Is it harmful? (I thought it wasn't?)
It isn't harmful at all.Except if excessive,of course.
One of the reason.
My parents think it it is unladylike to do it.And that I should control my urges better;
Often,one reason is because parents think it is the first step to have sex(and maybe become a slut).
Does it mean you'll be able to take it off in some years?Or you can ask for permission(for example,if you're in a serious relationship)?
Yes,it should be explained more.
Sara2001 Yes, at least it would be very difficult
He wouldn't be convinced,if noticing her girlfriend makes her happy,and that they truely love each other?
Same for me,they never wanted to control my sexual orientation.
I think another purpose is so you don't become addicted to pleasure and have a guy in your house, or end up pregnant, or prevent diseases, or to not be distracted from life/school, or your mother is religious and wants you to remain a virgin until marriage. Sounds like she still thinks you don't know what she means, so she keeps giving you a vague answer all the time. If you do admit to know what is sex, masturbating, and STDs are, she might be honest, but I don't know. You're belted until marriage now, or until 18, whatever your mother decides.
Hi everyone my name isnt Jimmy, male clearly and 23, but for these purposes I've chosen that name for this, and I've just gone through most of everyone's chats from months and months ago and I dont think any of you are aware of this yet but many of you have gone through a major change in your beliefs and advice you give to others.
I disagree with many things said here but emphasize with many of you as my chastity experience has been fully consetual and for my own amusement. Angelina you in particular give very surprising advice now compared to months ago.
amber after reading many of your messages amber I'm ver concerned for you in particular because it seems as though unlike the others who are controled for religious beliefs or as disaplinary measures, your mother simply desires control over you which I know can be very damaging mentally for you.
amber Although masturbation is not physically harmful, it does require a decent time investment and can be a little addictive IMO. Don't take my word for it though, I am not a girl.
Angelina it's exactly that. There's a common thing seen in psychology where someone overtime will chose something familiar rather then unfamiliar, even if that thing is bad for them. You were terrified and miserable and were pleading with people on here when your thigh bands were added on. Now, because it's familiar, you just tell people to play nice, do as their told. The thigh bands worked and you've become a great deal more submissive then at the start. Your father was successful in what he was trying to do.
James any chance you could explain how I'm mansplaining by pointing out what I've noticed? Because it seems like the goal of alot of people on here is to help others get used to the chastity, which I respect, but I don't share this same reason for joining this discussion. I garuntee and I hope I'll be a different view point in this. It's ironic you say I'm mansplaining dispite men on here literally using chastity as disaplinary measures.
Angelina I respect that you see it differently, just this is what I've noticed. Your overall tone seems to have changed. In my personal opinion.
Jimmycane Because the definition of mansplaining is "to comment on or explain something to a woman in a condescending, overconfident, and often inaccurate or oversimplified manner."
You've come in here with a debating, white knight sort of attitude to prosthelytize. What you don't seem to appreciate is this is a forum made by women. Whatever you might think about their situations, you don't need to come in with an offensive manner, as if you're seeking to shake the apples off a stubborn tree in early fall.