I have to wear the belt because my mom doesn't want me to masturbate. This seems to be the main reason for wearing the chastity belt for most girls here, and I don't understand the purpose. Is it because we're too young to masturbate? Is it harmful? (I thought it wasn't?)

    amber

    Counterquestion: what was your mother's reason? 😃

    my father doesn't want it because he thinks that only our husband/wife should bring us to orgasm

        Angelina She said that I'm too young to have access to my private parts without her permission. She never directly said it was to prevent masturbation, but I can't think of any other reason.

            Angelina I have - as i said, she told me that the reason is to make sure I don't access "there" without her permission.

                amber

                what you are describing is your effect when you wear a cb

                that's not nearly enough of a reason for me

                    Angelina I know, but that's literally the reason she gives - she wants to make sure i don't have access there without her permission.

                    i know it sounds stupid, but believe me, talking to my mom about the belt is like that.

                        amber

                        I feel very sorry for you 🙁

                        it's hard to wear a cb but if you can't talk to your mother about it it makes it even harder 🙁

                        i know it's not easy to talk about it but if you can manage to stay calm talking can help 😉 especially your mom knows better how hard it is for you

                          amber I have to wear the belt because my mom doesn't want me to masturbate. This seems to be the main reason for wearing the chastity belt for most girls here, and I don't understand the purpose. Is it because we're too young to masturbate? Is it harmful? (I thought it wasn't?)

                          You should know that there are absolutely no contraindications to female masturbation.

                          There is only one case that can be problematic, that of compulsive masturbation. Case where the girl is so addicted to pleasure that she only thinks of constantly satisfying herself. It therefore paradoxically becomes a moral suffering for her to have to control herself sexually. But this is a very rare case.

                          On the contrary, all the studies carried out on the subject demonstrate that masturbation is beneficial to the sexual and personal development of young girls.

                          It’s a perfectly healthy and normal practice for a girl your age and anyone who claims otherwise is ignorant or foolish.

                          Masturbation has even been shown to reduce the pain of menstruation in a completely natural way. In fact, when a girl masturbates, her body releases endorphins which prove to be much more effective painkillers than aspirin or paracetamol. It also works for migraines. (Headache)

                          By doing research on the web you will see that there are no medical contraindications for this intimate practice.

                          Conclusion : Being a parent does not mean that you are more intelligent than your child. 😁

                            Angelina my father doesn't want it because he thinks that only our husband/wife should bring us to orgasm

                            Same for me. My father thinks it's the man's privilege to be in charge of orgasms.

                                Sara2001 My father thinks it's the man's privilege to be in charge of orgasms >
                                hmm interesting, if I would be raised by your father, I would never have an orgasm (because I am with a girl) ??? 🤣

                                    amber Is it harmful? (I thought it wasn't?)

                                    It isn't harmful at all.Except if excessive,of course.

                                    Laura

                                    One of the reason.

                                    My parents think it it is unladylike to do it.And that I should control my urges better;

                                    Often,one reason is because parents think it is the first step to have sex(and maybe become a slut).

                                    amber

                                    Does it mean you'll be able to take it off in some years?Or you can ask for permission(for example,if you're in a serious relationship)?

                                    Angelina

                                    Yes,it should be explained more.

                                    Sara2001 Yes, at least it would be very difficult 🙂

                                    He wouldn't be convinced,if noticing her girlfriend makes her happy,and that they truely love each other?

                                    Angelina

                                    Same for me,they never wanted to control my sexual orientation.

                                    • Ines replied to this.

                                                  I think another purpose is so you don't become addicted to pleasure and have a guy in your house, or end up pregnant, or prevent diseases, or to not be distracted from life/school, or your mother is religious and wants you to remain a virgin until marriage. Sounds like she still thinks you don't know what she means, so she keeps giving you a vague answer all the time. If you do admit to know what is sex, masturbating, and STDs are, she might be honest, but I don't know. You're belted until marriage now, or until 18, whatever your mother decides.

                                                    Vanessa My parents think it it is unladylike to do it.And that I should control my urges better

                                                    Of course just my point of wiew, but in this I agree with their vision. I do not agree with force none girl, but the idea of a girl doing it... I do not like so much.

                                                        Raziel

                                                        it could also be reasons - you're right 😉

                                                        that's why I think it's so important to talk openly about the topic, so that such misunderstandings don't arise 😉

                                                        but I think it won't change her situation much 🙁

                                                            Hi everyone my name isnt Jimmy, male clearly and 23, but for these purposes I've chosen that name for this, and I've just gone through most of everyone's chats from months and months ago and I dont think any of you are aware of this yet but many of you have gone through a major change in your beliefs and advice you give to others.

                                                            I disagree with many things said here but emphasize with many of you as my chastity experience has been fully consetual and for my own amusement. Angelina you in particular give very surprising advice now compared to months ago.