Purpose of preventing masturbation?

Angelina

Vanessa Being aroused and not being able to relieve ourself during several years,it is very different.

that's right, it is very important to emphasize again and again that we have no orgasm for several years and not for 1 or 2 weeks

Ines I think that await a bit to have sex is not bad for us the girls.

but it is a very big difference if you wait a little bit or have a relationship for years without orgasm

Ines

Angelina
Angelina, I think that when right moment for our sexuality would arrive, we would have a happy sexual life. It is not bad await.

Vanessa

Ines

In you case,the breaks probably help a bit the general feelings.

But,I don't think it is bad to give ourself some self-pleasure,or to have sex if in a serious relationship(with good possibility to lead to marriage).Even if we want to wait a bit.

Laura

I'm pretty sure I've read it,but I don't remember in which studies...

Angelina that's right, it is very important to emphasize again and again that we have no orgasm for several years and not for 1 or 2 weeks

The duration is very important to understand it,yes.Waiting a few weeks or severel years don't lead to the same feelings...

Angelina but it is a very big difference if you wait a little bit or have a relationship for years without orgasm

Sure.And,even if we quickly meet the right one for us(not often the case),usually,people don't marry before at least a few years of relationship.Especially if we met during studies.

Angelina

I agree.Happily,I could have decided when it is the right moment for my first time as it was years before I've to wear my chastity belt permanently(and I don't regret it,my boyfriend was sweet and patient).But I would have liked to be able to decide when to have sex with Emilie for the first time(it would have been the case months or years ago(we started to date together,with not dating anyone else,a bit more than 2 years ago),at least!)...

Angelina

Ines

yes but I would like to determine this right moment myself 😉

Ines

Vanessa t I would have liked to be able to decide when to have sex with Emilie for the first time

And you will do it! Happily!

Renita

Vanessa but I don't remember in which studies...

Hopefully not in porn 😃

Vanessa

Ines

No.I can't until married.If we decided it freely,we would had sex a long time ago.

Ines

Vanessa
Yes, Vanessa, but I mean.... I obviously understand conditions, but at the end last word is ours. If we choose, very logical and please I am not making criticism, other things before the release of the belt, at the end is because right moment has not arrived yet.
But... Is just my idea. I hope you will be very happy wife soon (but a happy belted one 😈)

Vanessa

Ines

In my case,it is because,having sex with Emilie before marriage would mean to stop wearing the belt,and it is the consequences(no financial support,breaking the relationship with my parents...)which make me not do it.Not because I don't think it it the right moment to have sex with Emilie.

And,even if we'll use the chastity belt as a game sometimes,I won't be a belted wife(nor Emilie)!😉

Renita Hopefully not in porn 😃

🤣

amber

At least,you have someone with who to discuss it a bit.It could help!

Laura You are not long in this. My cousin also wears one.

I also wonder if my cousins have/had to wear one,but I would never dare to ask it.And I won't ask my parents;they may not appreciate I want to know it,and I don't want them to think they should suggest it to my aunt and uncle,if they have not to wear one...

amber

I just found out a day ago that my cousin also wears a chastity belt. turns out she started wearing it earlier than me - she started in june or some time around that, which means that my mom probably got the idea from my aunt.
She somehow noticed mine, and asked me "do you also have to wear special underwear?" (it was very unezxpected, thought i would die of embarrassment lol).
We talked about it, turns out she doesn't know it's called a "chastity belt", because my aunt always calls it "special underwear" (my mom also does this).
I also asked her why she has to wear it - she said it's because girls shouldn't need access there during pubrety. She also doesn't know about masturbation (i didn't ask directly but it was obvious, i didn't tell her about it though).
I think both my mom and my aunt want to completely prevent masturbation.
Also now I know I'm not alone! 😃

Raziel

amber
Congrats on the chastity buddy! That is even better it is family, so you could share secrets and keep close. Stay cool and do your best to have a great lifestyle, because chastity isn't going to get in your way of being happy.

Laura

amber I just found out a day ago that my cousin also wears a chastity belt.

You are not long in this. My cousin also wears one.

amber she started in june or some time around that, which means that my mom probably got the idea from my aunt.

How old is she?

Renita

amber I think both my mom and my aunt want to completely prevent masturbation.

Do you have other siblings or cousins?

amber

Raziel Congrats on the chastity buddy! That is even better it is family, so you could share secrets and keep close.

thanks! I avoid bringing up the belt with her because it's a bit awkward, but knowing that i'm not alone is very good!

Laura How old is she?:

She's 18

Renita Do you have other siblings or cousins?

No, i just have 1 this cousin,

Vanessa At least,you have someone with who to discuss it a bit.It could help!

it did help 🙂 but some reason i just feel very embarassed when talking about the belt and that stuff in person. She was bringing it up to talk about it though, so we ended up talking about it.

Natescage

Laura I mean if it's a family tradition don't all the women in your family wear them?

Laura

Natescage I mean if it's a family tradition don't all the women in your family wear them?

The family tradition is virginity, not chastity belts. Although they are used more or less widely, not everybody wear them. However my cosine and the aunt(her mother) both wear

Sara2001

amber Also now I know I'm not alone! 😃

This makes a big difference. I am happy for you.

Vanessa I also wonder if my cousins have/had to wear one,

I know that in my family only the woman in my direct family wears one. Anybody else don't believe in chastity or thinks that the prevention of female masturbation is necessary.

But in exchange I know that it is possible to wear a chastity belt for decades, because my mother and Daniels mother both wear them for a VERY long time now.

Ines

Vanessa And,even if we'll use the chastity belt as a game sometimes,I won't be a belted wife(nor Emilie)!

I was just joking ( or not... 😇). Anyway I missed you here in the forum!

Christine

Vanessa ,and I don't want them to think they should suggest it to my aunt and uncle,if they have not to wear one...

That might be an idea for my mom.

Ines

Vanessa
Yes Vanessa, and I understand your view what is very logical, but at the end, what I want to say, is that in close future, you will can have all, Emilie, job, family and possibility of use or not use more your belt.
This is what I refer with right moment.
I hope it arrives very soon, you serve it. 🙂

Raziel

I'm just reading about some good effects in masturbating, and a google result shows "Relieve physical pain, reduce stress. Masturbation resulting in orgasm can release chemicals called endorphins, which have pain killing properties. They interact with the opiate receptors in your brain to alter your perception of pain." So if you want to include this in your arguments, it may be a fun fact to point out.

Renita

Raziel Relieve physical pain

Physical pain? Not for girls.

Vanessa

Raziel

Thank you.🙂

I don't think my parents would accept to let me do it even with this information,but it'll prove there is truely good effects!😉

Laura

If it is to protect virginity,why your aunt still wear it?

Ines

Thank you.I've less time due to work,but still try to come regularly.I'm glad you write more here too!🙂

Christine

What idea?To propose a chastity belt for your cousin?Why?

Ines

Yes,but I would have it too if I'm not wearing a chastity belt(or if we've been allowed to have sex together when we wanted)!😉

Sara2001

Yes,if consensual,and with possibility to orgasm sometimes,it would be more bearable,I think.

Sara2001

I don't think we can forget this feeling...Even if I haven't felt it since a few years,too....

Renita

Endorphins work for both gender.

Natescage

Laura interesting do you think you will want to continue with the belt when you are married or for your kids or out it in the past?

Laura

Natescage interesting do you think you will want to continue with the belt when you are married or for your kids or out it in the past?

I would like to stop wearing it. For a daughter, of course, yes

Natescage

Sara2001 does it scare you that that is the case with you mom and his mom? Seeing as he may want that for you I would be scared some about that.

Renita

Christine That might be an idea for my mom.

Do you have a cosine?

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