Ines

As,for most of us,it would be for years,it isn't totally inaccurate either...Being aroused in the middle of our work and having to wait until we're at home to relieve us,it is "not yet".Being aroused and not being able to relieve ourself during several years,it is very different.

Maybe it can impact different women in different ways...And,as you know,I don't think masturbation is a selfish activity,nor a not sweet one.

Angelina that's true, but we've never had sex

At least,you have some basis about knowing how your body works,and it is a good start.

Angelina I think it would be very uncomfortable in this forum 😂

🤣

Angelina but it can also go in the other direction. i think it depends on the character of a woman 😉

I think the same.

Laura However it's one more argument for parents 😂

But it can be a good argument against it too!😉

Angelina

Exactly!🙂

Christine Never heard about it.

However,some studies think it is good for a woman.

                  Vanessa

                  It is merely my subjective point of view.
                  In general it is good because we have stay calm, and even in my case that is very flexible, I have clear that to be nervous is not a motivation to be released, and thankfully, I have a lot of breaks for a wide range of reasons.
                  I think that await a bit to have sex is not bad for us the girls.

                      Vanessa However,some studies think it is good for a woman.

                      I have heard it about sex but not masturbation

                          Vanessa Being aroused and not being able to relieve ourself during several years,it is very different.

                          that's right, it is very important to emphasize again and again that we have no orgasm for several years and not for 1 or 2 weeks

                          Ines I think that await a bit to have sex is not bad for us the girls.

                          but it is a very big difference if you wait a little bit or have a relationship for years without orgasm

                                Angelina
                                Angelina, I think that when right moment for our sexuality would arrive, we would have a happy sexual life. It is not bad await.

                                    Ines

                                    yes but I would like to determine this right moment myself 😉

                                        Ines

                                        In you case,the breaks probably help a bit the general feelings.

                                        But,I don't think it is bad to give ourself some self-pleasure,or to have sex if in a serious relationship(with good possibility to lead to marriage).Even if we want to wait a bit.

                                        Laura

                                        I'm pretty sure I've read it,but I don't remember in which studies...

                                        Angelina that's right, it is very important to emphasize again and again that we have no orgasm for several years and not for 1 or 2 weeks

                                        The duration is very important to understand it,yes.Waiting a few weeks or severel years don't lead to the same feelings...

                                        Angelina but it is a very big difference if you wait a little bit or have a relationship for years without orgasm

                                        Sure.And,even if we quickly meet the right one for us(not often the case),usually,people don't marry before at least a few years of relationship.Especially if we met during studies.

                                        Angelina

                                        I agree.Happily,I could have decided when it is the right moment for my first time as it was years before I've to wear my chastity belt permanently(and I don't regret it,my boyfriend was sweet and patient).But I would have liked to be able to decide when to have sex with Emilie for the first time(it would have been the case months or years ago(we started to date together,with not dating anyone else,a bit more than 2 years ago),at least!)...

                                                    Vanessa t I would have liked to be able to decide when to have sex with Emilie for the first time

                                                    And you will do it! Happily!

                                                        Ines

                                                        No.I can't until married.If we decided it freely,we would had sex a long time ago.

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                                                            Vanessa
                                                            Yes, Vanessa, but I mean.... I obviously understand conditions, but at the end last word is ours. If we choose, very logical and please I am not making criticism, other things before the release of the belt, at the end is because right moment has not arrived yet.
                                                            But... Is just my idea. I hope you will be very happy wife soon (but a happy belted one 😈)

                                                                I just found out a day ago that my cousin also wears a chastity belt. turns out she started wearing it earlier than me - she started in june or some time around that, which means that my mom probably got the idea from my aunt.
                                                                She somehow noticed mine, and asked me "do you also have to wear special underwear?" (it was very unezxpected, thought i would die of embarrassment lol).
                                                                We talked about it, turns out she doesn't know it's called a "chastity belt", because my aunt always calls it "special underwear" (my mom also does this).
                                                                I also asked her why she has to wear it - she said it's because girls shouldn't need access there during pubrety. She also doesn't know about masturbation (i didn't ask directly but it was obvious, i didn't tell her about it though).
                                                                I think both my mom and my aunt want to completely prevent masturbation.
                                                                Also now I know I'm not alone! 😃

                                                                  amber
                                                                  Congrats on the chastity buddy! That is even better it is family, so you could share secrets and keep close. Stay cool and do your best to have a great lifestyle, because chastity isn't going to get in your way of being happy.

                                                                      amber I just found out a day ago that my cousin also wears a chastity belt.

                                                                      You are not long in this. My cousin also wears one.

                                                                      amber she started in june or some time around that, which means that my mom probably got the idea from my aunt.

                                                                      How old is she?

                                                                            Laura I mean if it's a family tradition don't all the women in your family wear them?

                                                                                amber I think both my mom and my aunt want to completely prevent masturbation.

                                                                                Do you have other siblings or cousins?

                                                                                    Ines

                                                                                    In my case,it is because,having sex with Emilie before marriage would mean to stop wearing the belt,and it is the consequences(no financial support,breaking the relationship with my parents...)which make me not do it.Not because I don't think it it the right moment to have sex with Emilie.

                                                                                    And,even if we'll use the chastity belt as a game sometimes,I won't be a belted wife(nor Emilie)!😉

                                                                                    Renita Hopefully not in porn 😃

                                                                                    🤣

                                                                                    amber

                                                                                    At least,you have someone with who to discuss it a bit.It could help!

                                                                                    Laura You are not long in this. My cousin also wears one.

                                                                                    I also wonder if my cousins have/had to wear one,but I would never dare to ask it.And I won't ask my parents;they may not appreciate I want to know it,and I don't want them to think they should suggest it to my aunt and uncle,if they have not to wear one...

                                                                                              I'm just reading about some good effects in masturbating, and a google result shows "Relieve physical pain, reduce stress. Masturbation resulting in orgasm can release chemicals called endorphins, which have pain killing properties. They interact with the opiate receptors in your brain to alter your perception of pain." So if you want to include this in your arguments, it may be a fun fact to point out.

                                                                                                Natescage I mean if it's a family tradition don't all the women in your family wear them?

                                                                                                The family tradition is virginity, not chastity belts. Although they are used more or less widely, not everybody wear them. However my cosine and the aunt(her mother) both wear

                                                                                                    Laura interesting do you think you will want to continue with the belt when you are married or for your kids or out it in the past?