Vanessa t I would have liked to be able to decide when to have sex with Emilie for the first time

And you will do it! Happily!

      Ines

      No.I can't until married.If we decided it freely,we would had sex a long time ago.

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          Vanessa
          Yes, Vanessa, but I mean.... I obviously understand conditions, but at the end last word is ours. If we choose, very logical and please I am not making criticism, other things before the release of the belt, at the end is because right moment has not arrived yet.
          But... Is just my idea. I hope you will be very happy wife soon (but a happy belted one 😈)

              I just found out a day ago that my cousin also wears a chastity belt. turns out she started wearing it earlier than me - she started in june or some time around that, which means that my mom probably got the idea from my aunt.
              She somehow noticed mine, and asked me "do you also have to wear special underwear?" (it was very unezxpected, thought i would die of embarrassment lol).
              We talked about it, turns out she doesn't know it's called a "chastity belt", because my aunt always calls it "special underwear" (my mom also does this).
              I also asked her why she has to wear it - she said it's because girls shouldn't need access there during pubrety. She also doesn't know about masturbation (i didn't ask directly but it was obvious, i didn't tell her about it though).
              I think both my mom and my aunt want to completely prevent masturbation.
              Also now I know I'm not alone! 😃

                amber
                Congrats on the chastity buddy! That is even better it is family, so you could share secrets and keep close. Stay cool and do your best to have a great lifestyle, because chastity isn't going to get in your way of being happy.

                    amber I just found out a day ago that my cousin also wears a chastity belt.

                    You are not long in this. My cousin also wears one.

                    amber she started in june or some time around that, which means that my mom probably got the idea from my aunt.

                    How old is she?

                          Laura I mean if it's a family tradition don't all the women in your family wear them?

                              amber I think both my mom and my aunt want to completely prevent masturbation.

                              Do you have other siblings or cousins?

                                  Ines

                                  In my case,it is because,having sex with Emilie before marriage would mean to stop wearing the belt,and it is the consequences(no financial support,breaking the relationship with my parents...)which make me not do it.Not because I don't think it it the right moment to have sex with Emilie.

                                  And,even if we'll use the chastity belt as a game sometimes,I won't be a belted wife(nor Emilie)!😉

                                  Renita Hopefully not in porn 😃

                                  🤣

                                  amber

                                  At least,you have someone with who to discuss it a bit.It could help!

                                  Laura You are not long in this. My cousin also wears one.

                                  I also wonder if my cousins have/had to wear one,but I would never dare to ask it.And I won't ask my parents;they may not appreciate I want to know it,and I don't want them to think they should suggest it to my aunt and uncle,if they have not to wear one...

                                            I'm just reading about some good effects in masturbating, and a google result shows "Relieve physical pain, reduce stress. Masturbation resulting in orgasm can release chemicals called endorphins, which have pain killing properties. They interact with the opiate receptors in your brain to alter your perception of pain." So if you want to include this in your arguments, it may be a fun fact to point out.

                                              Natescage I mean if it's a family tradition don't all the women in your family wear them?

                                              The family tradition is virginity, not chastity belts. Although they are used more or less widely, not everybody wear them. However my cosine and the aunt(her mother) both wear

                                                  Laura interesting do you think you will want to continue with the belt when you are married or for your kids or out it in the past?

                                                      amber Also now I know I'm not alone! 😃

                                                      This makes a big difference. I am happy for you.

                                                      Vanessa I also wonder if my cousins have/had to wear one,

                                                      I know that in my family only the woman in my direct family wears one. Anybody else don't believe in chastity or thinks that the prevention of female masturbation is necessary.

                                                      But in exchange I know that it is possible to wear a chastity belt for decades, because my mother and Daniels mother both wear them for a VERY long time now.

                                                            Vanessa And,even if we'll use the chastity belt as a game sometimes,I won't be a belted wife(nor Emilie)!

                                                            I was just joking ( or not... 😇). Anyway I missed you here in the forum!

                                                                Vanessa ,and I don't want them to think they should suggest it to my aunt and uncle,if they have not to wear one...

                                                                That might be an idea for my mom.

                                                                    Vanessa
                                                                    Yes Vanessa, and I understand your view what is very logical, but at the end, what I want to say, is that in close future, you will can have all, Emilie, job, family and possibility of use or not use more your belt.
                                                                    This is what I refer with right moment.
                                                                    I hope it arrives very soon, you serve it. 🙂

                                                                        Natescage interesting do you think you will want to continue with the belt when you are married or for your kids or out it in the past?

                                                                        I would like to stop wearing it. For a daughter, of course, yes

                                                                            Laura I understand I kinda agree just because I saw so much unhappiness when I was younger in a lot or people especially girls a belt would help with the bad relationship issues by just preventing the main part of u healthy relationships which is sex

                                                                              Sara2001 does it scare you that that is the case with you mom and his mom? Seeing as he may want that for you I would be scared some about that.