Angelina

Even if it would be fun we both marry the same year,I hope it won't take that long!😉

    Angelina when it becomes 2023, we can have a double wedding 🤣

    It's very likely that our wedding is in 2023, too. Maybe a year earlier or later. I think 3 years of relationship is the minimum but it should not be much more then 5 years. 3 years feels right for me.

        Sara2001

        it gets pretty crowded in the church 🤣

        i do not have a minimum or maximum but we should be very sure that we are happy with our partner 🙂

            Angelina i do not have a minimum or maximum but we should be very sure that we are happy with our partner 🙂

            I think I am sure for myself. In your case the church need to be happy with your choice, too.

                Sara2001
                yes i know, i am not sure if a church wedding is possible, but maybe there are more liberal laws until then 😉

                    Sara2001

                    No maximum for me,but 3 years of relationship before getting married is good,yes.If very in love,and sure of us,2 years could be ok too,I think.

                    Angelina we should be very sure that we are happy with our partner 🙂

                    Of course.

                    Angelina

                    I think for homosexual couples,it would be only at the town hall(or on a ship...Captains are allowed to marry people on their ships).

                            Vanessa

                            it doesn't work on a ship because camryn is seasick 😂

                            i know it is difficult, i hope that the church will perhaps become more open in the next 2-3 years

                                Sara2001

                                i see this positively, the church has had 2000 years to think about this and can now reconsider its decision 🤣

                                  Angelina it gets pretty crowded in the church 🤣

                                  There are a lot of young religious couples in rural USA who follow the church doctrine to the letter. They marry the moment they are allowed to and work whatever job is available (they are up all night before wedding and at door before sunrise). Their beliefs seem to work better for them than our attire worked for me or @Laura

                                      Megan

                                      the problem is that the church in germany is simply very old fashioned

                                      i am currently thinking about whether i can convince my church when i say that i wore a cb until the wedding and am getting married as a virgin, it represents the old values of the church 🤣

                                          Angelina i am currently thinking about whether i can convince my church when i say that i wore a cb until the wedding and am getting married as a virgin, it represents the old values of the church 🤣

                                          The problem is that for the church the only purpose of marriage is reproduction. So they will never see a benefit in your relationship.

                                              Sara2001 the only purpose of marriage is reproduction.

                                              it is possible, just not in a conventional way 😉

                                                  Angelina it doesn't work on a ship because camryn is seasick 😂

                                                  There is pills against it!😉

                                                      Angelina it is possible, just not in a conventional way 😉

                                                      That's not how the church is thinking 🤣

                                                          Vanessa There is pills against it!😉

                                                          I don't want my girlfriend to be on drugs during the wedding. 🤣 🤣 🤣

                                                          Sara2001 That's not how the church is thinking 🤣

                                                          but it leaves a little room for interpretation 😉

                                                                Angelina I don't want my girlfriend to be on drugs during the wedding. 🤣 🤣 🤣

                                                                As far as I know,there is no side effect with it.

                                                                    Angelina

                                                                    Emilie and me don't plan it too,even if I think it would be a pretty setting,far from the dock,with a beautiful sunshine...