Vanessa I prefer to think about it this way,more romantic and optimistic!😉

romantic and optimistic are prerequisites for love 🙂

    Vanessa Love is not a logical choice.We don't choose someone with who we may spend our life with as we choose a new car...

    Laura That's kind of market in my opinion. You have bids, asks and matches

    Agreed and agreed. However, going from love to marriage does add other considerations - if there's not a bunch of things she does you like - cooks well. is kind, insightful, whatever you like - why go there?

      Vanessa ,it is not always the main search in a relationship...

      Being realistic, it is.

      Megan there are guys with not just $ but their own virtues and values

      Usually such guys also have $$$.

        Angelina

        Better if we think this way,yes.

        James

        If there is not a lot of things we like in each other,I don't think the relationship would last long enough to think about marriage,anyway.

        Renita Being realistic, it is.

        For long lasting relationships,maybe.But when we date while not thinking too much about finding a partner for our life,not necessarily.

          Vanessa

          i think that money plays a role later in a relationship, but certainly not in the beginning (at least it should not)

            @Christine The real question is if you'd change continents to be free from chastity? If you were to move to the USA or Europe or elsewhere, would you?

            Also, take time to know someone than be in a miserable relationship with someone you barely know. Marriage is a life-long commitment. 😉

              Raziel The real question is if you'd change continents to be free from chastity?

              If you address this question to me, I would go live overseas, but it requires a lot a paperwork

              Raziel If you were to move to the USA or Europe or elsewhere, would you?

              Suggesting yourself? 😃

                Renita Nope. I don't know her that well and if she's in a hurry to escape, that isn't a great reason to force myself to knowing her better to see if a relationship can happen, plus, I'll stick to being anonymous for now. Although, if you want to marry a woman, you could offer yourself and get to know her better. 😉

                  Angelina

                  Sure,it should not be taken into account,at the start of a relationship,And,even later,it should not be a major issue which could damage the relationship.

                  Angelina

                  I like your answer! 🙂

                  Angelina

                  Same.I want to be able to be financially independant.

                  Raziel The real question is if you'd change continents to be free from chastity? If you were to move to the USA or Europe or elsewhere, would you?

                  If only for this reason,it would be extreme!

                  Raziel Also, take time to know someone than be in a miserable relationship with someone you barely know. Marriage is a life-long commitment. 😉

                  I agree.

                    You could marry me, get the belt removed, then magically "disappear from the radar"😛

                    Raziel Although, if you want to marry a woman, you could offer yourself and get to know her better.

                    Thank you for advice, but I'm straight 😃

                    Vanessa Sure,it should not be taken into account,at the start of a relationship,And,even later,it should not be a major issue which could damage the relationship.

                    it should at least not lead to a separation or divorce, unfortunately I have heard that several times 🙁

                      James the question I'd ask is why should I take you?

                      Coz I'm not worse than others.

                      Raziel The real question is if you'd change continents to be free from chastity?

                      I don't need to go so far. A next door is enough.