Renita

that's the problem, I have tried to be permanently realistic, but then I am very negative (automatically) 😉

      Vanessa

      I have to, especially when it comes to the topic of sex (otherwise I would be very sad) 🙂 🙁

          Angelina You are supposed to be positive and enthusiastic due your age.

            Renita You do? I only know guys with debts 😃

            Well if you look a little harder there are guys with not just $ but their own virtues and values

                Christine They are all taken.

                No, they aren't. Sure, I have money - the question I'd ask is why should I take you?

                Not trying to be mean, but that's the core of any relationship - why should it be you? Not any other girl or guy?

                    Angelina

                    Sure!

                    But not easy to find positive things about being prevented to do it...

                    Christine

                    I don't think so.Nowadays,it is not always the main search in a relationship...

                    James

                    Love is not a logical choice.We don't choose someone with who we may spend our life with as we choose a new car...

                    Laura

                    It is pretty pessimistic...

                    With this logic,all relationships are based on a choice "by default"...

                              Vanessa With this logic,all relationships are based on a choice "by default"...

                              That's kind of market in my opinion. You have bids, asks and matches

                                  Laura

                                  I personally think love can happen between persons you would never have thought they could matches,even if they didn't do anything to make it happens.

                                  I prefer to think about it this way,more romantic and optimistic!😉

                                      Vanessa I prefer to think about it this way,more romantic and optimistic!😉

                                      romantic and optimistic are prerequisites for love 🙂

                                          Vanessa Love is not a logical choice.We don't choose someone with who we may spend our life with as we choose a new car...

                                          Laura That's kind of market in my opinion. You have bids, asks and matches

                                          Agreed and agreed. However, going from love to marriage does add other considerations - if there's not a bunch of things she does you like - cooks well. is kind, insightful, whatever you like - why go there?

                                                Vanessa ,it is not always the main search in a relationship...

                                                Being realistic, it is.

                                                Megan there are guys with not just $ but their own virtues and values

                                                Usually such guys also have $$$.